Menna
The Living Force
I have titled this thread a realization of a new program because I don't know what to call this program but I know it's a program because it keeps repeating itself and I can feel and see it playing out.
I am going to describe this program in different situations to help paint a picture as I don't know exactly what to call it.
1) getting ready for an event instead of getting ready early I know it takes me 45min to shower and get dressed so if an event is at 3pm I will start getting ready at 2-2:15pm
2) studying fo a test. If I know I need a 70 to pass I will study enough to get high 70's until I feel that I know enough to feel comfortable about taking the test
3) with money I have enough in my bank account to provide a comfortable cushion but don't care to put forth the energy to get more or at work do what has to be done and than maybe do alittle more.
It seems that this program is based on feeling if I feel comfortable that I've done enough I will stop if I am rushed or feel pressured I will be active I can feel and see this perpetual spin that I am in and I feel it spills over too much into my life.
I want to go above and beyond more without doing just enough or needing pressure to proceed but for a lack of a better word I just don't care to but I know it would be better more me to care to make the motivation intrinsic and not even call it motivation just a new state of being.Since I have been a member here in 09' the best way for me to do away with or mitigate old problems is to learn about them intellectually and then it has a changing affect. I feel this program is a big block for me blocking me from progress that I want but can't break free to get
Does anyone have any advice or books to read on this program?
I am going to describe this program in different situations to help paint a picture as I don't know exactly what to call it.
1) getting ready for an event instead of getting ready early I know it takes me 45min to shower and get dressed so if an event is at 3pm I will start getting ready at 2-2:15pm
2) studying fo a test. If I know I need a 70 to pass I will study enough to get high 70's until I feel that I know enough to feel comfortable about taking the test
3) with money I have enough in my bank account to provide a comfortable cushion but don't care to put forth the energy to get more or at work do what has to be done and than maybe do alittle more.
It seems that this program is based on feeling if I feel comfortable that I've done enough I will stop if I am rushed or feel pressured I will be active I can feel and see this perpetual spin that I am in and I feel it spills over too much into my life.
I want to go above and beyond more without doing just enough or needing pressure to proceed but for a lack of a better word I just don't care to but I know it would be better more me to care to make the motivation intrinsic and not even call it motivation just a new state of being.Since I have been a member here in 09' the best way for me to do away with or mitigate old problems is to learn about them intellectually and then it has a changing affect. I feel this program is a big block for me blocking me from progress that I want but can't break free to get
Does anyone have any advice or books to read on this program?