Habitually Talking Out Loud To One's Self

Argonaut

Jedi Master
I've had a habit of "thinking aloud" to myself for as long as I can remember. It feels like I need to do it in order to process my thoughts in a concrete way. I only do it when I'm alone, though; I have no trouble keeping my thoughts "in my head" when I'm around other people. But when alone, it's pretty much constant. I think out loud far more often than in my head.

And it bothers me quite a bit. First off because I'm occasionally "caught" by others whom I didn't realize were around, leading to embarrassment, fears of looking "crazy," etc. And secondly because I wonder if this might be making my thinking process "slower" or impairing it in some way. How it often manifests is me explaining my own reasoning and ideas out loud as if I'm talking to a separate person - even though I already KNOW these things, so there's absolutely no point to me "explaining" them to myself.

What finally prompted this post was a moment last night, when I said to myself, "I'm worried that he'll get p*ssed off [referring to my roommate]." And then I said, "Well so am I, but -" and I stopped, shocked that I had just ANSWERED myself. So what was this? Two "I's" talking to each other, maybe? Should I be worried about my sanity?

Does anyone else "think aloud" like this, or have any insight about it? Being a habit, it's useful to struggle with for the work, which I have been. But like most long-standing habits, it's very persistent. So I'm just wondering if there's some deeper thing going on with it that I should be concerned about. I'm guessing there's a link to my isolation from other people, but I dunno. Thanks in advance for all input.
 
Well, if you are doing it to observe your thinking processes then I see nothing questionable. The practice of talking it out as a way of externalizing the activity of the intellectual center so that you can catch logical errors, hear your own patterns, etc is actually recommended in a few places on the forum.

I don't think it's extremely uncommon. Children do it a lot before they have internalized their introjects and instructions for self-control, and some sleeping people are probably just dissociated at the time, but I'm not saying that applies to you.

I do think, however, if it is just routine for you, then you may be limiting the power of your mind by constraining it within the limits of vocabulary.
 
Hello Argonaut,

Right when I logged on my attention was immediately brought to your post because I
often catch myself doing the same thing! :shock:

I remember in one of the Harry Potter Films, Dumbledore is in his office and he explains that sometimes
he speaks out loudly to himself because he finds it soothing - Or something to that degree...I don't
remember the exact quote, but that gave me a different perspective on this particular activity since
I had previously thought it was some sort of indication of psychological impairment.

I mean, talking to yourself, really?

Only crazy people do that!

At least that's how I rationalized it to myself then, and how
Society would probably have you rationalize it.

Quite frankly, I find that the reasons why I do it correlates with what you stated here:

Argonaut said:
It feels like I need to do it in order to process my thoughts in a concrete way.

Sometimes I just can't match certain variables together in my thinking, or catch the logical inconsistencies like
Bud said, when my thinking is totally internalized.

So speaking out loud allows me to externalize my thoughts which seems to make my thinking a little more
easy going. I find that I tend to feel "scrambled" in the head when I try and internalize all of my thoughts,
especially those that are complex.

I don't know the dynamics behind why this might be so...but it at least appears that way to me.

I agree with you that it can be quite bothersome and even more so when it's done mechanically!

When you're going about your day, and you start talking out loud without even thinking about who may be around
to hear you, especially if you think your alone, that's usually when someone is around to hear you
(at least that's been my experience)... and although they may not say anything, once I notice myself doing it
I tend to find that I start wondering if they think I'm strange and what-not?

And this tends to spark my Anxiety, but that's a whole different topic.

So eventually after having to be constantly reminded that I kept doing this with no conscious control, I made it my
Aim to get it under control and only do it as a conscious activity - and to make sure that no one would be around to hear me. ;)

So I was constantly on the alert, watching my mind for the moment it would to start externalizing it's thoughts without my say-so,
and make sure to stop it from being just another unconscious program running.

That was quite a challenge and still is as I find myself doing it still.

I think that may be where the problem lies - In the unconscious activity of doing so.

I don't particularly feel it's something necessarily bad however when done consciously, but when unconscious were just subjecting
ourselves to the mechanicity of our machines and that doesn't help us at all.

And I think as long as you're not talking out-loud in terms of having in-depth conversations with yourself as if you were two people,
externalizing your thoughts consciously so you can hear them to help process them, may actually be beneficial in some way.

However I cannot know whether that is true or not. :huh:
 
i have been doing this for years.
at the beginning i started talking to myself in the car in order to practice my english (had no english speaking friends at the time).

i find it very good for thinking tricky things through, because you have to make your thoughts much clearer in order to put them into words and sentences - which helps in overall understanding.

and i often talk like "two people" - one part plays 'devil's advocate' while the other part of the 'conversation' represents my current thinking on the matter.

nothing to worry/be ashamed about IMHO.
 
I do this as well from time to time. Usually it mostly happens on days when I'm in a very light mood. Mostly, however, the dialogue with myself is strictly internal. I sometimes "interview" myself when recapitulating in order to fully explore some past event. Doing this, I find that I can catch the negative introject or negative thoughts in general and try to evaluate them for their truthfulness.
 
Talking to yourself isn't really that bad...... as long as you realize that it's you that's doing the talking.

The same with answering yourself.
 
Does anyone else "think aloud" like this, or have any insight about it?

All the time, but it's different with me, for me it's all in my head.

I have discussions with my self, arguing with myself in certain situations, I actually advice myself and warn myself of certain dangers, sometimes I listen sometimes I don't because I tend to be ignorant a lot, at the same time I analyze these thoughts and critisize them and see if it's the best course of action to take.

I had this going on since childhood, it sounds weird but from the age of 7 my bike was my best friend, he even had a name and seriously calmed me down and told me not to worry whenever I was stressed or whatever it sounds weird but this voice this way of fantasy helped me a lot through my childhood it helped me to deal a lot with stress and feel accepted, but in reality it was ofcourse all in my mind, which I understood when I got older. I was even greeting tree's on my way towards school like ''Hello tree, goodmorning to you and goodmorning to you''

Now that I am much older I still have this voice, which I call ''Father'' , I don't know why I call it father, I just do, whenever I tend to make stupid decisions in life, this ''voice'' tells me to stop ignoring the problem and deal with it, trying to calm me down and letting me think.

It's difficult to explain, but interesting to observe nevertheless.
 
Iconoclast said:
at the beginning i started talking to myself in the car in order to practice my english (had no english speaking friends at the time).

I speak aloud to myself in French, to practice, and most of the time it is the same "subject matter" you guys are bringing up. Usually two or three viewpoints on the same issue. After quite a bit of thinking on this idea, it seems (for me anyway) that the multiple perspectives come from the multiple I's. One or some of them may be "working I's", and others are just petty, lower-emotionally motivated I's. It's the same thing that goes on in my head, just out loud.

Something about speaking out loud though, it's different than inner dialogue. It's almost (at the risk of word-salad) like adding another layer of detachment to the manifestation of the thoughts that drive it. Like getting it out of the environment of the head and into another space.

I find that as long as I can stay conscious and observe what's going on, this can be a good practice to work things through. The problem comes into play when I get caught up (or identified) with one or more of the viewpoints/perspectives/voices.

For me, after talking to myself, it helps immensely to write down as much of it as I can remember, as a conversation. Something about the act of writing and remembering brings a clear head and more ability to think in a straightforward way about whatever's going on.
 
Bud said:
Well, if you are doing it to observe your thinking processes then I see nothing questionable. The practice of talking it out as a way of externalizing the activity of the intellectual center so that you can catch logical errors, hear your own patterns, etc is actually recommended in a few places on the forum.

I've been trying to stop doing it altogether, but it makes sense that it could be put to good use for the work. I'll try approaching it from this angle and see what happens.

Bud] I don't think it's extremely uncommon. Children do it a lot before they have internalized their introjects and instructions for self-control said:
I remember in one of the Harry Potter Films, Dumbledore is in his office and he explains that sometimes
he speaks out loudly to himself because he finds it soothing - Or something to that degree...I don't
remember the exact quote, but that gave me a different perspective on this particular activity since
I had previously thought it was some sort of indication of psychological impairment.

I mean, talking to yourself, really?

Only crazy people do that!

At least that's how I rationalized it to myself then, and how
Society would probably have you rationalize it.

So it's not crazy, just "eccentric." :lol: I admit that I've judged others who think out loud - if they do it in public, at least. I've seen a few people on the city bus who chat away to themselves right in front of everyone. These people may have issues, but it's really only slightly different from doing the same thing in private. Maybe they're just completely oblivious to what others think of them.

i have been doing this for years.
at the beginning i started talking to myself in the car in order to practice my english (had no english speaking friends at the time).

i find it very good for thinking tricky things through, because you have to make your thoughts much clearer in order to put them into words and sentences - which helps in overall understanding.

Those are good applications for it. I've done it for similar reasons, too. I've also done it to rehearse potential conversations I wanted to have with someone, especially if it's a delicate subject.

Iconoclast] and i often talk like "two people" - one part plays 'devil's advocate' while the other part of the 'conversation' represents my current thinking on the matter. [/quote] And I've also done this. It's good to know that I'm not alone here. It seems that all-or-nothing thinking has led me to see talking to myself as wholly negative. But it can be a useful tool for many things. You'd think I would've learned by now that approaching things in black-and-white terms is almost never helpful. :lol: [quote author=Odyssey said:
I do this as well from time to time. Usually it mostly happens on days when I'm in a very light mood.

I've noticed that it's pretty constant when I'm feeling strongly about something, either positive or negative. But I still do it when my mood is "neutral." I'll comment on stuff I see, joke about things, explain my point-of-view, etc. I basically act as though I'm conversing with someone else.

Odyssey] Mostly said:
Talking to yourself isn't really that bad...... as long as you realize that it's you that's doing the talking.

The same with answering yourself.

I definitely realize that it's me at all times. One of several "me's," that is. Five years ago I attempted trance channeling using Sanaya Roman's book Opening to Channel, and thought that a "guide" named Michael was speaking through me... But thankfully that was just a momentary lapse in judgement. I doubt I could connect with a truly higher source now, let alone back then. :)

Bo said:
Does anyone else "think aloud" like this, or have any insight about it?

All the time, but it's different with me, for me it's all in my head.

I have discussions with my self, arguing with myself in certain situations, I actually advice myself and warn myself of certain dangers, sometimes I listen sometimes I don't because I tend to be ignorant a lot, at the same time I analyze these thoughts and critisize them and see if it's the best course of action to take.

It sounds like a different manifestation of the same thing. I do all of this as well, just out loud.

After quite a bit of thinking on this idea, it seems (for me anyway) that the multiple perspectives come from the multiple I's. One or some of them may be "working I's", and others are just petty, lower-emotionally motivated I's. It's the same thing that goes on in my head, just out loud.

It does look that way. I used to think that only one "I" could be active at a time, but apparently that's not the case. In the event two nights ago - when I expressed a feeling and then answered myself - those two "parts" were definitely coming from two different points of view. They both felt the same worry, but only the first "voice" seemed totally caught up in it.

[quote author=Jonathan]
Something about speaking out loud though, it's different than inner dialogue. It's almost (at the risk of word-salad) like adding another layer of detachment to the manifestation of the thoughts that drive it. Like getting it out of the environment of the head and into another space.
[/quote]

It does feel that way, yes. It also feels like it reinforces the thoughts - first you think them, then when you speak them aloud your mind processes them a second time by hearing them. Looking at it this way makes me really want to choose carefully which thoughts I externalize as words.

[quote author=Jonathan]
I find that as long as I can stay conscious and observe what's going on, this can be a good practice to work things through. The problem comes into play when I get caught up (or identified) with one or more of the viewpoints/perspectives/voices.
[/quote]

Exactly. And becoming identified seems easier when the thoughts are verbalized. For me, anyway. But this might be because the thoughts feel so vague and "formless" when I keep them in my head, which wouldn't be the case for everyone. But again, this is only when I'm alone. Thinking in my head is easy when I'm around other people.

[quote author=Jonathan]
For me, after talking to myself, it helps immensely to write down as much of it as I can remember, as a conversation. Something about the act of writing and remembering brings a clear head and more ability to think in a straightforward way about whatever's going on.
[/quote]

I recently started a blog where I pour out my thoughts as sincerely as possible. So far it's really helped with processing things. I can definitely try something similar with the things I say out loud. It sounds like it would be fruitful.

Thanks everyone for your replies so far! They've been very enlightening.
 
"Father" could be one of your "I's," originating from some past event(s). But I wonder, do you get the impression that "he" is literally a separate entity?

At some time in the past I had the impression that it was an outer entity, but I dismissed that possibility after a lot of observing, I noticed that all the advice that I recieved from this voice is everything I already know, it is merely a repeat to not let me forget certain issues. I will try explaining this in a simple matter.

When an individual has a dentist appointment in about 2 weeks, it is likely that this individual will write down the data of the appointment in an agenda or lets say on some place which he passes by everyday like the closet door so that he won't forget this appoinment.

in these 2 weeks many more problems could come up or whatever which could make the individual forget all about his appointment, but he gets reminded by it every time he passes by his closet door due to the note he left behind.

I think that this voice works the same way as people making notes, some auto replay system that activates when I enter some sort of depression, or problem.

It's like a defensive system.

Whenever I am down or depressed this voice automatically activates and tells me to calm down and not worry and think clear, I am basically advising myself, perhaps a program I created unconsciously.

Offcourse I could also be way off, because this still doesn't explain how I can engage in conversations with this voice about random topics and even feel bad by it when I know that ''the voice'' tells the truth about certain issues dealing with me, perhap that also is program that I created unconsciously as to have someone to talk too and feeling like that there is someone that cares to listen.

but in conclusion, I am advising myself and I do not think that this is an outer entity.
 
Argonaut said:
I've been trying to stop doing it altogether, ...
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It can sometimes seem dissociative, like I'm just chattering away to a non-existent "friend."
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It's very routine.
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It might seem this way because it's so habitual. I find that I can think in my head just fine when I'm out in public. It only becomes a problem when I'm alone - then keeping my thoughts inside takes effort.
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I sometimes talk to myself when I'm out walking around and think I'm alone. And often it seems like someone just happens to walk by and overhear me. I think this is just a matter of selective memory, though. Being "caught" can lead to an emotional shock, and those times tend to stick in our minds a lot more.
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My friends like to tease me about talking to myself.
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I've been trying to stop doing it completely.
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I've noticed that it's pretty constant when I'm feeling strongly about something, either positive or negative. But I still do it when my mood is "neutral." I'll comment on stuff I see, joke about things, explain my point-of-view, etc. I basically act as though I'm conversing with someone else.

Hi Argonaut. I pulled out these snippets of what you wrote since they indicate that this is more than just an occasional thing. You're right in that the mechanical nature of it is the main concern, but considering that you are so prone to it, I think it might be a good exercise to use it as an alarm - and to try to stop the behavior. Most people talk out loud to themselves on occasion, it's not at all unusual, but to do so this frequently, after you've been trying to stop it completely, might be a clue that it would be a good exercise for self-observation and developing Will to stop. At the very least, I would consider the idea that every time you catch yourself talking out loud to yourself, you have caught yourself dreaming; acting mechanically - basically you've caught your machine with no one driving. It's worth considering, I think - or not - it's up to you.
 
Well, I have a family member that does this
sort of thing quite often, and from what I have
seen, it appears to be a some sort of a positive
re-enforcement feedback loop and strangely, it
is repeated over and over. Often, when this member
thinks deeply, the mostly-silent lip-syncing starts flying,
is quite visibly nuanced, sometimes some sounds, but
mostly with no sound.

I have seen people watching this strange phenomenon,
some seems annoyed, others are mostly politely silent,
and a few were aggressive, pointing out this quirk to this
mostly-silent-lip-syncing family member.

The thing here is, this member does not always seem
to be aware of it while it 'happens', and yet when this
"quirk" is pointed out, this member goes into a embarassing
semi-defensive mechanism and tries to explain it away. Even
so, it is a habit that never seems to go away, no matter how
often the "embarrassment" occurs.

I occasionally talk to myself, but only in my head,
and perhaps the only external mechanism might be
my facial movements, depending on if there might be
emotion involved, but while I am doing it, I assume that
I (hope I) appear somewhat externally - like 'The Thinker',
hopefully not quite in that naked knee-elbow-hand-jaw pose. :D

But then again, I love the classic Jimmy Stewart movie,
Harvey: _http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0042546/
 
I’ve spent some time digging through neuroscience papers confirming Laura's work in the Wave about the neuro-biology underpinnings of addiction and the predator's mind and such, so I might have a useful comment or two.


Argonaut said:
I've tried to think without talking, and I found I can do it in two different ways. One is basically just like talking to myself verbally, only in my head. This is how I generally think when other people are around.

That describes a process I went through when my stress levels went up around people who used to make me self-conscious. Stress will blow that more fragile mental mode you hinted at below.


Argonaut said:
The other way takes a lot more work - just letting thoughts arise and process on their own. Using this method, my thinking comes as rapid impressions and images, with almost no words at all. I can think several things at a time rather than slowly "talking out" each idea one-by-one. I have to focus on "staying out of my own way" in order to think like this, but it seems to be a far more efficient method.

I understand that too. I think all you would need to do to make this 'mode' work better for you is simply use it in a goal-directed manner - like when your using the non-verbal area of working memory to hold things in mind while trying to understand the relationships between the various components in order to arrive at insights.

While, at first glance, this post might not seem to be related to "talking aloud", I believe by thinking about the info here, a person could realize that if they weren't in the mental verbalization or sub-vocalization mode, then that would likely solve the routine "talking it out" issue if that's a problem for him/her.

Recent neuroscience has shown that the prefrontal cortex (PFC) shifts between two apparant extremes of configuration, which seem to be suitable for doing different kinds of things. One mode (let's call it the first mode) has been known about for ages. In it, the PFC has a low level of background excitation and localized areas of high excitation. This is good for tasks involving focused attention.

An interesting aspect of focused attention is that when we are using it, we can always say what the next step is, before we perform it because of it's linear nature. This is the mode where you're 'talking it out', or 'working it out' deductively, or programmatically, like in arithmetic.

The other mode (second mode) is a more recent discovery, or perhaps, realization; perhaps because the tasks that it is good for are harder to test using controlled laboratory experiments. The PFC has a medium level of excitation all over, and the tasks it is good for involve “cognitive flexibility” and working memory. For example, subjects are given three words which can all be the second half of compound words, and the subjects have to guess the common first half of the compound words. So given “shoe”, “flake” and “man”, the subject might guess “snow”. Or perhaps, something requiring detection of a pattern in order to fill in a missing piece of the puzzle:

Here, we cannot clearly recognize the problem as a member of a specific category, so we cannot start executing a series of steps, talking out each one before we perform it:

1, 9, 25, 49, 121, ?, 289, 361, 529 (What is the missing number?)

People seem to be much better at doing this when fMRI machines show that their PFCs are in the second mode. Notice that with this kind of task there is no “working out” involved. We can’t state any steps before we perform them - the word “snow” or the correct number either pops into the subjects’ minds or it doesn’t.


This might be interesting:

Functional organization of the prefrontal cortex in humans
_http://www.isc.cnrs.fr/dre/uk/Research_1.htm

What’s really interesting about this, to me, is how the brain shifts from one mode to the other. It’s stress that does it. When we (or other animals) become stressed, we release the chemicals norepinephrine and dopamine, and these chemicals bias the cells in the PFC towards the focused attention mode. This makes sense. The animal is wandering around on the lookout for food or predators, but as soon as it sees a predator it needs to focus in on it, see what it is doing and avoid distraction. So this mode switching would obviously be useful - a bit like “zooming in” on something of interest, osit.
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If you are interested in looking into this stuff, I suggest starting with the following papers (but you don’t have to read them - I can summarize the important bits here):


_http://jn.physiology.org/cgi/content/full/77/6/3326
Noradrenergic Suppression of Synaptic Transmission May Influence Cortical Signal-to-Noise Ratio:

...By Hasselmo et. al. describes low level studies on slices of rats’ brains, and a mathematical model that reproduces what they found. When they dosed the brain slices with norepinephrine they found that “background” signals between cells were strongly suppressed, but signals coming into the slices (from the senses in whole rats) were less suppressed. Most importantly, they say:

"This can be interpreted as an increase in signal-to-noise ratio, but the term noise does not accurately characterize activity dependent on the intrinsic spread of excitation, which would more accurately be described as interpretation or retrieval."
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_http://www.mitpressjournals.org/doi/abs/10.1162/jocn.2007.19.3.468?journalCode=jocn
Beta-adrenergic Modulation of Cognitive Flexibility during Stress

...By Alexander et. al. references the Hasselmo paper. They gave human subjects word searching tests as described above, with and without social stress, with and without propranolol (a drug that blocks the effects of norepinephrine).

Although the enhanced “signal” aspect of the ratio would be related to superior performance on tasks of attention, the behavioral role of “noise” is less understood. Based on a computational model, however, it has been suggested that “noise” is a representation of intrinsic associative activity, not simply an absence of coherent input to cortical neurons… Related to this model, we propose that the increased intrinsic associative activity of “noise” occurring with decreased [norepinephrine] relates to improved performance on cognitive flexibility tasks involving flexibility of access to the lexical–semantic and associative network.

In the same paper, they say:

Here we show that psychosocial stress in healthy individuals without any history of stress-induced dysfunction impairs performance on tasks that require flexible thinking… The observed specificity of stress and propranolol to affect only cognitive flexibility suggests a role of the noradrenergic system in modulating the neural circuitry that may play a role in underlying such modalities as creativity and insight.
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_http://www.nature.com/npp/journal/v23/n4/full/1395541a.html
The Selective Dopamine D4 Receptor Antagonist, PNU-101387G, Prevents Stress-Induced Cognitive Deficits in Monkeys

...By Arnsten et. al. shows that stressed monkeys suffer similar effects on working memory, this time via a dopamine pathway.
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There are a ton of other papers and studies that presented information that was news to me...including studies done in male/female sexual dysfunction and the mechanisms underlying addiction to games, TV, the internet, etc., etc., and it all confirms Laura's work in the Wave. That's why I so highly recommend reading it - especially the section on addiction. And anything related to non-linear thinking and thinking with a hammer.

If I have made any errors in my analysis and inferences, someone who knows this stuff better than I is asked to please let me know so I can correct any errors. :)


Added Later: Forgot to mention the number sequence above, is the squares of primes, so the missing number is 13^2 = 169.
 
Bo said:
"Father" could be one of your "I's," originating from some past event(s). But I wonder, do you get the impression that "he" is literally a separate entity?

At some time in the past I had the impression that it was an outer entity, but I dismissed that possibility after a lot of observing, I noticed that all the advice that I recieved from this voice is everything I already know, it is merely a repeat to not let me forget certain issues.

You're most likely right. Thanks for explaining.

Hi Argonaut. I pulled out these snippets of what you wrote since they indicate that this is more than just an occasional thing. You're right in that the mechanical nature of it is the main concern, but considering that you are so prone to it, I think it might be a good exercise to use it as an alarm - and to try to stop the behavior. Most people talk out loud to themselves on occasion, it's not at all unusual, but to do so this frequently, after you've been trying to stop it completely, might be a clue that it would be a good exercise for self-observation and developing Will to stop. At the very least, I would consider the idea that every time you catch yourself talking out loud to yourself, you have caught yourself dreaming; acting mechanically - basically you've caught your machine with no one driving. It's worth considering, I think - or not - it's up to you.

Thanks for this; it sounds like a fine strategy for me. Since talking to myself is a major part of my mechanical life it would make an excellent alarm. And in the long run I won't even lose the benefits of talking aloud consciously. Once I overcome it as a mechanical habit, I can re-introduce it as a conscious activity. It's a matter of doing things in the most efficient order for one's self. In trying to avoid black-and-white thinking I was falling for another form of it - "one size fits all." Ironic. :)

dant said:
Well, I have a family member that does this
sort of thing quite often, and from what I have
seen, it appears to be a some sort of a positive
re-enforcement feedback loop and strangely, it
is repeated over and over. Often, when this member
thinks deeply, the mostly-silent lip-syncing starts flying,
is quite visibly nuanced, sometimes some sounds, but
mostly with no sound.

I have seen people watching this strange phenomenon,
some seems annoyed, others are mostly politely silent,
and a few were aggressive, pointing out this quirk to this
mostly-silent-lip-syncing family member.

The thing here is, this member does not always seem
to be aware of it while it 'happens', and yet when this
"quirk" is pointed out, this member goes into a embarassing
semi-defensive mechanism and tries to explain it away. Even
so, it is a habit that never seems to go away, no matter how
often the "embarrassment" occurs.

Your family member is a great example of this habit taken to its extreme. There's a strong stigma of mental instability associated with talking to one's self around people, but many who do it are probably just like your family member - caught in a habitual cycle.

Argonaut said:
I've tried to think without talking, and I found I can do it in two different ways. One is basically just like talking to myself verbally, only in my head. This is how I generally think when other people are around.

That describes a process I went through when my stress levels went up around people who used to make me self-conscious. Stress will blow that more fragile mental mode you hinted at below.

Then it makes sense why I'm always in this mode. I'm busy verbalizing aloud when alone, and I'm in a constant state of stress when around other people. The exception is close friends and family, around whom I neither talk to myself NOR feel constant stress. So I'm going to pay close attention to my thinking in those circumstances. It might be easier to enter that other mode.

Bud] [quote author=Argonaut said:
The other way takes a lot more work - just letting thoughts arise and process on their own. Using this method, my thinking comes as rapid impressions and images, with almost no words at all. I can think several things at a time rather than slowly "talking out" each idea one-by-one. I have to focus on "staying out of my own way" in order to think like this, but it seems to be a far more efficient method.

I understand that too. I think all you would need to do to make this 'mode' work better for you is simply use it in a goal-directed manner - like when your using the non-verbal area of working memory to hold things in mind while trying to understand the relationships between the various components in order to arrive at insights.

[/quote]

Ah I see. So rather than trying to enter that mode for no real reason, maybe I can practice by looking up puzzles (like the one you listed below).

[quote author=Bud]
While, at first glance, this post might not seem to be related to "talking aloud", I believe by thinking about the info here, a person could realize that if they weren't in the mental verbalization or sub-vocalization mode, then that would likely solve the routine "talking it out" issue if that's a problem for him/her.
[/quote]

I agree that this is relevant. Thank you for presenting it so thoroughly.

[quote author=Bud]
Recent neuroscience has shown that the prefrontal cortex (PFC) shifts between two apparant extremes of configuration, which seem to be suitable for doing different kinds of things. One mode (let's call it the first mode) has been known about for ages. In it, the PFC has a low level of background excitation and localized areas of high excitation. This is good for tasks involving focused attention.

An interesting aspect of focused attention is that when we are using it, we can always say what the next step is, before we perform it because of it's linear nature. This is the mode where you're 'talking it out', or 'working it out' deductively, or programmatically, like in arithmetic.
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Yes, and by literally talking it out I'm locking myself into this mode. I'm only using half of my brain power! :shock:

[quote author=Bud]
The other mode (second mode) is a more recent discovery, or perhaps, realization; perhaps because the tasks that it is good for are harder to test using controlled laboratory experiments. The PFC has a medium level of excitation all over, and the tasks it is good for involve “cognitive flexibility” and working memory. For example, subjects are given three words which can all be the second half of compound words, and the subjects have to guess the common first half of the compound words. So given “shoe”, “flake” and “man”, the subject might guess “snow”. Or perhaps, something requiring detection of a pattern in order to fill in a missing piece of the puzzle:

Here, we cannot clearly recognize the problem as a member of a specific category, so we cannot start executing a series of steps, talking out each one before we perform it:

1, 9, 25, 49, 121, ?, 289, 361, 529 (What is the missing number?)

People seem to be much better at doing this when fMRI machines show that their PFCs are in the second mode. Notice that with this kind of task there is no “working out” involved. We can’t state any steps before we perform them - the word “snow” or the correct number either pops into the subjects’ minds or it doesn’t.
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When trying to solve that puzzle I had a LOT of trouble staying out of the first mode. I kept going at it from several "logical" angles - and of course I only wound up frustrated. But then, while staring at it, suddenly the pattern "jumped out" at me. The number itself didn't; I had to calculate it once I saw the pattern. But this might be due to certain issues I have with math - remembering tables and doing arithematic in my head. For some reason that stuff never stuck. Sometimes I even have to use my fingers to do simple addition and subtraction.

On a side note, the puzzle may contain a slight error. Apparently 1 is not considered a prime number in modern mathemetics, for various reasons. Personally I think that's splitting hairs a bit, but then I'm no mathemetician. Plus I learned in school that 1 IS prime, despite it supposedly being tossed out in the 19th century. :)

[quote author=Bud]

This might be interesting:

Functional organization of the prefrontal cortex in humans
_http://www.isc.cnrs.fr/dre/uk/Research_1.htm

What’s really interesting about this, to me, is how the brain shifts from one mode to the other. It’s stress that does it. When we (or other animals) become stressed, we release the chemicals norepinephrine and dopamine, and these chemicals bias the cells in the PFC towards the focused attention mode. This makes sense. The animal is wandering around on the lookout for food or predators, but as soon as it sees a predator it needs to focus in on it, see what it is doing and avoid distraction. So this mode switching would obviously be useful - a bit like “zooming in” on something of interest, osit.
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This is very interesting stuff. Based on all this, I can see how my lifetime of video games - from 9 years old on up - could've helped get me stuck in the first mode of thinking. Not to mention the TV-watching throughout. And that's pretty typical, too. NO WONDER people are in a constant state of stress. The modern world stresses them out, then they "relax" with a dopamine fix that just piles on more! :O I'll definitely study the articles you listed; the more knowledge the better.

[quote author=Bud]

Added Later: Forgot to mention the number sequence above, is the squares of primes, so the missing number is 13^2 = 169.

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I'm glad you added this later, actually. Before I got the answer, I had given up and tried to scan your post for it. The lack of an answer forced me to go take another stab. :lol:
 
anart said:
Hi Argonaut. I pulled out these snippets of what you wrote since they indicate that this is more than just an occasional thing. You're right in that the mechanical nature of it is the main concern, but considering that you are so prone to it, I think it might be a good exercise to use it as an alarm - and to try to stop the behavior. Most people talk out loud to themselves on occasion, it's not at all unusual, but to do so this frequently, after you've been trying to stop it completely, might be a clue that it would be a good exercise for self-observation and developing Will to stop. At the very least, I would consider the idea that every time you catch yourself talking out loud to yourself, you have caught yourself dreaming; acting mechanically - basically you've caught your machine with no one driving. It's worth considering, I think - or not - it's up to you.

Ack!! I talk aloud to myself all the time. Have done so my entire life, actually. Some of the time I talk to the cats, tho. ;) I do it in public too, but mostly keep it to when nobody is looking/listening. ;D I'll pick up a package of something off the grocery shelf, look at the price, and exclaim out loud that I'm not paying THAT for THIS! Or if I'm in the car trying to follow directions to someplace new and I'll talk myself through it. Or at work, when my phone rings, I'll say "Now what?" out loud. These are just some examples.

I don't know, it just seems quite natural to do it. I don't think I'm crazy or anything (what do I know? :lol:) I lived alone a number of years, and I spend a good bit of the time alone in the evenings till my husband gets home. It's a form of verbal "journaling." Running thoughts past myself out loud, or making observations to myself out loud, well, gee, I'm even doing it as I'm writing this! It seems to help "solidify" things somehow... I know this sounds really weird, but I feel like I'm talking to "someone" as in, another aspect of myself, somehow, somewhere.

Okay, maybe I am looney. :scared:
 

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