Geez,
@dani, I was wondering if you were gonna show up again.
We haven’t heard from you since you kinda shuffled off, stage left on August 13th, after several forum members responded to your post, on the “How are you feeling” thread.
Now, that all sounds great. Too good actually.
Sill in a rather negative state, perhaps?
I have friends in this camp and they encourage me to 'heal the trauma' and to 'put down the porcupine.'
Oh my Gawd! The audacity of them, to suggest such a thing!
How dare they care?
Don’t they know you’re singing your grumpy song, until you are ready?
“Nobody likes me everybody hates me
I think I’ll go eat worms
Long ones, short ones, fat ones skinny ones,
Ones that squiggle and squirm
Bite their heads off suck their guts out throw their skins away
Nobody knows that I eat worms, 3 times a day”
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You gave me a laugh,tho’ with that “put down the porcupine” phrase, I’d not heard that one before.
I have met porcupines I my life...I wholeheartedly agree, put them down, better yet, don’t even pick them up!
The From their perspective, I am holding on to the 'old system' and therefore creating negativity in my life. Maybe I am, but this love and light perspective really irritates me. It comes across as egocentric and superior. I have a really strong gut reaction against it.
Why can’t those stinking “love ad lighters” get it ?
All that you wanna do is feel miserable, grouchy, hold those grudges and resentments and you have darn good reasons to take out your anger and frustrations over the “past happenings” and dwell in yesterday’s, last years, last decade, troubles, in the here and now, TODAY!
Sheesh, they are such hypocrites, aren’t they?
They aren’t loving you as you are, they’re really out to change you!
Is that because I am programmed as they say or is there something nefarious about this perspective?
That’s where “The Work” begins.
The Work IS about Clearing the programs, healing the traumas, attaining an ability to view life objectively, to the best of our abilities.
Repairing damaged lenses that our reality is viewed through, widening our perceptions.
We are ALL programmed from the moment we appear on this planet.
There is a parallel thread on the go at the moment, and this post is brilliant, in my opinion.
Hope you give it a glance.
For me the question is more about what do you do about the ones that are not able to make themselves strong. You do nothing, you have to let them suffer until they had enough and start questioning and change their way of life based on that and eventually become strong. But strong depends on the...
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