What is the Work to me?

CNS

Jedi Master
I started this as a journal entry, but thought I would bring it to the forum to see what everyone thought, and possibly to help newer members (or anyone) that has been struggling lately with this concept as I have. In learning how to stay open to anything, I want to say that any feedback or questions are welcomed and encouraged. Maybe others can also expound on what the Work means to them as well? So, here goes:

It seems to me that some people want to quantify it. It's work on the self, it's absorbing feedback, it's cleaning the machine, it's recognizing faults, it's being open and honest...the list goes on. (Or all the above, but in some transcendental, otherworldly, abstract amalgamation.)

To me, the Work, in its most basic form, is all of that, however in everyday life. The decisions we make at every moment, every impasse, and any questions that might pose themselves throughout the day. I think that some people believe that the Work consists of back-breaking labor and super-efforts, or maybe something so foreign to us that others engaged in it are sacrosanct and without error. I believe that tremendous efforts are involved, but it's also on a day-to-day scale. Just doing the laundry, mowing the law, going to work, interactions with family and friends, and how we treat ourselves is where the Work is best laid in practice. Can we be considerate of others in a setting where more than likely, they will not be considerate of us? Or, maybe even more appropriately, can we be kind and gentle to ourselves, even when the work we do on ourselves shows us all our faults and reminds us of how awfully we have treated others at times? Moreover, how do we carry ourselves through the monotony of life after seeing behind the curtain?

We experience 3D for a reason, because it is necessary to learn, grow, and do. When we hope/wish/think ourselves something more evolved or on the path to enlightenment, I feel that we are self-limiting in some ways. I know that I am not there yet, and if I were to continue to wish my way out of it (as I have in the past), I would be missing the bigger picture here: My opportunity to experience my current place among the cosmos. What an amazing world we live in! I see the landscape changing, and I know there are entropic forces all around, but if I wasn't here, how could I have experienced, or gained knowledge, of such duality? I feel a richness for where I am right now. I don't want to look away from the negative side of things because I would be repressing myself. Before I came to find this forum and the Work, I dissociated heavily so I wouldn't see such things. I think about all the lessons lost, even in the most mundane of circumstances.

We are here for a purpose, as the C's and others have said, and that is to learn. A simple idea, but it takes a lifetime to master. I used to think it was much deeper than that, but right now, I feel it is that simple. IMHO, we cannot know all of the delicate intricacies the universe holds, but what we can do is learn how it works from this level. And I for one, cannot learn if I turn a blind eye to the present, if I am dead set on “getting out of here”, or if I fool myself into believing that I already have some mythical understanding of how it all (anything) works. I now know that I know next to nothing, that my cup is tipped and emptying. Praise Caesar, the bastions are falling and I'm opening up!

Diet has been quintessential. I think we must treat the machine the way it deserves to be treated, and that is by fueling it with whatever necessary nutrients are required and sloughing off the rest. And that in-itself, is doing the Work. Of course, we do have to see our bodies as machines as well, and then abide by such. What has helped me is seeing a separation between “I” and the body. “I” am the commander, and the body is the machine, and to get to wherever I want to go, the machine must be properly maintained, treated well, and listened to.

It seems we have been borne into a very self-serving environment, and we are ultimately self-serving creatures. I think this needs to be acknowledged and addressed. If we take proper care of ourselves, then we can better help others. By seeing that our own needs are met (physically, emotionally and spiritually), we can then safely provide assistance where it is needed and asked for. This is where things like diet, EE, restful sleep, a growing knowledge base, and positive dissociation fit in as daily Work exercises. I try to live by the mantra: “when you work, work hard, and when you play, play hard.” I want to get the most out of every instance that I can - from the practical to the sublime – it all counts, and it's all important.

So, I guess what I am saying is that I don't think the Work always has to be just some grand conceptual idea, only to be seen, felt and experienced on the esoteric level, but that we must first learn every avenue of what it is to be 3D humans. Everything in its time and space. We must see the world as it is and our own lives for what they are, and somehow find the benefit and the lesson to every moment – because there is one. Then, I think, it is actually possible to create a change. In short, get busy living or get busy dying.

What I have said here has probably been said before, or may even have its own thread, in which case, Mods, please feel free to merge this if need be – possibly the What's Your Goal thread? Or wherever y'all find appropriate. And please let me know if any of this comes across as a bit preachy, which I tend to do from time to time. Thank you.
 
Good summary CNS. You expressed some ideas in simple terms with which a person of this age can relate. Making such summaries for the self and for others form time to time is helpful.
Also, maybe something to consider, which is just a matter of semantics in this case: the "esoteric level" is also in the here and now, and in everyday effort to live the 3D lessons as fully as possible. It not something totally separated out there. After all, the receiveship capacity begins at the body, mind, and emotion levels, since they are different levels of the self that are interconnected as such, and also connected with more subtle aspects of being as well. OSIT
 
I agree, that this is an excellent summation and I only wish that more people could get it and learn to appreciate their lives at the most ordinary and practical level. Sometimes it IS heroic just to do what needs to be done every day while struggling with the self to be externally considerate.
 
CNS said:
So, I guess what I am saying is that I don't think the Work always has to be just some grand conceptual idea, only to be seen, felt and experienced on the esoteric level, but that we must first learn every avenue of what it is to be 3D humans. Everything in its time and space. We must see the world as it is and our own lives for what they are, and somehow find the benefit and the lesson to every moment – because there is one. Then, I think, it is actually possible to create a change. In short, get busy living or get busy dying.

I think you nailed it, CNS. Not too preachy, just what you think, from the heart. And the above part is very important. When we first find 'the Work', it may appear to be some grand conceptual scheme, some all-encompassing enigma of spiritual illumination. But then, how can we really know what the Work is without having really experienced it? All our ideas will be fantasies.

In other words, we think we can look forward from our present state and imagine what the 'future' (i.e., us doing the Work) will be like. Well, chances are we'll be wrong. We might have some very vague idea, or just a hunch or inclination that this is the right path for us, but we'll probably be wrong about the vast majority of the details.

But then, after being a part of this community for a time, we actually come to experience this new way of life, bit by bit. Our fantasies are replaced by concrete, everyday reality. And we find out what the Work really is: a new way of life. And what is life but our relations with the world and others?

So really, it's only after having had a taste of it, and more and more tastes, that we are able to see what the Work is, by looking back at our previous lives and comparing that 'past' with the new present. And that data can inform us about how to act NOW. We're in the same body, the same world, but our ACTIONS, the way we approach our relationship with the world, are what is different. In other words, the material we have to work with is still the same! The food we eat, the words we speak, the ground beneath our feet, the signals from our bodies and from our society. It's only how we orient to those stimuli that is different, and how we choose to respond to them.

Sure, there probably is a 'theological'/esoteric level to what is really going on. I think this is what St. Paul was getting at in his letters, but note that all his applications of that theological reality are firmly grounded in everyday life and practice: work, relationships, virtue, suffering, love.
 
Well said CNS--I agree with your ideas and with the ideas of the others who posted on doing The Work here.

An "ordinary day" (as in no catastrophic happenings in your area that day that interfere with your ability to function "normally") provides extraordinary opportunities for self-remembering, practicing external consideration, acquiring knowledge, etc., all the while it requires us to "suit-up and show-up" to do all that is necessary on a daily basis to survive in 3d. These days, every ordinary day is a blessing and an opportunity not to be taken for granted.

Sometimes it takes extraordinary efforts just to provide optimum care for the body/machine and to be a "good householder."
In addition, setting aside a little time most days to stay in the recommended readings, The Wave series, or the Histories by Laura, et. al., squeeze in a few quiet minutes to mediate with the Prayer of the Soul and do some EE breathing, gain some knowledge and critically think about the world events in the media, and pay attention to ones emotions and actions and words with others as much as one can, IS Work.

What I struggle with, what is "work" for me, is maintaining enough discipline to persevere with these efforts nearly every day, and ignore the Predator Mind who is always whispering in my ear to stray from the "straight and narrow." But, by persevering and doing some everyday, I have learned that discipline and will power can be strengthened and will grow with applied efforts.
Thank you for taking the time to post.
Good luck to you in your journey
shellycheval
 
Thank you CNS for sharing your summary of the Work.

For me, as a newbie to the Work, the easiest place to start practicing is in my day-to-.day living of my ordinary life, just doing what is before me at each moment but now with more awareness. I use external consideration and strategic enclosure as my daily guide posts and this has been helpful when dealing with others...family, co-workers, neighbors etc. I do have struggles being externally considerate when I'm around people I'd rather avoid.

Since finding my way here to SOTT and the Forum, it is funny how I can feel depressed and sad about our world and the human condition, and at the same time I also feel an excitement about this journey of learning. It's not an easy journey but, up to this point, it sure has been worth it for me.

I like what you said about knowing next to nothing. That is how I feel these days. The more I read and take in, the more I realize I know nothing!

And I agree with what you said about diet and fueling the machine with necessary nutrients, treating it well and listening to it. Makes perfect sense to me.

It seems so simple, yet it is not always so easy.

Thanks again CNS.
 
Un grand merci à Laura et compagnies, vos livres qui me captivent et m'ouvrent les yeux sur tant de choses, il y a de quoi tomber des nues quand on comprend tous les mensonges qui nous engluent depuis si longtemps... Avec EE, c'est chaque fois de nouvelles sensations qui me font tant de bien et la prière de l'âme est pour moi d'un grand réconfort que je récite plusieurs fois par jours... Je suis si heureuse de vous avoir rencontrés pour me mettre sur la voie de la vérité qui grandit... Je vous aime...

A big thank you to Laura and companies, your books that captivate me and opened my eyes to so many things, there is something flabbergasted when one includes all the lies that engluent us for so long ... With EE, it is each time new sensations that make me so much good and prayer of the soul is for me a great comfort that I recite several times a day ... I'm so happy to have met you put me on the path of truth that grows ... I love you ...
 
Approaching Infinity said:
So really, it's only after having had a taste of it, and more and more tastes, that we are able to see what the Work is, by looking back at our previous lives and comparing that 'past' with the new present. And that data can inform us about how to act NOW. We're in the same body, the same world, but our ACTIONS, the way we approach our relationship with the world, are what is different. In other words, the material we have to work with is still the same! The food we eat, the words we speak, the ground beneath our feet, the signals from our bodies and from our society. It's only how we orient to those stimuli that is different, and how we choose to respond to them.

Sure, there probably is a 'theological'/esoteric level to what is really going on. I think this is what St. Paul was getting at in his letters, but note that all his applications of that theological reality are firmly grounded in everyday life and practice: work, relationships, virtue, suffering, love.

Indeed. And with knowledge and awareness, we are enabled to make different decisions at certain points. And, as I've discussed on the K & B videos, decisions, sometimes even small ones, can, step by step, lead a person into a new reality.
 
Thank you for this CNS. What you wrote was very concise, grounding, and actually beautiful.

I listened to a graduation speech yesterday with a very similar message (transcript here _http://faculty.winthrop.edu/martinme/thisiswater.htm)


Some very relevant quotes:

Given the triumphant academic setting here, an obvious question is how much of this work of adjusting our default setting involves actual knowledge or intellect. This question gets very tricky. Probably the most dangerous thing about an academic education -- least in my own case -- is that it enables my tendency to over-intellectualize stuff, to get lost in abstract argument inside my head, instead of simply paying attention to what is going on right in front of me, paying attention to what is going on inside me.

As I'm sure you guys know by now, it is extremely difficult to stay alert and attentive, instead of getting hypnotized by the constant monologue inside your own head (may be happening right now). Twenty years after my own graduation, I have come gradually to understand that the liberal arts cliché about "teaching you how to think" is actually shorthand for a much deeper, more serious idea: "learning how to think" really means learning how to exercise some control over how and what you think. It means being conscious and aware enough to choose what you pay attention to and to choose how you construct meaning from experience. Because if you cannot exercise this kind of choice in adult life, you will be totally hosed.
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There is no such thing as not worshipping. Everybody worships. The only choice we get is what to worship. And the compelling reason for maybe choosing some sort of god or spiritual-type thing to worship -- be it JC or Allah, be it Yahweh or the Wiccan Mother Goddess, or the Four Noble Truths, or some inviolable set of ethical principles -- is that pretty much anything else you worship will eat you alive.
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On one level, we all know this stuff already. It's been codified as myths, proverbs, clichés, epigrams, parables; the skeleton of every great story. The whole trick is keeping the truth up front in daily consciousness.
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Our own present culture has harnessed these forces in ways that have yielded extraordinary wealth and comfort and personal freedom. The freedom all to be lords of our tiny skull-sized kingdoms, alone at the center of all creation. This kind of freedom has much to recommend it. But of course there are all different kinds of freedom, and the kind that is most precious you will not hear much talk about much in the great outside world of wanting and achieving and displaying. The really important kind of freedom involves attention and awareness and discipline, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them over and over in myriad petty, unsexy ways every day.

That is real freedom. That is being educated, and understanding how to think. The alternative is unconsciousness, the default setting, the "rat race," the constant gnawing sense of having had, and lost, some infinite thing.

It is easy for me to see this whole thing as some grand impossible goal, but time after time I see that it really is about small, every day choices, in which we can find our freedom and joy. It's just about remembering this. Keeping it alive inside of us.
 
Thank you for your summary, CNS. I tend to get caught up in thoughts about how the Work is supposed to be this grand, abstract process, and end up feeling like I rarely do anything that matters. But it really is as simple as living your life and getting the most out of each lesson that presents itself. In an insane world, it really is Work to maintain an ordinary life. My life would've been much different if I hadn't taken tiny steps every day to learn more and put that knowledge to use. I think I would've been dead, diabetic, and/or in prison if I'd never discovered this network. I'm thankful for the days where nothing crazy happens and the mundane stuff gets done. I think I'll print your summary and put it on my door for whenever I beat myself up over seemingly not doing enough.
 
CNS said:
What an amazing world we live in! I see the landscape changing, and I know there are entropic forces all around, but if I wasn't here, how could I have experienced, or gained knowledge, of such duality? I feel a richness for where I am right now. I don't want to look away from the negative side of things because I would be repressing myself. Before I came to find this forum and the Work, I dissociated heavily so I wouldn't see such things. I think about all the lessons lost, even in the most mundane of circumstances.

Thank you for sharing, CNS. It was to the point and a good reminder to appreciate life and its lessons, what ever they are. Wish you luck on your journey and further self-discovery. :flowers:
 

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