Be happy for those who anger you?

[piranah]

I became aware that there are these beings who watch and who seem normal but these is a slight off key something about them. Something not everyone sees but i seem to sense it. I used to rush the feelings away but now i carefully file it. I stay low on their radar or do not have anything to do with them if i can. I think they are very dangerous. I only wish i had listened to my self. Once i saw this woman and i shivered i remember i thought to myself i wouldn't Like to get on her bad side.the feeling was so clear. Years later i did actually meet her again and became involved in a project she was also involved with. I found out she was bullying others and an extremely manipulative character. I just read in paper she has been voted volunteer of the year. These dark watchers cause so much pain. I hope i can counteract in a small way. I was told you should pray. Not hold anger or bitterness. It is almost as if they want y ou to be jealous or angry and if you can let go even if they have done you a terrible thing then you negate their victory.

 

[Nienna]

Piranah, you seem to be describing psychopaths. What I am wondering is, you have been with this forum since May of 2008. Surely you have read about psychopaths here on the forum? They are dangerous and, yes, you do want to keep your distance.

I would suggest, if you haven't already, that you read these books and in this order:

The Sociopath Next Door - Martha Stout
Women Who Love Psychopaths - Sandra Brown
Snakes in Suits - Robert Hare and Paul Babiak
Without Conscience - Robert Hare
The Mask of Sanity - Hervey Cleckley
Political Ponerology - Andrzej Lobaczewski

And you may want to read posts in the Pscyhopathy section of this forum.

Knowledge protects. ;)

 

[piranah]

Yes i have learned much about psychopaths and i have read the books you mention. It seems then there are a great many of them. The worrying thing is when you try to explain what is going on to others. It is Like only certain people are immune to their mind control. Only certain people can sense them.

 

[obyvatel]

Yes i have learned much about psychopaths and i have read the books you mention. It seems then there are a great many of them. The worrying thing is when you try to explain what is going on to others. It is Like only certain people are immune to their mind control.

According to my current understanding, it is very difficult for a souled person to be completely immune to the effects of a psychopath. Underestimating the predator is fraught with danger and the best course of action if one is encountered is avoidance as Nienna mentioned.
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Only certain people can sense them.
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There is a difference between someone occasionally displaying pathological traits and a psychopath. Many normal people may display some types of pathological behavior in certain situations due to the ponerized environment of the society. But they could behave differently if the environment was different - whereas a psychopath would not be able to change his behavior.
So perhaps one needs to be circumspect and cautious before labeling someone a psychopath. Our senses could lie to us and these impressions conveyed by the senses need to be calibrated with observations and knowledge input - osit.

 

[piranah]

Osit yes of course you must not label everyone who displays certain behaviors a psychopath. The people i see seem to be skilled at manipulation of others many of whom are unaware they are being used. On tv you see these characters in soaps etc and everybody understands the plot but in real life these seems to be disbelief and a tendancy to brush off any odd behaviours. I may seem emotional about this but i have honestly uncovered a web of such complexity you would not believe it. In fact i almost went mad trying to work its dimension out. I am not as far forward as many people on here with my mental growth. But i am learning to trust my self.