I just wanted to share a conversation I recently had with a French acquaintance of ours, a man who lives in our town, and worked for 25 years as a delivery man. We always liked him. He was very polite, always on time, he knew our names, and you could tell he was kind and loved his job. About a year ago he stopped coming over, and we wondered what had happened to him, but had no contact details to reach him.
Then he called the other day to check on how we were doing, and give us some news.
Well, first his wife died. They had been together for 25 years, and he loved her very much. He explained that she had had a generalized cancer, and within two months, she had died. He started telling me how sad life is without her, how many people today aren't as lucky as he was to have met and had the privilege of sharing his life with someone so special, and don't understand how difficult it is to mourn and continue living without her.
On top of that, the reason why he quit his job is because he suffers from severe arthritis in the back and the neck. He applied for a disability pension, but only gets 700 EUR a month (if that), which is barely enough to get by around here. He then added: "You know, sometimes I think this country is already gone to Hell. Here I am, an honest tax payer for 30 years, who just minded his job, tried to do his best and never ask for anything, and now that I am in need, I get a third of what migrants get. They instead receive about 1300 EUR, a car, social and medical assistance... I've always supported assisting those in need, but when you know that it was our tax money which created wars, which then led to this immigration crisis, and it is again our tax money that pays for it, I just lose all faith in my government and my country. Sometimes I just want to give up. Fortunately there are still good people out there, but the situation shouldn't be allowed to continue."
Now, this is a man who never got much of an education, yet, he said it all in a few words. His sadness and the simplicity with which he could see things were just heart-breaking. Discontent is rampant around here, and the system is showing signs of collapse like everywhere else in Europe. On the one hand, it is heartening to see that people like him are quite aware and sensitive to what is going on. But on the other, it's also a reminder of how little can be done, and of how the entire system would have to collapse/change before things get any better.
I know this is just a small example and that there is much worse, but IMO, it's a good reminder of the situation, explained by someone with a good heart, one of the countless victims of the system within which we are living.
Then he called the other day to check on how we were doing, and give us some news.
Well, first his wife died. They had been together for 25 years, and he loved her very much. He explained that she had had a generalized cancer, and within two months, she had died. He started telling me how sad life is without her, how many people today aren't as lucky as he was to have met and had the privilege of sharing his life with someone so special, and don't understand how difficult it is to mourn and continue living without her.
On top of that, the reason why he quit his job is because he suffers from severe arthritis in the back and the neck. He applied for a disability pension, but only gets 700 EUR a month (if that), which is barely enough to get by around here. He then added: "You know, sometimes I think this country is already gone to Hell. Here I am, an honest tax payer for 30 years, who just minded his job, tried to do his best and never ask for anything, and now that I am in need, I get a third of what migrants get. They instead receive about 1300 EUR, a car, social and medical assistance... I've always supported assisting those in need, but when you know that it was our tax money which created wars, which then led to this immigration crisis, and it is again our tax money that pays for it, I just lose all faith in my government and my country. Sometimes I just want to give up. Fortunately there are still good people out there, but the situation shouldn't be allowed to continue."
Now, this is a man who never got much of an education, yet, he said it all in a few words. His sadness and the simplicity with which he could see things were just heart-breaking. Discontent is rampant around here, and the system is showing signs of collapse like everywhere else in Europe. On the one hand, it is heartening to see that people like him are quite aware and sensitive to what is going on. But on the other, it's also a reminder of how little can be done, and of how the entire system would have to collapse/change before things get any better.
I know this is just a small example and that there is much worse, but IMO, it's a good reminder of the situation, explained by someone with a good heart, one of the countless victims of the system within which we are living.