Lesson – The Bully ...

Haiku

Jedi Master
‘This world, it was made so our future self can learn life’s lessons through us, here at this earlier level.’

‘What if all that you know, all that you have done, all of your understanding of life, it was all just to teach you lessons.’

‘Now take all of those life challenging memories and apply them as if you were experiencing them to learn a lesson. Think deeply about this as you will see that all your life experiences were to accomplish this and only this.’

There was a familiar building ahead, it was the auditorium that has been used many times now. the side door was open, light could be seen from inside. Haiku entered the building and made his way to the stage, it was empty except for a whiteboard and a stool with a microphone sitting on top of it.

He went up to the board and wrote in large letters, ‘The Bully’. Behind him Bob the janitor stepped out of the restroom and saw that his favorite presenter was here. Bob said, “Good morning, are you sure you don’t want more on the stage for today, I can get it for you?”

Haiku, “No, this is perfect, this topic is not for me but from the audience today. And it is mostly stories of their trials.”

Bob, “Well, If it is alright, I want to attend this one. I believe that we all have a story to tell about our bullies that we have had to deal with, I got a few myself.”

Haiku, “That’s what started this session, the bully lesson seems to be very common out there, more on the receiving end than on the giving end. But that is because were all other-serving, it is a self-serving trait to become the actual bully in these situations. I know as I have had to be one on the random occasion, both times it was just to take down another bully and show them what they were doing to others. And I am honored to have you and all the others who will be attending this session, that’s why I got the big room.” Bob sat down in a rear seat and waited for the session to start.

Haiku picked up the mic and sat down. He looked out into the audience and others were arriving. Not the normal way of walking in through the door but they just pop into a seat as they log on. It was time to get this session started.

Good Morning all, I’m sorry for getting you all up this early but it was the only available time slot for the big room.

Today I wanted to talk about lessons that we are all here to learn in this lifetime and one specific one that we all seem to have experienced, I see that some have had several experiences with ‘The Bully’.

Let me start at the beginning, you are here to learn these lessons, you know that. And if we are expected to do these lessons for this life then there must be a list of lessons that you have with you to learn. This listing for some is a terror list as they have lessons that keep repeating until we learn them. Many come into this reality with many lessons from a previous lifetime that they either failed or have to repeat because they didn’t learn it previously.

But that is not what I want to discuss today, it is a lesson that some may see as a repeat and others just to experience for the first time. It is called the bully. How many here have experienced this lesson, raise your hand. Wow, that is almost all here.

This world, it is constructed this way to give lessons to those that see the world as it really is, like all of us here. These are not lessons like arithmetic or some foreign language. They are life’s lessons, Life, Death, Love, Successes and Failures alike. Each of us have a list of lessons, each different but with similar content. You are here for these lessons, and you can’t leave until you finish them. Everything in your life, everything that you have ever done, you can relate it to learning a lesson, think about it, I mean it, really think about them in this context. You’ll see, it has to be this way so you will learn, if everything was pretty and roses all the time, you wouldn’t learn, would you.

You might question why is it that someone made this world this way, who was it, who would make a world like this?

That’s the interesting part. It was you … it’s me … its everybody here in a way. It is us, all of us in a future state. They did this so their lesser forms can learn from these lessons, us down here on this world, in this reality.

Actually it is difficult to identify the terminology of many lessons. Like the lesson on creativity that Happy Poo is trying to convey, I see you out there, good morning. The act of ‘creativity’ is difficult to explain as you can see. Another lesson that is easy to convey is ‘Love’, but it is very difficult to describe in hard terms because of the variables. I may try this one later.

Let me expand on a lesson, I call this ‘The Bully’. Most were on the receiving end of this lesson but there are a few that were on the giving end of this. Almost everyone has experienced the bully, maybe it was in school, or college, at a job or just the local diner. It could be your boss or a colleague. It could even be your best friend from a time past. But everyone has had their rendition of the bully lesson as it changes the lesson to match the need of each individual person. But in the end it is all the same lesson ‘The Bully’. You can ask anyone, they will have their story of the bully, the meanness, the punishments given, the pain received and possibly injuries to remember it by.

One my bullies was in 2nd grade. It ended on valentines day when he threw a candy heart box full of rocks and it hit me in the face and broke my nose (he touched his nose where the damage was still evident). This bully moved onto others as I was out with the injury, lucky for me.

So, in my bully lesson, I set up the events, including the rock filled box, the broken nose just to teach my higher self about the lesson and how I experienced it.

Your higher self is learning from all directions and to do that they have work this lesson from both ends. That means that your bully was most likely another character that they created like you to fulfill the lesson need. The bully was another form of you, a negative version, because these lessons need to be learned from all angles. It is what we call a soul grouping and there are many of your soul grouping here right now learning these lessons for the higher self.

The bully in my scenario was very likely me or another me that is negatively aligned and was made that way to support my lesson.

Now some have only had one Bully lesson, how many here have had only one bully lesson, raise your hands. Not that many.

You see the lesson of the bully is deeper than a single event can teach you. multiple events are necessary for you to learn all of the bullies lessons. Some of you may be experiencing this every day from colleagues and bosses today. Raise your hands for those that are experiencing it today. That many, you see this lesson is bigger than even you can comprehend.

You see, this is not about my lesson, it is about yours and helping others who are experiencing this same or similar lesson. If you are interested, please add your story to this thread. It just might help others get through this lesson as you have. And the stories that others leave may help you deal with the situation on your hands.

The bully lesson was easy to quantify and qualify as so many experienced it in real time. Like Love, it is another ‘easy to identify’ lesson that we all experience, even in an STS environment where you love money. Many are not so easy to identify as they are not so widely experienced, I find that these are the tough ones to present. But if there is another who would like to present their own topic, please do so.

We all need help understanding the lessons that we are signed up for, Haiku …
 
‘This world, it was made so our future self can learn life’s lessons through us, here at this earlier level.’

‘What if all that you know, all that you have done, all of your understanding of life, it was all just to teach you lessons.’

‘Now take all of those life challenging memories and apply them as if you were experiencing them to learn a lesson. Think deeply about this as you will see that all your life experiences were to accomplish this and only this.’

There was a familiar building ahead, it was the auditorium that has been used many times now. the side door was open, light could be seen from inside. Haiku entered the building and made his way to the stage, it was empty except for a whiteboard and a stool with a microphone sitting on top of it.

He went up to the board and wrote in large letters, ‘The Bully’. Behind him Bob the janitor stepped out of the restroom and saw that his favorite presenter was here. Bob said, “Good morning, are you sure you don’t want more on the stage for today, I can get it for you?”

Haiku, “No, this is perfect, this topic is not for me but from the audience today. And it is mostly stories of their trials.”

Bob, “Well, If it is alright, I want to attend this one. I believe that we all have a story to tell about our bullies that we have had to deal with, I got a few myself.”

Haiku, “That’s what started this session, the bully lesson seems to be very common out there, more on the receiving end than on the giving end. But that is because were all other-serving, it is a self-serving trait to become the actual bully in these situations. I know as I have had to be one on the random occasion, both times it was just to take down another bully and show them what they were doing to others. And I am honored to have you and all the others who will be attending this session, that’s why I got the big room.” Bob sat down in a rear seat and waited for the session to start.

Haiku picked up the mic and sat down. He looked out into the audience and others were arriving. Not the normal way of walking in through the door but they just pop into a seat as they log on. It was time to get this session started.

Good Morning all, I’m sorry for getting you all up this early but it was the only available time slot for the big room.

Today I wanted to talk about lessons that we are all here to learn in this lifetime and one specific one that we all seem to have experienced, I see that some have had several experiences with ‘The Bully’.

Let me start at the beginning, you are here to learn these lessons, you know that. And if we are expected to do these lessons for this life then there must be a list of lessons that you have with you to learn. This listing for some is a terror list as they have lessons that keep repeating until we learn them. Many come into this reality with many lessons from a previous lifetime that they either failed or have to repeat because they didn’t learn it previously.

But that is not what I want to discuss today, it is a lesson that some may see as a repeat and others just to experience for the first time. It is called the bully. How many here have experienced this lesson, raise your hand. Wow, that is almost all here.

This world, it is constructed this way to give lessons to those that see the world as it really is, like all of us here. These are not lessons like arithmetic or some foreign language. They are life’s lessons, Life, Death, Love, Successes and Failures alike. Each of us have a list of lessons, each different but with similar content. You are here for these lessons, and you can’t leave until you finish them. Everything in your life, everything that you have ever done, you can relate it to learning a lesson, think about it, I mean it, really think about them in this context. You’ll see, it has to be this way so you will learn, if everything was pretty and roses all the time, you wouldn’t learn, would you.

You might question why is it that someone made this world this way, who was it, who would make a world like this?

That’s the interesting part. It was you … it’s me … its everybody here in a way. It is us, all of us in a future state. They did this so their lesser forms can learn from these lessons, us down here on this world, in this reality.

Actually it is difficult to identify the terminology of many lessons. Like the lesson on creativity that Happy Poo is trying to convey, I see you out there, good morning. The act of ‘creativity’ is difficult to explain as you can see. Another lesson that is easy to convey is ‘Love’, but it is very difficult to describe in hard terms because of the variables. I may try this one later.

Let me expand on a lesson, I call this ‘The Bully’. Most were on the receiving end of this lesson but there are a few that were on the giving end of this. Almost everyone has experienced the bully, maybe it was in school, or college, at a job or just the local diner. It could be your boss or a colleague. It could even be your best friend from a time past. But everyone has had their rendition of the bully lesson as it changes the lesson to match the need of each individual person. But in the end it is all the same lesson ‘The Bully’. You can ask anyone, they will have their story of the bully, the meanness, the punishments given, the pain received and possibly injuries to remember it by.

One my bullies was in 2nd grade. It ended on valentines day when he threw a candy heart box full of rocks and it hit me in the face and broke my nose (he touched his nose where the damage was still evident). This bully moved onto others as I was out with the injury, lucky for me.

So, in my bully lesson, I set up the events, including the rock filled box, the broken nose just to teach my higher self about the lesson and how I experienced it.

Your higher self is learning from all directions and to do that they have work this lesson from both ends. That means that your bully was most likely another character that they created like you to fulfill the lesson need. The bully was another form of you, a negative version, because these lessons need to be learned from all angles. It is what we call a soul grouping and there are many of your soul grouping here right now learning these lessons for the higher self.

The bully in my scenario was very likely me or another me that is negatively aligned and was made that way to support my lesson.

Now some have only had one Bully lesson, how many here have had only one bully lesson, raise your hands. Not that many.

You see the lesson of the bully is deeper than a single event can teach you. multiple events are necessary for you to learn all of the bullies lessons. Some of you may be experiencing this every day from colleagues and bosses today. Raise your hands for those that are experiencing it today. That many, you see this lesson is bigger than even you can comprehend.

You see, this is not about my lesson, it is about yours and helping others who are experiencing this same or similar lesson. If you are interested, please add your story to this thread. It just might help others get through this lesson as you have. And the stories that others leave may help you deal with the situation on your hands.

The bully lesson was easy to quantify and qualify as so many experienced it in real time. Like Love, it is another ‘easy to identify’ lesson that we all experience, even in an STS environment where you love money. Many are not so easy to identify as they are not so widely experienced, I find that these are the tough ones to present. But if there is another who would like to present their own topic, please do so.

We all need help understanding the lessons that we are signed up for, Haiku …
Hi Haiku thanks for sharing what happened to you, I could definitely share a few stories about bullying can't say I've got through or understand the lesson yet and it probably still affects me now, caused big distortions in my my personality which I'm still trying to understand.

Mainly biases against girls as these were the main people who bullied me at school.. Probably because they bullied me more psychologically and found that this had an effect of taking away a lot of confidence, it also intensified when I'd had a bereavement as a young teen (surprise!).. This caused negative programming toward anger which led to all sorts of self destructive behaviour and probably gave me a sense of worthlessness.
I was also the bully on one occasion, which was caused by others bullying me.. Not that's it's an excuse.. I did apologise to the boy at least and felt so awful about myself that it never happened again! That was a harsh lesson I do understand.

Before I started secondary school remember being a pretty happy and confident kid, and that's where it all started to go a bit wrong. I definitely remember a couple of lads that were really rude too though and had anger issues about them for years afterward.

Also at work I've had some managers that were really harsh. But one experience actually led to me researching psychopathic behaviour, and this led eventually to me finding the C's! So that was definitely a blessing in disguise.

Think I'm still trying to get my confidence back though.. Know that bullying as a child can have lasting effects and cause deep wounds that are hard to get rid of, thanks again for sharing this post and your story.. What you described at school sounds really harsh, what an awful thing to experience, and on the day when people are hoping to receive love and affection. Especially at the age where we are really sensitive to it, that's a really difficult thing to deal with bless! I've never had anything violent happen at school like that.. It must have had some really damaging lasting effects.
I've experienced violence with some other things recently which were lessons that I do understand, but maybe that's a story for another day.. Anyway thanks for the mention :)
 

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