Happy-go-lucky attitude

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Taking things easy; carefree.

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Session 9 December 1994


Q: (L) Is there any qualification that needs to be established for us to get the lottery numbers? Is there some thing we have to do, or be, or think, or say?

A: Completely pure intent, i.e. open.

Q: (L) Completely open?

A: Nonanticipatory.

Q:
(L) Our anticipation constricts the channel when we ask for that kind of information?

A: Yes.

Q:
(L) We have to be completely uncaring whether we get it or not, so to speak?

A: Happy-go-lucky attitude helps. As you were before.

Q: (L) So, as long as we are worried, tense, anticipatory, and attached to the idea, we constrict the flow?

A:
Yes.

I was struck by what the Cs once mentioned about having a happy-go-lucky attitude and wondered how to acquire it, cultivate it and maintain it.

For me that this is associated with living a life with low anxiety levels (Quite some time ago I also bought the book by LeDoux on anxiety , although I found it a bit dense and have not had a chance to read it again though). Sometimes just as an experiment, I have tried to think about it and then see what happens and it usually works like in a situation where I have forgotten something somewhere and finally I find it or some little issue with someone has been solved.
I also assume it has to do with increasing faith and trust in the universe, and moving closer to the STO polarization where you allow life events to happen without expecting or anticipating anything. Where a sense of humor would also be included...
Perhaps more elements can be added to all of the above.

 
I have been playing a bit with Grok about these concepts:

Etymology of "Anticipation"
The word anticipation derives from the Latin anticipatio, from anticipare, meaning "to take before" or "to act in advance" (anti- = before, capere = to take). It originally implied foreseeing or preempting an event, often with a proactive or preparatory connotation. By the Middle English period, it evolved to include emotional expectation, blending hope, eagerness, or dread about the future. In the context of time and anxiety, anticipation is inherently temporal, as it involves projecting oneself into the future, often with an emotional charge. This etymological root—acting or feeling "before" an eventresonates with anxiety’s forward-looking nature, making it a key concept for our analysis.


Etymology and Meaning of Anxiety
Etymology
: The word anxiety comes from the Latin anxietas, derived from anxius (uneasy, troubled), rooted in the verb angere (to choke, squeeze, or distress). This suggests a visceral, constricting experience, evoking a sense of being emotionally or physically “tightened” by worry. By Middle English, anxiety evolved to describe both fear and eagerness, reflecting its dual nature as apprehension and anticipation.
Meaning: Anxiety is a state of unease or apprehension, often about uncertain future events. It involves emotional, cognitive, and physiological responses, ranging from mild worry to intense dread. In modern contexts, it’s both a normal reaction to uncertainty and a clinical condition when persistent or overwhelming. Its temporal dimension—focused on the future—ties it closely to anticipation and time.


Let’s enrich our exploration of time and anxiety by adding a cultural evolutionary perspective and generating a visual aid to complement the existing analysis, which includes the etymologies of anxiety (angere, to choke) and anticipation (anticipatio, to take before), and perspectives from Joseph LeDoux, Iain McGilchrist, Stephen Porges, Alfred North Whitehead, Thomas Nagel, Arthur Schopenhauer, Jacques Lacan, Bernardo Kastrup, and Stoicism. I’ll keep the analysis concise, integrating the new cultural evolutionary lens and providing a clear visual representation in English. If you want further refinements or deeper dives, just let me know!

Cultural Evolutionary Perspective
From a cultural evolutionary perspective, anxiety and anticipation are shaped by the interplay of human biology and societal development over time. Early human societies, reliant on survival in unpredictable environments, evolved anticipatory mechanisms to foresee threats (e.g., predators, scarcity), with anxiety (anxietas’s “choking” distress) serving as a survival signal. As cultures transitioned from hunter-gatherer to agricultural societies (~10,000 BCE), time perception shifted from cyclical (seasons, rituals) to linear (planning harvests), amplifying anticipation (anticipatio’s “taking before”) of future yields or failures, thus intensifying anxiety over long-term uncertainty.
With the rise of complex civilizations (e.g., Mesopotamia, Ancient Greece), cultural constructs like calendars, clocks, and religious eschatologies formalized time, embedding anticipatory anxiety into social structures—e.g., fear of divine judgment or societal collapse. The Industrial Revolution (~18th century) accelerated this, as mechanical timekeeping and productivity demands fragmented time into measurable units, fostering a cultural obsession with future-oriented anticipation (e.g., deadlines, progress). Modern digital culture, with its constant information flow and social comparison, hypercharges anticipatory anxiety, as individuals feel pressured to predict and control an increasingly volatile future.

Cultural evolution also shapes coping mechanisms. Ancient practices (e.g., Stoic philosophy, meditation) countered anxiety by refocusing on the present, while modern consumerist cultures often exacerbate it through future-driven aspirations (e.g., wealth, status). Cross-culturally, collectivist societies (e.g., East Asian) may experience anticipatory anxiety tied to social harmony, while individualistic ones (e.g., Western) emphasize personal success, each amplifying different temporal anxieties.


 
Holistic Synthesis
The etymologies of anxiety (angere, to choke) and anticipation (anticipatio, to take before) reveal their temporal core: anxiety’s distress arises from anticipation’s projection into an uncertain future. Each perspective illuminates this dynamic:
  • LeDoux: Anxiety is anticipatory brain simulation, rooted in survival but maladaptive today.
  • McGilchrist: Left-hemisphere anticipation fragments time, worsened by modern culture.
  • Porges: Anticipatory threat distorts time, amplified by impersonal societal structures.
  • Whitehead: Resisting anticipatory flow fuels anxiety, clashing with progress-driven cultures.
  • Nagel: Anticipation of finitude creates existential anxiety, shaped by cultural narratives.
  • Schopenhauer: Anticipatory desire perpetuates anxiety, intensified by consumerist goals.
  • Lacan: Anticipation of lack triggers anxiety, exacerbated by modern promises.
  • Kastrup: Egoic anticipation separates us from timelessness, reinforced by materialism.
  • Stoics: Irrational anticipation breeds anxiety; present-focus counters cultural pressures.
  • Cultural Evolution: Linear time and future-oriented societies amplify anticipatory anxiety, with cultural coping strategies varying widely.
Anxiety’s “choking” grip is a temporal phenomenon, driven by anticipation’s preemptive reach. Neuroscientific and physiological lenses reveal mechanisms, philosophical and Stoic views offer reframing strategies, and cultural evolution shows how societal shifts shape this interplay over
 
Few months ago I was in situation when i had a lot of free time and i was most of the time alone.And in that period,i think i expirienced something similiar.Actually a realization.

There is psychological movement in every of us.That movement is concern for an example.That is: „I need to do this…I need to do that…I must…etc.When you think about all that things you „must do“,“need“,have to“,when you observe your concerns very carefully you gonna realize that you dont need to do anything.Realy.That doesnt mean that you gonna left off all your obligation for family,house,job,no,its just about to realize that thinking about problems doesnt mean that you have control over them.It is to understand that worring doesnt solving the problems at all.When you think about this,fear appears.It is normal.Because we are programmed to be in a state about concern,worring all the time.Paying attention to that problems will,hopefully,disolve that ugly thing called concern,worry etc.

And then there is huge relief,great easiness in life and from that happiness,lucky.

Dont get me wrong,dont want to offend anyone but i think there is a lot of things in our daily life that doesnt make sense,dont have any value and we need to get rid of it.

Sometimes we need to „do nothing!!!“One of the hardest things in life.Not physically but psychologically do nothing.
 
I requested a more complete document FWIW:
 
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