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Gonzo:
My guess is she is referring to having her number blocked as a personal jab, the way some people feel slighted when they get blocked from someone else's Facebook page.

Gonzo

Buddy:

I agree with Gonzo. Might be "bait". You see how it's working on you right now? I say let it go.

Menna:
I agree, try and make me feel bad for not wanting to keep on communicating with her.

If I was to break up with someone and they stopped communicating with me I would feel bad and be apologetic...I guess that's another way that we differ.

1984:

--- Quote from: Menna on January 04, 2012, 06:21:14 PM ---If I was to break up with someone and they stopped communicating with me I would feel bad and be apologetic...I guess that's another way that we differ.

--- End quote ---

Can you clarify what you mean that you would 'feel bad and be apologetic'? Are you expecting her to apologize to you for breaking up?

Mrs. Peel:

--- Quote from: Menna on January 03, 2012, 11:49:28 PM ---I figured that much. I still miss my food/contact with her sometimes as well. I think about her during the day. But I know to stay away as I have seen enough to know I would not want to be in a relationship or marry her. Any suggestion on how to get her off my mind?

--- End quote ---

Well, it always helped me after breaking up with someone, to really cut off all contact with them.  At least at first till you heal up a bit.  All this "lets be friends" doesn't work if one person is still carrying a torch.  Stay away from places that you went together, or doing things that just the two of you did.  Don't go anywhere that you know she will be.  In other words, immerse yourself totally in something else, take up a new hobby, hang out with different people, anything to get your mind elsewhere.  That's the key, keeping your mind on something else.

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