purplehaze
Jedi Master
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com
Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths
- Thread starter purplehaze
- Start date
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Very familiar. I am on their private support group forum too. Wish more people would read it. Far too many people think cyberpaths (and sociopaths for that matter) are easy to spot or that they are "too smart" to be taken in.
hah!
hah!
You can say that again!purplehaze said:
Generally, if you think you can always spot'em, the Universe will set you straight right quick! It takes a network to figure out the best ones.
It's still the craziest thing I ever saw to know that human looking creatures that have absolutely no ability to feel anything for anybody else at all (other than hunger and desire to dominate and hurt), can so effectively and masterfully evoke emotion in others.
What a paradox.
Welcome to the forum, Purplehaze!
You and Laura are correct in that sociopaths aren't always easy to spot. It takes knowledge and a network to figure them out. Thirty years ago, I crossed paths with one fresh out of high school...took a long time to get over the physical and emotional abuse. In the late seventies, there were no support groups in my area to deal with "bad boyfriends," just another ex-girlfriend who would call in the middle of the night to complain and share her misery. (Oh, she eventually went back to him...never heard from her...or him again!)
Looked over your site link a bit. Lots of information and activity. Nice to know there's a place to send someone to should they be in need of help. :)
You and Laura are correct in that sociopaths aren't always easy to spot. It takes knowledge and a network to figure them out. Thirty years ago, I crossed paths with one fresh out of high school...took a long time to get over the physical and emotional abuse. In the late seventies, there were no support groups in my area to deal with "bad boyfriends," just another ex-girlfriend who would call in the middle of the night to complain and share her misery. (Oh, she eventually went back to him...never heard from her...or him again!)
Looked over your site link a bit. Lots of information and activity. Nice to know there's a place to send someone to should they be in need of help. :)
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Not just social networking or dating sites
these psychopaths with computers show up and target people on sites that are not geared towards relationships at all!! Some of the stories on that site will show you just how insidious they are and how anyone, anywhere at anytime is a potential victim.
these psychopaths with computers show up and target people on sites that are not geared towards relationships at all!! Some of the stories on that site will show you just how insidious they are and how anyone, anywhere at anytime is a potential victim.
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Do They Ever Admit They Lied or Twisted the Facts?
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2007/03/do-they-ever-admit-they-lied-or-twisted.html
The Cyberpaths = Psychopath with Internet Access
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/12/cyberpath-psychopath-with-internet.html
Beware Their Rage When Caught!
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2007/03/beware-rage-of-cyberpath-when-caught.html
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2007/03/do-they-ever-admit-they-lied-or-twisted.html
The Cyberpaths = Psychopath with Internet Access
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2006/12/cyberpath-psychopath-with-internet.html
Beware Their Rage When Caught!
http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2007/03/beware-rage-of-cyberpath-when-caught.html
This is all priceless information and I can attest to its validity because of my own experiences with Vincent Bridges, including the latest discussed here: http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=8574&p=1purplehaze said:
Everything is there, laid out in public, the "whole nine yards." And the bizarre thing is that Vinnie doesn't even realize what a textbook case he is!
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Thanks Laura. We added our "analysis" of the Bridges B.S. on that link you provided. ;)
One of our predators who reminds us a lot of Bridges is this guy: http://cyberpathlinks.blogspot.com/2007/06/j-aka-gridney-aka-yidwithlid-aka-sammy.html
One of his victims finally took legal action but he then enlisted help, like Bridges, to go after her. We see him clicking onto the site because he's still trying to "scrub" the net of all his crap. Why the police never charged him with multiple counts of soliciting we'll never know.
We exposed him in 2005 but about a year ago we re-ran him and he just went postal. His victim, at our suggestion, quietly put up a site with all the facts on it (http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com) - of course he's FURIOUS about that, wants it down, won't listen to reason and has threatened her family if she doesn't take it down. Even though she's not the one who initiated the expose! These cyberpaths really feel all powerful behind a keyboard.
It's a classic, like Bridges... and well worth a thorough read. BTW this predator has his own 'right-wing' blog on politics - its linked at our sister site, The Exposer
http://clearblogs.com/theexposer/60857/When+Cyberpaths+Attack%3A+GRIDNEY+YIDWITHLID+%28a+prime+example%29.html
Pathologicals like Bridges never realize their textbook cases - and god forbid you point that out! :P lol
One of our predators who reminds us a lot of Bridges is this guy: http://cyberpathlinks.blogspot.com/2007/06/j-aka-gridney-aka-yidwithlid-aka-sammy.html
One of his victims finally took legal action but he then enlisted help, like Bridges, to go after her. We see him clicking onto the site because he's still trying to "scrub" the net of all his crap. Why the police never charged him with multiple counts of soliciting we'll never know.
We exposed him in 2005 but about a year ago we re-ran him and he just went postal. His victim, at our suggestion, quietly put up a site with all the facts on it (http://thestumblingblock.wordpress.com) - of course he's FURIOUS about that, wants it down, won't listen to reason and has threatened her family if she doesn't take it down. Even though she's not the one who initiated the expose! These cyberpaths really feel all powerful behind a keyboard.
It's a classic, like Bridges... and well worth a thorough read. BTW this predator has his own 'right-wing' blog on politics - its linked at our sister site, The Exposer
http://clearblogs.com/theexposer/60857/When+Cyberpaths+Attack%3A+GRIDNEY+YIDWITHLID+%28a+prime+example%29.html
Pathologicals like Bridges never realize their textbook cases - and god forbid you point that out! :P lol
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths
thank GRiM
You (and everyone else) should take some time, as you can - and go through our list of predators and click and read the stories of those who have been exposed. There's a list in our right hand margin. There's some doozies there and they are very instructional.
Also, a request to all, comments on our stories, articles, etc are ALWAYS wanted. The victims find it very very validating - especially when they are told mostly to "get over it" "just move on" "its your fault" "forgive & forget" and/or "you should have known better." Comments help. Always.
thank GRiM
You (and everyone else) should take some time, as you can - and go through our list of predators and click and read the stories of those who have been exposed. There's a list in our right hand margin. There's some doozies there and they are very instructional.
Also, a request to all, comments on our stories, articles, etc are ALWAYS wanted. The victims find it very very validating - especially when they are told mostly to "get over it" "just move on" "its your fault" "forgive & forget" and/or "you should have known better." Comments help. Always.
purplehaze
Jedi Master
Exposing Online Predators & Cyberpaths
Here's our list of the currently exposed - with links.
Some on our site some on other sites - we also list here their locations and professions where known
PLEASE pass these on - take the time to read the stories (all the links) and see how these people operate. And help validate our victims by commenting on their stories - it truly does help the healing process:
Here's our list of the currently exposed - with links.
Some on our site some on other sites - we also list here their locations and professions where known
PLEASE pass these on - take the time to read the stories (all the links) and see how these people operate. And help validate our victims by commenting on their stories - it truly does help the healing process:
purplehaze
Jedi Master
The only REAL way you get to "know" if someone is a predator... is to READ THESE STORIES and see the things these guys do as individuals. If you read them all -- bells will go off for you when you meet or encounter one in the future.
The one thing about pathologicals -- they are NOT unique... nor are they terribly inventive.
The one thing about pathologicals -- they are NOT unique... nor are they terribly inventive.
