Stuart
Padawan Learner
Hello, I recently had a relationship with a woman for roughly 6 months, and I can only say I'm glad to be out of it. Before I met her I had two dreams: the first was about me with a small tanned girl with her hair tied back and I was sitting at a dinner table and when I looked up I noticed a black triangle type UFO above us (a warning?). The second involved me with an ex girlfriend who broke my heart, but we were getting back together.
A couple months later I met this girl who was small, tanned and with the face that was almost exactly the same as the ex that broke my heart - needless to say I proceeded to date her.
At first she seemed like a weak little mouse that had an ex boyfriend who mentally abused her, cheated and basically treated her like dirt. She had two children from this guy and he hardly ever spent time with them. She told me that all her other boyfriends had been on the "weird" side. So me being a nice guy I proceeded to treat her with the respect that she deserved and help her with her situation, including a debt of around $11,500, that she said was mainly his doing.
So I got "hooked" into this pity ploy of feeling sorry for this girl who would tell me endless tales of how the father of the children treated her so badly, and occasionally he would phone or text something that would make her cry and she'd come running to me to make her feel better.
My work suffered as well as my relationships with friends and family as I spent more and more time with her to save the "damsel in distress".
As the relationship progressed she began to tell me more about herself and it transpired that she beat up her ex boyfriend because basically he didn't pay her enough attention (although the original reason she gave was different). She also had a criminal record as long as her arm for offences of mainly theft - although she may have commited other offences that I didn't know about. I also noticed she drank a great deal and at every oppurtunity would take drugs and seemed very promiscuous in her past and would regulary flirt with men.
Now you're probably thinking I should have left at these warning "signs", but I rationalized staying with her because she seemed like she needed help. Oh, and her parental skills were shall we say poor to say the least.
Now it seemed that this female was displaying psychopathic behaviour - but she told me some things that made me think perhaps otherwise, such as when she was 13 and living at her mothers she said that an unexplained "smell", or "stench" would come in her room every night and stink it out - but the smell stopped at the doorway- if you walked just a few feet away from the room it was non present. Her mother told her some story about it being a dead bird or something and she believed it as she doesn't believe in the supernatural or aliens or basically anything like that. Also when she moved back in for a while when she was older every night big spiders would always be in there and she would squish them, but just in a small amount of time the room needed decorating from all the marks of dead spiders littering the walls. When she left the smell and spiders stopped.
Now like I said she never believed in aliens yet would tell me dreams of being taken aboard spaceships and regulary have sleep paralysis, and also a dream her ex had of her having an alien head, chasing him.
Then the ex boyfriend suddenly wanted her back badly so bad in fact he tried to kill himself (although she also had history of self harm and attempted suicide) and then I was for some strange reason thinking I "loved" her, but I couldn't think why - in fact I could hardly think at all when I was with her. And then she would start cheating on me with him and in the end she didn't know why, she just kept saying that he had some sort of "spell" over her.
My question would be do you think this was an obvious attempt by 4D to derail me and is she a psycho or merely manipulated and programmed to drain me from a 4D level or maybe some spirit attachments?
Oh, and the "smell" is back at her mothers house,only this time it's in her sisters room and only above her head.
A couple months later I met this girl who was small, tanned and with the face that was almost exactly the same as the ex that broke my heart - needless to say I proceeded to date her.
At first she seemed like a weak little mouse that had an ex boyfriend who mentally abused her, cheated and basically treated her like dirt. She had two children from this guy and he hardly ever spent time with them. She told me that all her other boyfriends had been on the "weird" side. So me being a nice guy I proceeded to treat her with the respect that she deserved and help her with her situation, including a debt of around $11,500, that she said was mainly his doing.
So I got "hooked" into this pity ploy of feeling sorry for this girl who would tell me endless tales of how the father of the children treated her so badly, and occasionally he would phone or text something that would make her cry and she'd come running to me to make her feel better.
My work suffered as well as my relationships with friends and family as I spent more and more time with her to save the "damsel in distress".
As the relationship progressed she began to tell me more about herself and it transpired that she beat up her ex boyfriend because basically he didn't pay her enough attention (although the original reason she gave was different). She also had a criminal record as long as her arm for offences of mainly theft - although she may have commited other offences that I didn't know about. I also noticed she drank a great deal and at every oppurtunity would take drugs and seemed very promiscuous in her past and would regulary flirt with men.
Now you're probably thinking I should have left at these warning "signs", but I rationalized staying with her because she seemed like she needed help. Oh, and her parental skills were shall we say poor to say the least.
Now it seemed that this female was displaying psychopathic behaviour - but she told me some things that made me think perhaps otherwise, such as when she was 13 and living at her mothers she said that an unexplained "smell", or "stench" would come in her room every night and stink it out - but the smell stopped at the doorway- if you walked just a few feet away from the room it was non present. Her mother told her some story about it being a dead bird or something and she believed it as she doesn't believe in the supernatural or aliens or basically anything like that. Also when she moved back in for a while when she was older every night big spiders would always be in there and she would squish them, but just in a small amount of time the room needed decorating from all the marks of dead spiders littering the walls. When she left the smell and spiders stopped.
Now like I said she never believed in aliens yet would tell me dreams of being taken aboard spaceships and regulary have sleep paralysis, and also a dream her ex had of her having an alien head, chasing him.
Then the ex boyfriend suddenly wanted her back badly so bad in fact he tried to kill himself (although she also had history of self harm and attempted suicide) and then I was for some strange reason thinking I "loved" her, but I couldn't think why - in fact I could hardly think at all when I was with her. And then she would start cheating on me with him and in the end she didn't know why, she just kept saying that he had some sort of "spell" over her.
My question would be do you think this was an obvious attempt by 4D to derail me and is she a psycho or merely manipulated and programmed to drain me from a 4D level or maybe some spirit attachments?
Oh, and the "smell" is back at her mothers house,only this time it's in her sisters room and only above her head.
Well, I hope you're doing better now Stuart, either way! :D
