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Hello, here a disturbing experience I past through these last days :
http://www.sott.net/article/254745-Nicotine-The-Zombie-Antidote
I post this article on my facebook wall, and it attracts a lot of emotional reasoning, quite normal, and I make an attempt to answer all the bias and distorded responses, in my mind as well as on facebook. It happened to me before, a few selected friends go through a fierce tornado of rejecting the idea coming up through the articles I'd posted. So no surprise when stupid arguments against sott or any ideas related to the topic of cigarette protecting the body and the mind. I noticed there I was improving in argumenting and don't letting the stupid or ignorant ideas spread of, so it was a good thing for me.
And, suddenly, a friend of mine, became really virulent and harassing. He split the subject of conversation into a myriad of part, turning it's attitude into make-pity, professor type, jester type, and clearly making laugh at me teaching his view of the world in the same time. I had already wondered if he might become one of them, so with this particular mad event I stop arguing with him. And he comes through the Facebook private messenger trying to know what he's doing bad... And again with the self-pity and even anger. He litterally wrote me about 20 messages before I answer.
When he mimes anger I became a little scared about the future, when I meet him again, if I don't calm him down. So I give it a bit of my flesh and tell him that I've had to calm ME down as a reason of my non responding. In fact, I was waiting him for calming down of course. I guess he took this for submission and all was good, the hunt was over.
So I wonder, I know that a day I will might have to burn definitively my relation with him, but did the fact lying to him, saying a submission type reason which was in reality fake, made me link deeper with him ? Would have I shut the door to him despite my fear of his fake anger ? I was thinking end this relation when he will be calmer, but I'm not so sure it's really helpful because psychopath are very unstable and the anger will may be come again.
...Mmh, just thoughts, but I realize that social networks is a very jungle and the psychopaths rule this area too and it's more and more difficult to be aware of them.
http://www.sott.net/article/254745-Nicotine-The-Zombie-Antidote
I post this article on my facebook wall, and it attracts a lot of emotional reasoning, quite normal, and I make an attempt to answer all the bias and distorded responses, in my mind as well as on facebook. It happened to me before, a few selected friends go through a fierce tornado of rejecting the idea coming up through the articles I'd posted. So no surprise when stupid arguments against sott or any ideas related to the topic of cigarette protecting the body and the mind. I noticed there I was improving in argumenting and don't letting the stupid or ignorant ideas spread of, so it was a good thing for me.
And, suddenly, a friend of mine, became really virulent and harassing. He split the subject of conversation into a myriad of part, turning it's attitude into make-pity, professor type, jester type, and clearly making laugh at me teaching his view of the world in the same time. I had already wondered if he might become one of them, so with this particular mad event I stop arguing with him. And he comes through the Facebook private messenger trying to know what he's doing bad... And again with the self-pity and even anger. He litterally wrote me about 20 messages before I answer.
When he mimes anger I became a little scared about the future, when I meet him again, if I don't calm him down. So I give it a bit of my flesh and tell him that I've had to calm ME down as a reason of my non responding. In fact, I was waiting him for calming down of course. I guess he took this for submission and all was good, the hunt was over.
So I wonder, I know that a day I will might have to burn definitively my relation with him, but did the fact lying to him, saying a submission type reason which was in reality fake, made me link deeper with him ? Would have I shut the door to him despite my fear of his fake anger ? I was thinking end this relation when he will be calmer, but I'm not so sure it's really helpful because psychopath are very unstable and the anger will may be come again.
...Mmh, just thoughts, but I realize that social networks is a very jungle and the psychopaths rule this area too and it's more and more difficult to be aware of them.
