Well look at this! thank you all for your wishes!
I met Claudia when I was at a low point in my life as I was still hooked to one ex girlfriend, relationship which in retrospective was definitely one of those that you could label as draining, even though everyone was saying that to me at the time, I didn't see it. I guess that happens to all of us at some point, anyway, then I met her and I started feeling different, like it could be possible to have a supporting emotional exchange with someone that actually encourage you to keep on going! That actually cared for you and your decisions!
Around a year ago before that I discovered the forum and I was reading everything I could get my hands on at cassiopaea.org, although it was interesting I was just starting to dip a toe in the water. As the relationship grew I started sharing some stuff and feeling comfortable enough to even talk about hyperdimensional realities and psychopaths - and the response was amazing, she actually has found a correlation of people in her own life and psychopath and deviant behavior that has helped her to understand the dynamics involved dealing with such persons.
She has rheumatoid arthritis and when she met me she was also at a low point in her life as she had just found out about it, and the doctor, while not having a definite diagnosis, suggested that it could be lupus, another auto-immune disease that has a mortality rate attached to it. The diagnosis finally went for RA, but the devastation and the pain of adjusting to this new reality was already settling in as she was 23 at the time, and never thought this could be happening to her, as it happens to thousands of other women that are getting these auto-immune diseases younger and younger!
As we shared information on nutrition and health, her own has improved and now she is off those deadly medicines that beat the liver down, she is not completely into the paleodiet but somehow she has managed to loose weight steadily just by lowering her wheat, milk, nuts, etc...
Thank you all again!