Attributes of Female Pyschopaths.

[luke wilson]

Hi, I am lagging behind in all the pathological stuff/narcisstic stuff in the forum as I have been concentrating more on the esoteric element of things. However, I picked up a taste of what a pyschopath is, from other people's posts and descriptions about them. It's more of a vague thing as, as I have come to understand it, pyschopaths come in different varieties and I personally dont know what the varieties are and what there characteristics are.

Anyways, I wanted to ask about what a female pyschopath might be like? From all the descriptions I have seen on pyschopathy, I have noticed most if not all pertain to men and I have come to realise I dont have any tools or knowledge as to what a female pyschopath is, how to detect/avoid one or how to not fall into there trap.

 

[Tigersoap]

Hi Luke,

Maybe you should try to read "Without conscience" by Dr Robert Hare for example.

Or this thread Important notes on psychopathy


As for a female psychopath, I think the same general traits as men (glib, charm...) would apply but gender specific traits would be used by the psychopath to get what she wants.

From what I understand, I think it would be difficult for anyone not to fall for a psychopath male or female, if they're good ones, unless he/she has a really strong antisocial behavior, which would normally make sense not to start any relationship with such person in the first place ;)

I guess you have to be careful in starting a new relationship and try not to let your hormones lead the way, I am not sure that you have to be too paranoid either and label people as psychopathic directly if they display such or such traits osit.

 

[probetheus]

hi Luke


source: Fringe knowledge for beginners, Tom Montalk

quote:

"Permanent agents are also sometimes used to approach and befriend helper souls in the active stages of awakening in order to lead them astray with false beliefs. For example, if you decide to embark on an intense journey of learning all you can about yourself and reality, the hyper dimensional Control System takes notice and might eventually send someone fishy your way. This person comes to you strongly mirroring many of your beliefs but seems a bit hurried or pressured to build rapport with you. Then the moment they have your undivided attention they quickly switch over to a pile of disinformation, trying to lead you down a line of beliefs that make you feel uncomfortable, trying to make you doubt your own previously gained knowledge and wisdom—not through solid reason but through manipulative tactics. Often they will enter your life with a bunch of really weird synchronicities, like mentioning specific things you have just been researching but no one else knows you have, or talking about their personal history and childhood with details that very oddly and too closely match your own. And as soon as you show resistance they switch from sweet to bitchy in a split second. That’s a red flag if they do the 180˚ switch as soon as you refuse to bend to their will, which reveals what they are really after."

Something like that happened to me ( I`m not suggesting here that I`m necessarily helper soul because of that)

You should see how someone interacts with other people and not just the way someone interacts with you. Someone can be very nice in interaction with you and be vary nasty toward other people. In such cases I try to avoid such persons cos sooner or later they`ll turn against me too. Such females try to lure you to approach her. If you do not approach her, she can try touch you or rub her body against yours in order to gain your attention. If you don`t "succumb" then she can try to involve some of her friends to mock you, something like ...ooo he probably likes boys or something like that. If you decide to go ahead and make connection with such girl you`ll probably regret more than you could imagine. Of course it depends but from my experience..... First, she can try to revenge because you didn`t accepted her first "invitation" (even if you decide to accept this game) .If you don`t accept that game you could also have a lot of trouble. But even that is small price to pay in comparison with problems that such person can cause if you take in. But if you see that some girl is psychopath, avoid her at any cost!

We can compare this with Adam and Eve story. If you accept that "apple" at the first place you are giving her permission to do anything she wants. In that case you are accepting blackmail and you are giving up your free will. I would like to compare this with everyday life. If we start to "buy" someones love, in first occasion when we deny to continue that, all this relation`ll collapse cos this "foundations were made of clay". Just as relation with psychopath could have faulty foundations . If you accepted psychopath`s blackmail, you gave him/her permission to do that anything he/she wants. Just as humanity succumbed to Lizzards temptations . And here we are now, trying to return where we were (but we should be smarter by now) just as you`ll have to free yourself from such person if you decide to go ahead at the first place. When you get rid of such person you`ll definitely be smarter next time but better learn from other people mistakes!

Do you remember the scene from The Matrix when Neo starts to look at the girl in the red dress and at the next glance he notices gun?

:)

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[probetheus]

Just one small explanation regarding the Adam, Eve and blackmail.
This blackmail refers to situation in which you decide to go ahead in relationship with psychopath just to avoid mentioned mocking.

 

[bngenoh]

Hi Luke,

"I" agree with everything Tigersoap & probetheus said, and "I" would like to relate a story to you from my own life. For me, female psychopaths are the most dangerous for males, becuse of their insidious, and subtle tactics.

It was in 2008 - 2009, "I" had just moved to this particular locale, and there were urgings, longings for something coming from deep within me. "I" had no idea what they were, because they were so vague, but very perceptible. "I" was seeking something, but had no iidea what it was.

Then, out of nowhere, she solicited me on Wednesday and she was at my house on Saturday. The way she just came to me should have set off a red flag, (this was before i encountered Laura's work) but alas, "I" was rolling along in ignorance, and projection.

There was one instance where "I" had intercourse with her, and "I" could sense what was within her. There was nothing within her, just an endless sucking void, "I" feel that being circumsized protected me in a way because "I" was not able to establish a strong enough connection with her, because ever since "I" underwent that procedure, "I" have been seated in myself quite strongly, and so she couldn't suck too much of my energies. But, ignorance is a strange thing, because all "I" did was file it away, and kept right along, stupid, blind, deaf, and dumb. "I" kept interacting with her for a period after this, until "I" encountered Laura's work. Then she just seemed to disappear from my life, like she wasn't interested in me anymore (whew). :D

As always, "Knowledge Protects, Ignorance Endangers" that, is deadly true.

 

[anart]

Hi Luke,

"I" agree with everything Tigersoap & probetheus said, and "I" would like to relate a story to you from my own life. For me, female psychopaths are the most dangerous for males, becuse of their insidious, and subtle tactics.

It was in 2008 - 2009, "I" had just moved to this particular locale, and there were urgings, longings for something coming from deep within me. "I" had no idea what they were, because they were so vague, but very perceptible. "I" was seeking something, but had no iidea what it was.

Then, out of nowhere, she solicited me on Wednesday and she was at my house on Saturday. The way she just came to me should have set off a red flag, (this was before i encountered Laura's work) but alas, "I" was rolling along in ignorance, and projection.

There was one instance where "I" had intercourse with her, and "I" could sense what was within her. There was nothing within her, just an endless sucking void, "I" feel that being circumsized protected me in a way because "I" was not able to establish a strong enough connection with her, because ever since "I" underwent that procedure, "I" have been seated in myself quite strongly, and so she couldn't suck too much of my energies. But, ignorance is a strange thing, because all "I" did was file it away, and kept right along, stupid, blind, deaf, and dumb. "I" kept interacting with her for a period after this, until "I" encountered Laura's work. Then she just seemed to disappear from my life, like she wasn't interested in me anymore (whew). :D

As always, "Knowledge Protects, Ignorance Endangers" that, is deadly true.

Hi bngenoh, the above is all extremely subjective. Do you have any solid data that this person was a psychopath? Just because you didn't like her (even though you slept with her) does not mean she was a psychopath. It is a very, very dangerous thing to assume that you know things you cannot possibly know.

 

[bngenoh]

Hi bngenoh, the above is all extremely subjective. Do you have any solid data that this person was a psychopath? Just because you didn't like her (even though you slept with her) does not mean she was a psychopath. It is a very, very dangerous thing to assume that you know things you cannot possibly know.

True, very true anart

 

[graeme15b]

May i add that psychopaths are experts at finding your strengths & weakness.
If you have something that a psychopath wants, and that could be almost anything, they will push
your buttons to get the desired reaction out of you. That could be your sensitive buttons or feel good
buttons, maybe both simultaneously. The work on the self stripping away lies & false programs, combined with vigilance are probably the best antidotes. If a psychopath wants something from you they will violate your free will in some way, however subtle. However many insecure needy or unaware people are capable of free will violation, in fact haven't most of us at some point in our lives been guilty of this in moments of weakness, neediness or without realizing it? Not so easy to tell is it. Difference is a normal person will usually be upset & mortified when realizing that they have manipulated another however unconscious( might not show it though!). A psychopath doesn't care and will just lie when caught out. The manipulation and lies don't stop and of course its always someone else's fault. To a psychopath its a way of life. If someone is pushing your buttons then be careful & keep your eyes open!

 

[probetheus]

Psychopaths don't have scruples. They won˙t stop until they get what they want. But problem is that sometimes they don`t know what they want in all this insanity.
One psychopath girl is harassing me almost 3 years now. You can`t get rid of it. Five years ago if someone told me that something like that is possible I would tell him that he is crazy. I thought something like that is only possible in the movies. I broke any relation with her about year and half ago but she started manipulating people around me. If I would tell you what she has been doing, people would say: man you are insane, that is not possible, even I don˙t know how she menages to manipulate with so many people. You realize that behind this is something diabolic. I don`t want that someone thinks... he labels people just like that, but when someone is constantly harassing you I think that at least I have right to call such person a psychopath. I`m sorry because I didn`t noticed warning signs before but when I look upon it, there were plenty of them. Somewhere I was reading that diabolic forces are in constant fear that they`ll be exposed. When I was talking with this person and in the moment when I mentioned something that she didn`t want to hear (but something absolutely benevolent), she just goggled her eyes. That`s long story why she reacted this way on something so benevolent but basically that was this fear that I`ll figure out what she was after or that I`ll expose her. But bottom line is that she wasn`t after anything except harassing me and making my life miserable. There is no logically explanation for this insanity. At the beginning when I was blinded, basically with my stupidity and ignorance I gave her permission to harass me / I gave up my free will, but than I sad enough is enough. But even year and half after, she is still trying to harass me. I just can`t explain it. But on the another hand If it wasn`t this girl it would be probably some other like her. I probably had to learn this lesson and that`s it. After this maniac I had some other "prepositions" from girls like her but I said... No way. Better to reject and suffer from minor problems than suffer next couple of years... But on the positive side I learned a lot about world, about people and about nature of reality and if I hadn`t have this problems I would probably missed some of the opportunities to learn and to comprehend some things. So, just as graeme15b said I`ll try to keep my eyes open (but I won`t goggle them) :)