Laurelayn
Jedi
My DH is on many meds for pain, hypertension and gout. It hasnt made his severe foot pain from peripheral neuropathy much better. He also drinks quite a bit. I wanted to try some dmso on his feet but there is not much out there about using it topically while on other meds. I feel like if I can help him get rid of some of the pain, he might try getting off the alcohol and changing his diet.
He is on a slow suicide path and very depressed and I just can't sit and do nothing.
We did go to a naturopath last year and went on a cleansing diet with supplements.
I lost 35 lbs. and felt a lot better, he claimed no change in the way he felt and slid right back into the same old habits.
I did too but now I am going gluten free and taking PB, enzymes, high C and magnesium as a start and I do feel better.
I dont know where to go with him. I understand it is his will to do this, but, I have to try. I love the man and I cant just watch him kill himself through horrible diet and no exercise. He is 6'4" and weighs 350 now.
His depression has gotten a lot worse recently, he is in constant pain and he cannot find a job, he has been unemployed since Oct. and I know he tears himself up over that because I am working, sometimes...
We are living on 80% less income compared to 3 years ago so I cant spend a lot on anything.
If I could find something that would help alleviate the foot pain it would be so much easier to get him on board with other changes.
Soon we wont be able to afford his meds, and I dont know how that will go either... I have to research to see what is safe for him to go off of first. I think theyre all bad. He has been on the max dose of vicodin for 6 years. It took 3 years and 6 dr.s before they diagnosed his foot pain as neuropathy. He also takes lisinopril, furosemide, potassium,clonidine, allopurinol and gabapentin.
He also has severe sleep apnea for which he uses a bi pap machine, but he has insomnia and takes it off most nights. listening to him try to breathe some night is tortuous, sometimes he only takes 4 breaths in a minute. I sleep like a stone most of the time.
I dont know if theres anything I can do. any advise or encouragement is appreciated.
I really feel like he is just not going to wake up on of these mornings.
He is on a slow suicide path and very depressed and I just can't sit and do nothing.
We did go to a naturopath last year and went on a cleansing diet with supplements.
I lost 35 lbs. and felt a lot better, he claimed no change in the way he felt and slid right back into the same old habits.
I did too but now I am going gluten free and taking PB, enzymes, high C and magnesium as a start and I do feel better.
I dont know where to go with him. I understand it is his will to do this, but, I have to try. I love the man and I cant just watch him kill himself through horrible diet and no exercise. He is 6'4" and weighs 350 now.
His depression has gotten a lot worse recently, he is in constant pain and he cannot find a job, he has been unemployed since Oct. and I know he tears himself up over that because I am working, sometimes...
We are living on 80% less income compared to 3 years ago so I cant spend a lot on anything.
If I could find something that would help alleviate the foot pain it would be so much easier to get him on board with other changes.
Soon we wont be able to afford his meds, and I dont know how that will go either... I have to research to see what is safe for him to go off of first. I think theyre all bad. He has been on the max dose of vicodin for 6 years. It took 3 years and 6 dr.s before they diagnosed his foot pain as neuropathy. He also takes lisinopril, furosemide, potassium,clonidine, allopurinol and gabapentin.
He also has severe sleep apnea for which he uses a bi pap machine, but he has insomnia and takes it off most nights. listening to him try to breathe some night is tortuous, sometimes he only takes 4 breaths in a minute. I sleep like a stone most of the time.
I dont know if theres anything I can do. any advise or encouragement is appreciated.
I really feel like he is just not going to wake up on of these mornings.