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LisaR:
I am new here and, therefore may not have a right to share my feelings about the issue regarding Francois' link. That being said, something jumps out at me here. All responses to her reaction to her link being removed are in their own way valid from a logical perspective. However, we are sensitive to the invisible writing of subtext innuendo. We are constantly sub-consciously trying to get a fix on our position in the social cosmos.
"am I warm, near the sun, closer to the centre--- accepted and welcomed, or have I done or said something so grosse I've become a mere dot orbiting Pluto.
I detected from the enthusiasm behind Francois' initial post and link passion and admiration for the people it was meant to reach. Although it wasn't intended as a slap in the face, the lack of notification felt like it for her.
The sub- conscious which rules social interactions IS a black or white feeler. It doesn't really "think". It feels it has been placed squarely and safely inside or outside.
It is probably best when someone feels personally rejected to reassure them that they truly rock. Many members on this forum are probably over sensitive to criticism-- as part of an over all hyper sensitive nature.
Just saying'. Hope I haven't ruffled any feathers. If I have, just consider yourself preemptively gifted with a "and you truly rock", too! ;D
anart:
--- Quote from: LisaR on November 03, 2012, 10:36:49 PM ---
I am new here and, therefore may not have a right to share my feelings about the issue regarding Francois' link. That being said, something jumps out at me here. All responses to her reaction to her link being removed are in their own way valid from a logical perspective. However, we are sensitive to the invisible writing of subtext innuendo. We are constantly sub-consciously trying to get a fix on our position in the social cosmos.
"am I warm, near the sun, closer to the centre--- accepted and welcomed, or have I done or said something so grosse I've become a mere dot orbiting Pluto.
I detected from the enthusiasm behind Francois' initial post and link passion and admiration for the people it was meant to reach. Although it wasn't intended as a slap in the face, the lack of notification felt like it for her.
The sub- conscious which rules social interactions IS a black or white feeler. It doesn't really "think". It feels it has been placed squarely and safely inside or outside.
It is probably best when someone feels personally rejected to reassure them that they truly rock. Many members on this forum are probably over sensitive to criticism-- as part of an over all hyper sensitive nature.
Just saying'. Hope I haven't ruffled any feathers. If I have, just consider yourself preemptively gifted with a "and you truly rock", too! ;D
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It's actually much more important and much more helpful to simply tell the truth as applicable to any situation. Comforting people with false platitudes usually doesn't serve them very well.
LisaR:
It is very important to tell the truth. It's how it's told that captures the nuance of any given social interaction. That's the point I was trying to make--and only because I'm so acutely sensitive myself--and female. I honestly think women experience communication differently. On the other hand, I totally get what you are saying...that we have to be in emotional reality and shouldn't expect to be catered to all of the time. I just kind of felt for her because she was so jazzed about her link.
Oh--and you truly rock! ;)
Approaching Infinity:
--- Quote from: LisaR on November 04, 2012, 12:48:49 AM ---It is very important to tell the truth. It's how it's told that captures the nuance of any given social interaction. That's the point I was trying to make--and only because I'm so acutely sensitive myself--and female. I honestly think women experience communication differently.
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LisaR, are you familiar with Gurdjieff? Read ISOTM? In addition to Laura's Wave Series, it's pretty much a must-read if you want to understand our approach here on the forum.
anart:
--- Quote from: LisaR on November 04, 2012, 12:48:49 AM ---
It is very important to tell the truth. It's how it's told that captures the nuance of any given social interaction. That's the point I was trying to make--and only because I'm so acutely sensitive myself--and female. I honestly think women experience communication differently. On the other hand, I totally get what you are saying...that we have to be in emotional reality and shouldn't expect to be catered to all of the time. I just kind of felt for her because she was so jazzed about her link.
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I'm female as well and I think it would be really helpful if you would re-read the forum guidelines to make sure that this forum is a good fit for you.
--- Quote from: lr ---Oh--and you truly rock! ;)
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I'm not really interested in this sort of thing, so feel free to refrain in the future.
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