Galaxia2002
Dagobah Resident
Please need some advice: for a year and several months I am dating a person, the relationship started well, we know each other step by step and we do a very good match, we love each other, I support her and she do the same, we respect each other and we have little problems as every couple. I feel very good and she too until something happened. When we met I was aware that it would not be a co-linear relationship and so I assumed. This week she began to feel bad and she said that she had kept a secret, do not take it anymore and needed to tell me. She knew my spiritual views and I even had talked about the C's with her, in fact she accepted a detoxification program and the truth is that she has always been very respectful of my views, she let me be free and even cooperate with me. Today he revealed his secret and the truth was that she destroyed my heart, she told me that his grandfather was a spiritualist and since childhood he has trained her because she was natural skills as a medium, and she reading the tarot so effectively to make a living from it. But the worst thing she said was that he had done some Santeria (a kind of African religion, based in worship of saints and animal sacrifices, very common in the Caribbean) and she do not did the main ritual) but had participated in some animal sacrifice. I was REALLY disgusted and horrified. I asked if she kept going that things and she said that she had two years of not participate in any of that and she decided not to follow that path.
But at first she said that she would not leave the tarot, because she has a great intuition for that. She had not said anything to me because she was afraid that I break up, and that was one of the first things I asked her when we met. I ask her whether he had anything to do with Santeria and she said no, because I would not accept it obviously.
But my god! What a coincidence! Now it turns out she had practiced it. I told her that the relationship could not continue, not only for the lie but I tell her that I was afraid of having contact with someone who has done those things. In my previous relationship also happened something similar and it was that this ex had gone to a witch and left her by that reasons between others. I wonder if there is any lesson related to that because I do not understand why this situation occurs again.
She said that she was willing to abandon all that for me, in fact she had two years without relate to that. The truth is that in all this time together I did not feel anything negative in her,she has a big heart that does not repair in helping others, I feel we have done good each other.
My dilemma is whether I will not be violating their free will by not accepting what she did in the past as she had no objection to respect my beliefs even though some will seem crazy to her. She also said she would left even the tarot, something she was passionate in order to keep the relationship, but the last does not seem right to me because I feel that she is doing a sacrifice for not to lose the relationship and she should have the right to make their tarot because it is their free will.( remember that this is not a colinear relationship)
The point is that except for what I told here it was a great relationship and I'm wondering if now that she has left made those practices the relationship might have a future, knowing that these energies remain present in people who have practiced these rituals. I read the thread of the not collinear relationships but I don't know if it is too to tolerate and healthy spiritually.
thank you
But at first she said that she would not leave the tarot, because she has a great intuition for that. She had not said anything to me because she was afraid that I break up, and that was one of the first things I asked her when we met. I ask her whether he had anything to do with Santeria and she said no, because I would not accept it obviously.
But my god! What a coincidence! Now it turns out she had practiced it. I told her that the relationship could not continue, not only for the lie but I tell her that I was afraid of having contact with someone who has done those things. In my previous relationship also happened something similar and it was that this ex had gone to a witch and left her by that reasons between others. I wonder if there is any lesson related to that because I do not understand why this situation occurs again.
She said that she was willing to abandon all that for me, in fact she had two years without relate to that. The truth is that in all this time together I did not feel anything negative in her,she has a big heart that does not repair in helping others, I feel we have done good each other.
My dilemma is whether I will not be violating their free will by not accepting what she did in the past as she had no objection to respect my beliefs even though some will seem crazy to her. She also said she would left even the tarot, something she was passionate in order to keep the relationship, but the last does not seem right to me because I feel that she is doing a sacrifice for not to lose the relationship and she should have the right to make their tarot because it is their free will.( remember that this is not a colinear relationship)
The point is that except for what I told here it was a great relationship and I'm wondering if now that she has left made those practices the relationship might have a future, knowing that these energies remain present in people who have practiced these rituals. I read the thread of the not collinear relationships but I don't know if it is too to tolerate and healthy spiritually.
thank you
