Thanks laura, you are so right, narcissist are psychopaths , in my case, or in my eyes he is a criminal psychopath, taking half my house my furniture and my dog. What is the most upsetting is that fact he preys on woman via the internet dating sites. My phone before i changed my number for the third time, kept ringing by women asking who i was and then breaking into tears because they had been lied to, manipulated etc!!! Narcissist's are nonhuman have no real feelings therefore cannot feel guilt or remorse, they just go on searching for that narcist fix from anyone who shows any interest!!!! Thanks again laura .
Jetmk, thanks for your reply,not going to give any advice, you know what to do instinctively!! Just a few things from my story which might help, I started a get away plan in my head, this kept me going,I kept a diary of the lies and found evidence to support the lies, this helped me to focus on finding the real me again, I sought the truth, he tired very hard to stop this even going to the extreme measure of infecting me with a sexual disease which went into my blood stream and turned into encephalitis and meningitis, I nearly died but I fought to get out of hospital to protect my kids from him ( luckily, they are not his). Eventually I had enough evidence and proceeded to phone most of the women he was in contact with. I awaited his rage and boy did he rage. I then escaped with the kids, OK my life is not brilliant now,materially speaking, my breakdown resulted in my losing my job and my self esteem and confidence but i am me again ME!!! The following months year etc were hard, he manged to track me down and my phone numbers but i was resilient , I cut off the narcissist thread from him!!! Hope this helps jetmk . thanks again to everyone