Mr.Anderson
Jedi Master
After reading the thread regarding strategic enclosure, I understand the importance and benefits. However after an extended period of self examination and (I assume a commitment to doing "The Work,") community could be a beneficial vehicle for accelerated growth.
As a parallel, relationships, which most people think are about finding "happiness," are really about doing The Work. Harvell Hendrix says that you better hope you never find your true sole mate... they know how to push every button an reopen ever childhood wound (program) you have. He says it takes 5-7 years to heal these wounds and find any modicum of "happiness." I think he's terribly optimistic, it takes longer.
Community's in relationship are messy, difficult and exhausting-- who wants to look at their 'compost' as frequently as you must when being in the company of someone who "sees you." To say you are not ready is like saying that you are not ready to take your medicine. Idries Shah say in his book Learning How to Learn, the "higher work" is done in relationships.
If people are going to get together, it could take a great deal of time to work out the logistics... if it's not too late already.
FWIW
As a parallel, relationships, which most people think are about finding "happiness," are really about doing The Work. Harvell Hendrix says that you better hope you never find your true sole mate... they know how to push every button an reopen ever childhood wound (program) you have. He says it takes 5-7 years to heal these wounds and find any modicum of "happiness." I think he's terribly optimistic, it takes longer.
Community's in relationship are messy, difficult and exhausting-- who wants to look at their 'compost' as frequently as you must when being in the company of someone who "sees you." To say you are not ready is like saying that you are not ready to take your medicine. Idries Shah say in his book Learning How to Learn, the "higher work" is done in relationships.
If people are going to get together, it could take a great deal of time to work out the logistics... if it's not too late already.
FWIW