Study-shows-women-carry-the-DNA-of-sexual-partners

[Deleted member 11729]

I just read this article

http://www.sott.net/article/295106-Be-careful-who-you-sleep-with-Study-shows-women-carry-the-DNA-of-sexual-partners

and as a mother of 4 kids with medical high school and constant interest in psychology, brain research, genetics and stuff, I knew that with pregnancies we are actually kind of organically, not just emotionally, or so to speak literally related to the whole of the family of the father of our kids.

Most of them can't understand our connection with them on that level, as they are not linked to us, but once we carry a baby, a mixture of DNA of our partner father and mother enters our body ... so with my decision to separate from my husband 5 years ago, I know my brain was clear of need for separation, and because my understanding of this organically links, I understood why my emotional body still feel "sad" about that through long period of time, even though our relationship entered at really ugly state, and everyone normal will run away far away from it, I felt that no way I can run from that terror of emotional abuse just by moving to another continent, but I didn't know how I can cut that organic ties I had within myself that were blocking me to see him in pure reality as he is, instead of dreamland of a good father and person that just wasn't ready to go on with me ... but recently as I decided to start to prepare my self to do the The Work, and as I started to read and to get introduced to Gurdijeff, Ouspensky, Laura, Pierre and other stuff, some how I got one impulse of what I have to do to stop that connection with him and his family that has been torturing me emotionally for some time now ...

So one day I just realize that I have to do some kind of mind work that will actually help me to literary cut that ties I have within my body with him. I realize that it has to be something like mental surgery or sort of, and only when I do that, I will be capable to focus more on The Work and all of the things I want to accomplish through my journey I took here at cassiopaea worlds. And that day I just felt organically in my body from my throath to the top of my belly a kind of a rope that I had to cut emotionally with my thoughts, and to get that out of me. And I decided to focus on that to do it, and it was very emotionally draining, but something happend. Since that simple 2 hour sort of meditation to do that CUT, I started to see him more clearly, and I started to understand him less emotionally, and what was new for me, I wanted to observe more his relations with other people, what helped me to see better what kind of person he relay is. Also what I liked is that that process of observation that just started is not about to judge him, it is more about to see him clearly, who he is and who I am, and how our kids are shaped by us, not just genetically, but more how that genetics actually reacts to totally opposite ways of living that we have now as separate individuals.

I don't know is there any biological and psychological explanation for that but I thought will be interesting to share and to look more into that

 

[theos]

It was certainly a very interesting article and explains why, on a more nuts and bolts physical level, why it can be so hard to detach mentally, physically and emotionally from an ex partner.

Highland Fleet Lute posted this comment under the article:

Which is partly why rape is such a heinous crime.

I couldn't agree more.

I wonder if it goes in the other direction with men carrying the DNA of female partners? I don't really see why not.

Additionally, I wonder if it is even possible -- or necessary-- for these DNA bits to be expelled?

 

[Deleted member 11729]

Additionally, I wonder if it is even possible -- or necessary-- for these DNA bits to be expelled?

I don't know if it is possible, I think it is not possible to clean the DNA, but the way of how it influence us through that link, and how it get connected with our material, that probably can be changed by our own work I guess, I don't know I am just at the begging of reading Ouspensky In the Search of Miraculous, and if I remember right, there is something what is described there, that state of being has to be change through crystallization, as I understood it G. talks about physical change within our cells that will lead to the change of our being ... don't know, just thinking loud ...

and than after I intuitively felt that some kind of chemical, physiological process has to be induced within the body buy our mind and will, and after I try it, than after that I read this chapter from the G. in the book ...

also I think it is not a good attitude either to wish to expel them, but to sharply cut the links to those who still can hurt you through that window, I am sure it is good to try, but wish to expel them is not good specially if you have kids, as that DNK that is mixture of your kid your partner, is your link to the kids. But to observe process of reshaping it within your self, and to be as less as possible judgmental, and how that can affect your kids, that obviously are not aware of that, but you can observe change if you focused on that, that is definitely interesting ... as through that observation and work on you you can definitely influence your kids, not only you, specially if they spending 90% of time with you, you any way become like a one "unit", and that can specially be very helpfull for those women who get raped and get pregnant and decided to keep the baby, if recollection towards connectivity within your body in order to keeps you more positively human with your personal characteristics, and more oriented to STO type, that can truly bring revelation for all the emotional pain that is put into through that act ... don't know don't know ...

Also what I noticed is how my body looks and feels much much better, what also makes me feel better, and that happen just shortly since I stop practicing sex with my h. and my body physiology start to get better and better from the moment when I decided to separate. SInce than I don't have physiological PMS ugly simptoms, just ordinary hormonal hints, like when I was a young girl, and I am even doubt if that really exist ... ;) as I remember now, it was relay the first big change that happen that I noticed, even though I was under a huge stress, having all life stuff on my back, you know, and totally unhelpfully h. at that time, but my body all of a sudden was much happier :) ....

IT is interesting actually how little we know about our physiology, but if we will learn that in schools we will feel more confident about all the issues that bothers us in our life. Like for example woman's are not naturally open to have casual sex, probably this DNA exchange is one of the very real reasons, that if we will knew it, women will never accept to be fooled with this sex revolution crap.