backstory: every year when my birthday comes around my predator kicks in and makes me sabotage any celebration by not telling anybody the date and then when nobody 'remembers' ,sends me tumbling into depression 'cause i have no friends'
so this year when i woke up crying two days before the impending birthday ,i decided to take a different approach.
i had a glass of wine (for breakfast),as in TCM the liver is the source of depression or anger...two sides of the same coin,low chi in liver= depression-to high chi in liver =anger ,got myself a pen and paper,let the tears flow, and composed a poem
i have always felt that good poetry or song lyrics that really speak to you have to be written when you are feeling that particular emotion you are writing about not afterwards when you are 'over' it.
so feeling the sadness not fighting or repressing it--lower emotional center,right?
getting pen and paper and writing--moving center,right?
trying to make it rhyme and have a good rhythm--intellectual center,right?
the poem was a reverse love poem, ' addressed ' , but not sent,to my ex partner who , even tho he knew about my recurring birthday blues ,had told me he wanted to spend my birthday with me a year earlier but then stood me up and went to party with others while i waited for him to show up.
and it did help, the blues went away and i had the least frustrating b/day in many years and a week later my friends ( i actually do have some :D)had a surprise party for me and another Capricorn friend.
my question is did i do it right or did i send myself back to sleep?
Any input is most welcome, thank you in advance
RRR
so this year when i woke up crying two days before the impending birthday ,i decided to take a different approach.
i had a glass of wine (for breakfast),as in TCM the liver is the source of depression or anger...two sides of the same coin,low chi in liver= depression-to high chi in liver =anger ,got myself a pen and paper,let the tears flow, and composed a poem
i have always felt that good poetry or song lyrics that really speak to you have to be written when you are feeling that particular emotion you are writing about not afterwards when you are 'over' it.
so feeling the sadness not fighting or repressing it--lower emotional center,right?
getting pen and paper and writing--moving center,right?
trying to make it rhyme and have a good rhythm--intellectual center,right?
the poem was a reverse love poem, ' addressed ' , but not sent,to my ex partner who , even tho he knew about my recurring birthday blues ,had told me he wanted to spend my birthday with me a year earlier but then stood me up and went to party with others while i waited for him to show up.
and it did help, the blues went away and i had the least frustrating b/day in many years and a week later my friends ( i actually do have some :D)had a surprise party for me and another Capricorn friend.
my question is did i do it right or did i send myself back to sleep?
Any input is most welcome, thank you in advance
RRR