Inquorate
Jedi Master
My boy (3) once came to us saying his great-grandmother comes to play with him in his room. Differently worded of course but it was clear who he was talking about. I have seen her around the place watching the boys too, out of the corner of my eye. I once expected to see my wife who looks similar. He has seen people in our driveway, and a green man out the front etc.
He often says, "What?" when nobody has said anything, and once i asked him what he had heard; he thought for a moment and said, "not welcome."
Recently my wife (greek) found one of his favorite toys inside a locked (can be jimmied open with a similar key) glass doored cabinet on his great-grandmother's grave, cobwebs firmly intact. When we asked him had he given any toys to the 'lady in the photo', he said, "yes, last time. I need it at home."
He has quite often said he needs "the boy's (boys?) channel on tv, the boy/'s radio station on.. and i thought he meant boys, not boy's. But just now he said, "The boy found his Mum. She at home, but boy can't go home"
My nephews and nieces have had similar experiences, as did myself and brothers when young.
My question to the forum is, what to do? I lean toward telling him what he is seeing etc, y'know, knowledge protects. So far we have treated his experiences as genuine and been openly listening.
He often says, "What?" when nobody has said anything, and once i asked him what he had heard; he thought for a moment and said, "not welcome."
Recently my wife (greek) found one of his favorite toys inside a locked (can be jimmied open with a similar key) glass doored cabinet on his great-grandmother's grave, cobwebs firmly intact. When we asked him had he given any toys to the 'lady in the photo', he said, "yes, last time. I need it at home."
He has quite often said he needs "the boy's (boys?) channel on tv, the boy/'s radio station on.. and i thought he meant boys, not boy's. But just now he said, "The boy found his Mum. She at home, but boy can't go home"
My nephews and nieces have had similar experiences, as did myself and brothers when young.
My question to the forum is, what to do? I lean toward telling him what he is seeing etc, y'know, knowledge protects. So far we have treated his experiences as genuine and been openly listening.
