Nathancat7
Jedi Master
People here in threedee and what not are not meant to ignore the limitations of the physical.
Most of us are built for communal living. I am.
The hardships and burdens of today are an opportunity to come together and learn that sharing are beautiful fruits of communication.
It's something I'm learning.
Larken, to not know about this is to invite noise and chatter, a cacophony of sorrowful disorganized, and to put loved ones and true friends in danger.
I wish to talk about really a fear of being alone, that is somewhat on mind.
We all have physical needs and I need to be around family, peferably true friends.
That isn't always possible.
sometimes there is a need to focus or concentrate on very much materialistic things like cooking together eating together sharing the same living space while sleeping I'm not talking about sex here that's not what I'm talking about.
I suppose creating these boundaries and speaking truth with love goes hand-in-hand with being a true friend.
It takes is stretching of strength to reach out in the 3d and navigate it with boundaries.
I had a friend of a friend, or a friend of someone bad, move in this summer.
She's 71 and I didn't charge her rent, I gave her her own little cubby hole of a room.
I asked that she not contact said person, and that she do what she can around the place.
And she does.
She is spritely for her age.
She cooks every other night, and does the dishes.
She lost her husband and son within the last 5 years.
Sometimes the forlorn can help the forlorn.
at first I was quite we're a bit just because I've spent so much time alone reaching out to other people is not always easy for me to do.
but having someone around someone I can communicate even if it's not just about materialistic things joking and laughing is quite a comfort.
I first of course I rebelled privately inside just because I was so alone and there is all that anger inside.
But then I made decisions to stop and just go inside.
Now she is a talker and she talks a lot and frankly I listen with half an ear and I find that I really liked having someone talk and I just sort of become quiet which is my almost my default part of my nature although I don't know if that's true really or not.
She greets me after work and we talked for about 15 minutes or sometimes she has a meal cooked. That's so wonderful.
our strength and what I admire is that she just sort of has many friends and a sense of independence; and just sort of does her own things and is extremely respectful of boundaries.
But of course she's going back down to winter summer migration place.
Honestly when I'm tired my fears get the better of me and I just my shutter I just shutter, because I'm going to miss her so much .
It's been a real boon for me and a big help.
Understand that she's just a friend and we can't or don't talk about a lot of interesting things. I say what I can about truth but I don't push it or anything because that's not what we are about.
The
thing that I discovered in this friendship is to love someone anyway and share in companionship of materialistic burdens.
Because some things when not understood should honor what is not up for us, or me, to decide.
That's a good first step lol.
I don't wish to give too much credit here to my friend, because the credit is to my true friends and my true family.
Most of us are built for communal living. I am.
The hardships and burdens of today are an opportunity to come together and learn that sharing are beautiful fruits of communication.
It's something I'm learning.
Larken, to not know about this is to invite noise and chatter, a cacophony of sorrowful disorganized, and to put loved ones and true friends in danger.
I wish to talk about really a fear of being alone, that is somewhat on mind.
We all have physical needs and I need to be around family, peferably true friends.
That isn't always possible.
sometimes there is a need to focus or concentrate on very much materialistic things like cooking together eating together sharing the same living space while sleeping I'm not talking about sex here that's not what I'm talking about.
I suppose creating these boundaries and speaking truth with love goes hand-in-hand with being a true friend.
It takes is stretching of strength to reach out in the 3d and navigate it with boundaries.
I had a friend of a friend, or a friend of someone bad, move in this summer.
She's 71 and I didn't charge her rent, I gave her her own little cubby hole of a room.
I asked that she not contact said person, and that she do what she can around the place.
And she does.
She is spritely for her age.
She cooks every other night, and does the dishes.
She lost her husband and son within the last 5 years.
Sometimes the forlorn can help the forlorn.
at first I was quite we're a bit just because I've spent so much time alone reaching out to other people is not always easy for me to do.
but having someone around someone I can communicate even if it's not just about materialistic things joking and laughing is quite a comfort.
I first of course I rebelled privately inside just because I was so alone and there is all that anger inside.
But then I made decisions to stop and just go inside.
Now she is a talker and she talks a lot and frankly I listen with half an ear and I find that I really liked having someone talk and I just sort of become quiet which is my almost my default part of my nature although I don't know if that's true really or not.
She greets me after work and we talked for about 15 minutes or sometimes she has a meal cooked. That's so wonderful.
our strength and what I admire is that she just sort of has many friends and a sense of independence; and just sort of does her own things and is extremely respectful of boundaries.
But of course she's going back down to winter summer migration place.
Honestly when I'm tired my fears get the better of me and I just my shutter I just shutter, because I'm going to miss her so much .
It's been a real boon for me and a big help.
Understand that she's just a friend and we can't or don't talk about a lot of interesting things. I say what I can about truth but I don't push it or anything because that's not what we are about.
The
thing that I discovered in this friendship is to love someone anyway and share in companionship of materialistic burdens.
Because some things when not understood should honor what is not up for us, or me, to decide.
That's a good first step lol.
I don't wish to give too much credit here to my friend, because the credit is to my true friends and my true family.
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