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Offline Aya

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #105 on: November 08, 2011, 03:46:52 AM »
My heart goes out to you. My condolences to you, Mando. :hug2:
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #106 on: November 08, 2011, 04:19:35 AM »
My condolences as well Mando, though I know it must be hard in this moment, try to be strong and take care of you and your family.
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #107 on: November 08, 2011, 06:04:19 AM »
Hello Mundo There arn't words to say how you & your wife must feel right now , I too lost my son (to a drunk driver) ..
Words are useless at times like these , I can not help you in your request of your son's position .. I would think it would be largely to do with your position & gain in knowladge at this point & "time"
 Our childern are so much like ourselves and follow what we do in life , I hope he was looking over your shoulder while you and wife were gaining knowladge & hope he asked himself what is going on questioning/learning = knowladge ... that alone "I hope" would given him lot's of protection & choises ..

Take care my friend hold your wife tight , I wish you both calm night's so you both can get some rest good luck Mundo ...
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #108 on: November 08, 2011, 06:49:44 AM »

I feel for you, Mando. May you & your family stays strong for the moments ahead.

Condolences to your family & you.
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #109 on: November 08, 2011, 07:31:06 AM »
Thank you for posting the accompanying article Mundo about your son. My deepest condolences to you and your family and friends.   :hug2:
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #110 on: November 08, 2011, 09:45:33 AM »
My deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family.

I have a 15 year old son myself and was thinking today just how much I love him, then I read your posting - I can only begin to imagine the sorrow and pain you are going through.  :cry:

Strength to you in this trying time  :hug2:

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #111 on: November 08, 2011, 10:02:52 AM »
Hello Mundo There arn't words to say how you & your wife must feel right now , I too lost my son (to a drunk driver) ..
Words are useless at times like these , I can not help you in your request of your son's position .. I would think it would be largely to do with your position & gain in knowladge at this point & "time"
 Our childern are so much like ourselves and follow what we do in life , I hope he was looking over your shoulder while you and wife were gaining knowladge & hope he asked himself what is going on questioning/learning = knowladge ... that alone "I hope" would given him lot's of protection & choises ..

Take care my friend hold your wife tight , I wish you both calm night's so you both can get some rest good luck Mundo ...

My heart also goes out to you, Chopper.
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #112 on: November 08, 2011, 10:17:42 AM »
Hello Mundo There arn't words to say how you & your wife must feel right now , I too lost my son (to a drunk driver) ..
Words are useless at times like these , I can not help you in your request of your son's position .. I would think it would be largely to do with your position & gain in knowladge at this point & "time"
 Our childern are so much like ourselves and follow what we do in life , I hope he was looking over your shoulder while you and wife were gaining knowladge & hope he asked himself what is going on questioning/learning = knowladge ... that alone "I hope" would given him lot's of protection & choises ..

Take care my friend hold your wife tight , I wish you both calm night's so you both can get some rest good luck Mundo ...

My heart also goes out to you, Chopper.

Yes, I am very sorry to hear about your loss, as well, Chopper. Such a terrible ordeal to lose one's child at such a young age. Mando and Chopper, our thoughts and prayers are with you, and may you grieve properly and heal from the trauma.
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #113 on: November 08, 2011, 11:01:32 AM »
My heart and deepest supporting thoughts are with you and your family. God bless you all. :hug2:

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #114 on: November 08, 2011, 11:43:41 AM »
I'm so sorry to hear that  :(. You have my sympathy for the loss of your son. 12 years ago i lost my grandmother unexpectedlly ( she had a heart attack). I suffered for a long time but what offered my some consolment was the fact that i could dream her from time to time. Every time i had a dream with her she told me she's not dead and  that she will return or talk to me in my dreams when i'm down. I have this feeling that i'm under her guidance.
Maybe if you dream your son and have the opportunity to communicate with him and feel his presence you will be relieved to know that his spirit is in higher plane of existence.

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #115 on: November 08, 2011, 04:58:33 PM »
I’m very sorry about your loss, Mando! Such a tragedy!.. I don’t have words to express my grief...  I hope you’ll communicate with his soul, even if in dreams only…

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #116 on: November 08, 2011, 05:09:32 PM »
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss, Mando.

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #117 on: November 08, 2011, 05:31:42 PM »
Sorry for your loss Mando, good vibes and well wishes to you and your family.  :flowers: :cry:
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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #118 on: November 08, 2011, 05:54:31 PM »
My deepest condolences on your loss, Mando.  No matter how big he was, I know he'll always be your baby boy, and to lose him at this early stage is a sad tragedy.  Let him go to where he's destined to :cry:

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Re: My 15 Years Old Son Died...
« Reply #119 on: November 09, 2011, 12:15:29 AM »
Thank you guys...

Your words really comfort us a lot, it is hard to deal with the sorrow of this tragedy and you guys are helping me a lot, I think this is the first time in my life I feel the oneness, you guys are amazing friends, amazing beings and amazing humans...Thank you Laura again for let us be part of this forum and be part of your team...

Chopper: Thank you for share with us your son's story and your sorrow, now I know...It feels like you don't deserve to live after someone took the life of your loved and more if your loved is young...I'm with you chopper...I'll stay close of this forum to continue growing in knowledge....

Thank you guys....thank you all of you...
Mando