Any plans for an all male EE video?

[Harold]

Hello All,

Harold here. First off I want to say the EE videos are great, I had immediate effects ie. my breathing improved immediately, and I noticed I am NOT participating in one of my addictions/vises(having to do with smoking), which has really suprised me.... one down, 3 million to go!...lol.... kidding!....just kidding!

The reason I asked the above question is that this choice may apeal to those who are struggling with the 'delights of the flesh', so to speak. My point is that someone who may be practising or thinking of practising 'celebacy' or avoiding 'physical intimate relations' may find the choice helpful. I say this because in my early days of 'avioding physical intimacy', I struggled with this, and found that being in public was a challenge to my brain thinking.

I hope this thread is in the right section, as I think it is a design issue. For me personally, the videos are 'perfect' the way they are.

Sincerely,
Harold

 

[Tigersoap]

The reason I asked the above question is that this choice may apeal to those who are struggling with the 'delights of the flesh', so to speak. My point is that someone who may be practising or thinking of practising 'celebacy' or avoiding 'physical intimate relations' may find the choice helpful. I say this because in my early days of 'avioding physical intimacy', I struggled with this, and found that being in public was a challenge to my brain thinking.

Hi Harold,

I may be wrong but I think that if you keep practicing the EE, this should not be a problem anymore, osit :D

 

[Harold]

Hello Tigersoap,

Thank-you for the reply.

The reason I asked the above question is that this choice may apeal to those who are struggling with the 'delights of the flesh', so to speak. My point is that someone who may be practising or thinking of practising 'celebacy' or avoiding 'physical intimate relations' may find the choice helpful. I say this because in my early days of 'avioding physical intimacy', I struggled with this, and found that being in public was a challenge to my brain thinking.

Hi Harold,

I may be wrong but I think that if you keep practicing the EE, this should not be a problem anymore, osit :D

Unfortunately you are wrong, I was thinking of others.

Cheers,
Harold

 

[mkrnhr]

Unfortunately you are wrong, I was thinking of others.

Who?

 

[Renaissance]

Unfortunately you are wrong, I was thinking of others.

If someone has issues with say someone who was of a particular race being on the video, should it then also be remade?

How is it you know that others wont heal from EE?

 

[Navigator]

Hello Tigersoap,

Thank-you for the reply.

The reason I asked the above question is that this choice may apeal to those who are struggling with the 'delights of the flesh', so to speak. My point is that someone who may be practising or thinking of practising 'celebacy' or avoiding 'physical intimate relations' may find the choice helpful. I say this because in my early days of 'avioding physical intimacy', I struggled with this, and found that being in public was a challenge to my brain thinking.

Hi Harold,

I may be wrong but I think that if you keep practicing the EE, this should not be a problem anymore, osit :D

Unfortunately you are wrong, I was thinking of others.

Cheers,
Harold

This is the same as saying that the public of a stadium should be removed in order for a particular player to play better. Have you considered finding WHY are you 'struggling' so hard?

 

[Harold]

Hi, ok, yes expand on that, well obviously me...

I say this because in my early days of 'avioding physical intimacy', I struggled with this, and found that being in public was a challenge to my brain thinking.

Years back this took place for me, for about the first six months. Over the years(22 approx) I have recieved much feedback, for I have had two lesbian friends share the same sentiments. One went as far to say that some days she had allot of trouble looking at attractive women and provocatively dressed women she found attractive... fa ged aboud it! (slang: forget about it). Lots of looking at the ground on those days, as she would put it. Too another friend and boss commented on his giving 'it a go' (avoiding physical intimacy) and how difficult it was to look at attractive women in his early days of this attempt. He stopped talking about it after he and his wife got back together. A gay friend of mine commented that in his early days of avoiding physical intimacy he had lots of trouble even being around other gay men and found them a distraction. Also a straight woman friend of mine went so far as to say to me one day while she was having difficulty with her non participation in physical intimacy, 'I wish you(men) would all dissapear.'

The one thing all these people had in common, myself included was this. We were not destined to be in relationships, or it was a karmic lesson, we had very bad judgement etc. Therefore, we more or less sought intimacy through other means, to achieve what effects, that differed from; learning to love ourselves first, to in turn love others, to avoiding past pitfalls in relationships. All in all we were skirting this issue of ponerization and none of us just woke up one day and said to ourselves, "hmmm, what a lovely day, I think I'll avoid intimate physical relationships for the rest of my life." No it was the realization that what we had been doing wasnt working. When you have been raped, beaten, contracted AIDS, or just had one train wreck after another. Which is what had happened to the above people I used as examples. Only then were we willing to try a different approach. To put it into a context of this forum. One more possible example, if 'Bob', of 'Bob and Sue' were to return to the forum, the 'Work' etc., I would not think that it would be out of the question for Bob to consider non-physical intimacy, at least for a time being. And if Bob were to say that he would prefer to watch a EE video of male instructors, that that would not be misunderstood as anything other than a person who has had some trauma and would appreciate some consideration.... thats all.

So keeping that in mind, I thought it might be worth considering.

Cheers,
Harold

 

[Tigersoap]

I would not think that it would be out of the question for Bob to consider non-physical intimacy, at least for a time being. And if Bob were to say that he would prefer to watch a EE video of male instructors, that that would not be misunderstood as anything other than a person who has had some trauma and would appreciate some consideration.... thats all.

If certain people had to deal with traumatic experiences and then for them not to be able to relate to the opposite sex, maybe it's important for such persons to seek professional help and therapy because there is no way, unless they go and live in a remote cave, that they won't ever face such discomfort again.

I don't think you can consider all kind of different issues people may have and ask other people to take them into account and change what they do osit.

 

[Windmill knight]

If certain people had to deal with traumatic experiences and then for them not to be able to relate to the opposite sex, maybe it's important for such persons to seek professional help and therapy because there is no way, unless they go and live in a remote cave, that they won't ever face such discomfort again.

I don't think you can consider all kind of different issues people may have and ask other people to take them into account and change what they do osit.

Exactly.

Harold, I think that it is important to stress that what is seen in the video is perfectly normal. If there is anything abnormal here, it is the thoughts that viewers may have that do not correspond to reality. If the viewer suffers from minor issues, he should work on himself to heal them. If it is major issues, such as the traumatic experiences you talk about, then he should seek professional help, as Tigersoap says. But in any case, there is nothing wrong with the video, nor with the world being populated by both women and men!

 

[anart]

Exactly.

Harold, I think that it is important to stress that what is seen in the video is perfectly normal. If there is anything abnormal here, it is the thoughts that viewers may have that do not correspond to reality. If the viewer suffers from minor issues, he should work on himself to heal them. If it is major issues, such as the traumatic experiences you talk about, then he should seek professional help, as Tigersoap says. But in any case, there is nothing wrong with the video, nor with the world being populated by both women and men!

I agree completely. In fact being led to such distraction by the mere presence or sight of the gender to which one is attracted is indicative of much deeper issues than just 'relationship problems' of the past. I think, in such cases, professional counseling is advised.

To suggest that an EE video be made consisting only of men in order to lessen your distraction (or anyone's distraction) is to avoid the crux of the issue, which is a lack of control of your machine - a 'driver' who is asleep or absent. osit.

 

[Harold]

Hello All, Very interesting replys. Glad to read the feedback. :)
Cheers,
Harold