Smile or Die Video

FireShadow

Jedi Master
My husband came across this video "Smile or Die" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5um8QWWRvo&feature=player_embedded) and I thought it would go well in this category of "Our Orwellian World" in the sense that I see this push for "positive thinking" to be a control device. This video examines and explains this quite well, I think, and the illustrations accompanying the talk are pretty good as well.

Background: Many years ago, I had been trying so hard to change myself and my life. I came across this philosophy (if you can call it that) of "you create your own reality (ycyor)". It was so pervasive and everywhere I turned, people would imply or outright tell me that I was creating my own misery by my attitude and that I must be doing something wrong if life was not turning out how I wanted it. Oh, how I tried that "positive attitude" thing, but it did not work for me. When I tried to report my results to others, no one wanted to hear that - all I got was that I must be doing it wrong and to stop complaining. Nothing made sense to me. I heard what people told me, tried their methods (for years) but reality did not comply with their theory. Meaning was lost. I felt that either I was a spiritual idiot or it was all a lie. In the end, it drove me into the "Void".

When I came across Laura's work, one of the first (and most important to me) things that jumped out at me was what she had to say on the topic. I was especially struck by her idea that this trying to create reality by "visualizing" what you wanted was actually a creator of more chaos as the "vision" contradicted how the universe saw itself. (I don't remember for sure where I read that, it was a few years ago, but I think it was in "Secret History of the World"). I look at all the chaos we have now after so many decades of this "philosophy". And, I look at how this philosophy tells people to deny reality. No wonder so many have gone insane!

In Laura's work, I felt I had finally found someone who was sane and could see clearly (or was at least trying and making headway). It was a theory that actually matched the evidence I was seeing. It was one of the primary ideas that got me reading the rest of her work.

Thank you, Laura.

Finding this video was heartening - someone else also sees this.
 
FireShadow said:
It was so pervasive and everywhere I turned, people would imply or outright tell me that I was creating my own misery by my attitude and that I must be doing something wrong if life was not turning out how I wanted it. Oh, how I tried that "positive attitude" thing, but it did not work for me. When I tried to report my results to others, no one wanted to hear that - all I got was that I must be doing it wrong and to stop complaining. Nothing made sense to me. I heard what people told me, tried their methods (for years) but reality did not comply with their theory. Meaning was lost. I felt that either I was a spiritual idiot or it was all a lie. In the end, it drove me into the "Void".

Thanks for sharing the link and your experience Fireshadow,

It's another great video by RSA animate on Barara Ehrenreich and her book "Smile or die".

I also went through that phase, thinking that I must be the problem because it seems to "work" for so many people.
This desillusion opened the way for a pretty dark period of my life as well.

What a blessing to read Laura's work about all of this because it finally made sense to me !
 
Since posting the link, it has continued to "percolate" in my mind. Specifically, the part in the video where she talks about the author of "The Secret" and what that author said when asked about the Katrina disaster. The author was reported to have said (paraphrasing) that they must have been giving off "disaster vibes", in other words, they were asking for it.

This sounds to me so much like the old religious/superstitious beliefs that when disasters come it is because "God is punishing you for your sins"...that "you better believe as we tell you or you will suffer and it will all be your fault". More of that "blame the victim" thinking (osit). And when, in spite of people's efforts to "think positive", disasters do happen, the people get to suffer more by feeling like such failures (sinners) - which feeds STS 4D.

Teaching people to deny reality so that they can no longer see it, really paves the way for the psychopaths to do what they want without as much interference from "the people" (what the people cannot see, they cannot interfere with). And when the people do realize something is amiss, the blame is place on the victims' "sinful" thinking.

Wow, what a pay-off for "them" (psychopaths and 4D STS).

One of the traps of this kind of thinking was that it presented the illusion that I would be empowered by believing in the "ycyor" philosophy. At first, I thought, "wow, I can change my life". But, as time went by, I actually become more powerless because no matter how hard I tried, I failed.

Tigersoap said:
I also went through that phase, thinking that I must be the problem because it seems to "work" for so many people.

Yes, because there do seem to be enough people for whom this systems seems to work, one questions oneself even more, taking even longer to get out of the trap. It's really "crazy-making"!
 
FireShadow said:
One of the traps of this kind of thinking was that it presented the illusion that I would be empowered by believing in the "ycyor" philosophy. At first, I thought, "wow, I can change my life". But, as time went by, I actually become more powerless because no matter how hard I tried, I failed.

I've been thinking that all the YCYOR kind of thing is also fostering all kind of narcissistic behaviors because you basically think that the Universe owe you everything and when it does not happen, it's tantrum time or it opens up the wound that you're not good enough.
I am finally thankfull that it did not work for me.

So maybe it does "work" if you're intrinsically STS or chosing this way consciously ?

In a way I am baffled that people still fall for it but at the same time with all the narcissism being promoted through medias, it's only logical that it attracts a crowd osit.
 
Thanks for the link FireShadow!

FireShadow said:
Teaching people to deny reality so that they can no longer see it, really paves the way for the psychopaths to do what they want without as much interference from "the people" (what the people cannot see, they cannot interfere with). And when the people do realize something is amiss, the blame is place on the victims' "sinful" thinking.

So true. By putting sole responsibility for all the events in the world in one's hands, not only it tries to place us in the same level as God, but it also completely denies the possibility of psychopathy and of any form of evil.

There is something that kinda bothered me in the ycyor thinking which was the premise that despite your level of being, you always had the right to ask. No, not to ask, but to demand.
I also ventured in it for a while, but the fact that I knew from experience that as I got to know myself better what I believed I wished would dramatically change, has always nagged me. How could a whole population with so many problems of people abusing people and a whole other myriad of problems be considered knowledgeable and conscious enough to be able to ask the universe for things? Surely this could only lead to pure chaos....but as we many things, it is oh so easy to push disturbing thoughts that don't fit aside....

Tigersoap said:
In a way I am baffled that people still fall for it but at the same time with all the narcissism being promoted through medias, it's only logical that it attracts a crowd osit.

I think so to. There is a good documentary called "Century of the Self" which was mentioned some time ago in another thread (http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=6735.0). In case you haven't seen it, it gives an excellent overview of how during the 20th century we were cleverly manipulated into looking at our own navels as the centre of the world. The title in a way says it all: the century of the Self.

Added:
My overview of the documentary was reductionist and simplistic. I will add that it skilfully connects Freud's ideas with subsequent maneuvers in mass manipulation within the Western world.
 
Gertrudes said:
I think so to. There is a good documentary called "Century of the Self" which was mentioned some time ago in another thread (http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=6735.0). In case you haven't seen it, it gives an excellent overview of how during the 20th century we were cleverly manipulated into looking at our own navels as the centre of the world. The title in a way says it all: the century of the Self.

Oh yes I was thinking about it yesterday as well.
I need to see it again.

I am just started to read Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy and the Triumph of Spectacle by Chris Edges and it is also an interesting glimpse into the "self-centered" culture and how it used by the medias and the powers in place to maintain the illusion at all costs...especially at the cost of the soul.
 
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