paranoiac skizophrenia

[aristar8]

Hello to all

Back after a long time. I never missed the Sott News and did a lot of reading on the forum.
Had a very serious nervous breakdown because of my son's mental state. If it is correct to do so, I would like to ask Laura a question to which I really do not know the answer. I've tried everything and nothing works. I really and sincerely think that she might be the only person to answer me because she is a sincere person and has children and the Knowledge. I don't agree with the professionnals in psychiatry. My son is 30 years old and has paranoiac skizophrenia for 10 years now and I have been the only person on earth to support him morally and financially. He has no respect at all for me but I still help him because he is alone in the world except for me. I just feel I cannot let him down but I also know that I hate myself to continue to take the verbal agressions from him. Please, help me.

Aristar8

 

[aristar8]

Still me
Laura, for you and with the Knowledge that you have, what is skizophrenia and what can I do for him and at the same time, not to try to kill myself because I do not have any more hope in me.

Thank you for reading me.

 

[aristar8]

Hello to all

I asked a serious question and I did not get any answer. Once Anart told me to ask questions to help me understand and I do not understand why nobody can help me. I am sorry if I asked a weird question but I really needed the help.

 

[truth seeker]

Apologies for taking so long to answer aristar8.

I took a look at some of your posting history to get a better feel for your situation. I think it basically boils down to this - you cannot take care of anyone unless you take care of yourself first. What does your diet look like and are you doing ee - if only an abbreviated version of it without the baha portion. It seems that you are quite stressed and that is understandable so the meditation, I think may be of great help.

Also, are there any services around you that can help you with your son? That would relieve some stress as well to have some respite. Is your son living with you or is he on his own?

Added: Is your son currently seeking or interested in psychiatric help of any kind?

 

[anart]

Apologies, aristar8, I was traveling and time slipped away. It does sound like you are at the end of your rope and I do think that if there are services in your area who can take care of your son, that would be a wise way to go. I know that might sound frightening, but you do not have the capability (no single person has the capability) of dealing with that level of mental illness. You must not destroy yourself trying to help someone when they cannot be helped, not in any significant way. It sounds like your son needs to be placed in a facility that will give him full-time care - is this possible?

 

[Laura]

Sorry, Aristar, when your question was posted, I was down with a herniated lumbar disc and following that, have been almost totally occupied with dealing with a serious attack that has included the necessity for seeing attorneys, police, compiling stacks of documents, etc. Our lives here are not easy, to say the least.

You never really formed a question in your opening post here, just stated the situation. One thing I would like to mention is that relationships are not always what they seem. You can give birth to a child who was an enemy in a former life who came to you to either make amends or to destroy you. You can give birth to a child who you love dearly, but who turns out to be an Organic Portal, incapable of understanding or truly loving you or anyone else. Children can be born to parents who are OPS and feed on them until they are able to overcome the genetic body attachment. And sometimes, though rarely, your children are soul companions also.

It sounds to me like you have a whole load of emotional programming going on there and very little soul objectivity. Dealing with diet issues and utilizing the EE program yourself may help you to get to a more stable place where you can assess this situation rationally and make healthy decisions.

 

[ScarletBegonias]

Apologies, aristar8, I was traveling and time slipped away. It does sound like you are at the end of your rope and I do think that if there are services in your area who can take care of your son, that would be a wise way to go. I know that might sound frightening, but you do not have the capability (no single person has the capability) of dealing with that level of mental illness. You must not destroy yourself trying to help someone when they cannot be helped, not in any significant way. It sounds like your son needs to be placed in a facility that will give him full-time care - is this possible?

Hello aristar8, I know you were only asking for Laura's input with this post, but others have chimed in and I would like to now do the same. I think anart offered some potentially extremely useful advice on steps you can take in this situation. If you make the decision to seek medical treatment for your son this information may be of some use to you:

_http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/paranoid-schizophrenia/DS00862/DSECTION=preparing-for-your-appointment

Preparing for your appointment
By Mayo Clinic staff

In some cases, a health care provider, family member, friend or another acquaintance may ask about your behavior, thoughts and mood or suggest that you be evaluated by a mental health provider. Or you may decide on your own to schedule an appointment with your family doctor or mental health provider to talk about your concerns. In some cases, you may be taken to a hospital for an emergency psychiatric evaluation.

What you can do
Being an active participant in your care can help your efforts to manage your condition. One way to do this is by preparing for a planned medical or psychiatric appointment. Think about your needs and goals for treatment. Also, write down a list of questions to ask. These questions may include:

Why do you think I have paranoid schizophrenia?
How do you treat paranoid schizophrenia?
How could treatment change things for me?
What do medications for this condition actually do?
How could counseling help me?
How long will I need treatment?
What can I do to help myself?
Are there any brochures or other printed material that I can take home with me? Or can you recommend reliable websites to visit?

In addition to your prepared questions, don't hesitate to ask questions during your appointment if you don't understand something.

What to expect from your doctor
During your appointment, your doctor or mental health provider is likely to ask you a number of questions about your thoughts, behavior and mood. You may be asked such questions as:

What are your signs and symptoms?
When did these signs and symptoms first start happening?
Do you notice the same signs and symptoms that other people notice in you?
How is your daily life affected by your symptoms?
Do you hear or see things other people don't seem to?
Do you have certain special mental abilities that other people don't?
What have you tried on your own to feel better or to control your symptoms?
What things make you feel worse?
Have friends or family commented on your thoughts or behavior?
Have any of your relatives had a mental illness?
Do you ever have thoughts of harming yourself or others?
Do you smoke? How much?
Do you use alcohol or recreational drugs? How much?
What medications or over-the-counter herbs and supplements do you take?