Systematic And Systemic Sexualisation Of Youth

Zaphod

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I've been having this argument with various people recently; and it's a difficult one. It appears on one hand that society, and quite rightly, severely punishes those who predate on children. I'm sure everyone reading this board fully understands why this is the only moral and sane course of action and has no issue with the stance the establishment takes on this however, things like this make me wonder if the establishment, and the moral judgement of the masses, really are singing from the same hymn sheet on this one:

_http://celebrities.ninemsn.com.au/blog.aspx?blogentryid=585857&showcomments=true&rss=yes

There's also been stories in our recent history regarding junior poll dancing kits, Harry Potter broomsticks which vibrate, bras for tots, high-heels for tots, child make-up etc; so it's far from being an isolated event and it's difficult to describe how utterly bizarrely freakish it all looks. I can't answer for others but I find looking at the page above puts me in mind of peering in to an alternative reality where laws and sound moral judgement regarding child-prositution, child pornography, grooming of youngsters etc, simply don't exist.

It would be tempting to put this down to merely consumer exploitation of another demographic however, there are two problems I have with that argument. If we look at a lot of modern popular culture we find this same meme repeating. As an example: the music of people like Christina Aguilera, Britney Spears.. Jeez these people infest my tv every day and I can't think of half of their names but the acts are all the same ... Turn on any music channel and what do you find? Tween-look acts with exaggerated moves, big smiles, primary colours, flashing lights, childlike verbal and melodic repetition and so on. These are techniques which are understood in the teaching profession as a way of reaching youngsters, as nothing else holds their attention. And the underlying theme behind these acts, in the way they dress, dance, in the lyrical content and facial expression... it's sex, with an alarmingly thin veil.. aimed right down the nose at the child psyche.

The other problem with that argument of course, is that virtually all exploitation of children falls under the 'consumerism' heading sooner or later.

Then of course we have the fashion industry.. awash with imagery of scantily clad girls who, even if they are out of school, have been quite deliberately made to look like they're not.

Ok, there's more but let's not labour the point. Why is it, on one level, society is apparently being encouraged, through exactly this sort of imagery and product, in the blatant sexualisation of children; and then on another level, being punished for acting on that imagery, by the very same establishment that created it and publicised it in the first place? Why is it on one level, we can't photograph our own children, we can't sit in a park for too long, we're not allowed in a school without a background check, if we find ourselves sitting next to a child on certain airlines whilst being male, we are humiliatingly forced to move to another seat .. yet on another level, we are presented with the link above .. blatant sexualised imagery involving children

Or to ask it from another slightly rhetorical angle, would we be likely to see a reduction in opportunistic abuse cases, if this sort of dangerous nonsense were made illegal?... which actually I think it probably already is, it's just for some bizarre reason our laws and morals don't seem to apply at this level.

And that makes me further wonder, if over a period of time, this has a sort of 'ponerizing' effect on many who are subjected to it. Since it seems, we can make some non-psychopaths behave like psychopaths (at least in the short term) simply through external stimuli, can the same thing be achieved with sexual inclination in some?
 
Zaphod said:
Ok, there's more but let's not labour the point. Why is it, on one level, society is apparently being encouraged, through exactly this sort of imagery and product, in the blatant sexualisation of children; and then on another level, being punished for acting on that imagery, by the very same establishment that created it and publicised it in the first place? Why is it on one level, we can't photograph our own children, we can't sit in a park for too long, we're not allowed in a school without a background check, if we find ourselves sitting next to a child on certain airlines whilst being male, we are humiliatingly forced to move to another seat .. yet on another level, we are presented with the link above .. blatant sexualised imagery involving children

Zaphod,

I think it all comes down to ponerology of the masses. Little girls and boys that are in the spot light are taught from a very young age that their bodies are 'not their own'. They belong to the public because they are in the spot light. These young kids get brain-washed to wear these things because they are forced to grow up faster than they should be. Which in turn affects their psyche. Girls such as Noah Cyrus (from the link above) don't have healthy role models to look up to. She looks up to her teen sister who is ponerized as well. It's only natural that she would want to be and look like her elder, popular sister Miley.

The way I look at it is that- this is the way of the psychopath/narcissist. They dangle something very taboo in front of regular people who are ponerized and are supposed to deny their lower centers. While at the same time- all that they are ever taught is how to respond and react to that very same lower center. It's psychopathy at it's best-

And it's a wonder why famous people end up messed up like Michael Jackson, Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears. I can already see the future of Noah Cyrus and it's very bleak. And at the same time people wonder, why oh why is there so much child-abuse in the world.... Well the answer is ponerization of the masses, osit.
 
Deedlet said:
Zaphod said:
Ok, there's more but let's not labour the point. Why is it, on one level, society is apparently being encouraged, through exactly this sort of imagery and product, in the blatant sexualisation of children; and then on another level, being punished for acting on that imagery, by the very same establishment that created it and publicised it in the first place? Why is it on one level, we can't photograph our own children, we can't sit in a park for too long, we're not allowed in a school without a background check, if we find ourselves sitting next to a child on certain airlines whilst being male, we are humiliatingly forced to move to another seat .. yet on another level, we are presented with the link above .. blatant sexualised imagery involving children

Zaphod,

I think it all comes down to ponerology of the masses. Little girls and boys that are in the spot light are taught from a very young age that their bodies are 'not their own'. They belong to the public because they are in the spot light. These young kids get brain-washed to wear these things because they are forced to grow up faster than they should be. Which in turn affects their psyche. Girls such as Noah Cyrus (from the link above) don't have healthy role models to look up to. She looks up to her teen sister who is ponerized as well. It's only natural that she would want to be and look like her elder, popular sister Miley.

The way I look at it is that- this is the way of the psychopath/narcissist. They dangle something very taboo in front of regular people who are ponerized and are supposed to deny their lower centers. While at the same time- all that they are ever taught is how to respond and react to that very same lower center. It's psychopathy at it's best-

And it's a wonder why famous people end up messed up like Michael Jackson, Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears. I can already see the future of Noah Cyrus and it's very bleak. And at the same time people wonder, why oh why is there so much child-abuse in the world.... Well the answer is ponerization of the masses, osit.

I completely agree here. Although, I do want to add that understanding what's going on does not make it sicken me any less when I see things like this LINGERIE FOR CHILDREN. Actually... I think it sickens me MORE.

P.S. The first thought in my head was, "What on earth is wrong with this child's father?" But then I remembered this picture, which honestly makes older sister Miley and her father look more like lovers than parent and child.
 

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I agree with what you both wrote and will just add that the definition of love has been skewed. People seem to think that having the attention of millions of people screaming at you is love. Many psychopathic types are attracted to the entertainment industry and are who surround these people. I would think that if someone doesn't have a clear idea of who they are, they will be more easily influenced. Even those who are somewhat clear may play the role of the psychopaths victim because they convince themselves that even though something feels not quite right, everyone else is acting in the same way and therefore go against their better judgement. This stuff appeals to the narcissistic nature in all of us.

Everyone wants to be loved and will unfortunately sometimes give in to whatever the current and societal view of what love is.

As for Cyrus' father, I believe he is also an entertainer. Just as Miley's sister looks up to her, Miley also looks up to her dad and has imitated what her father has modeled for her. To her, it's normal behavior.
 
truth seeker said:
As for Cyrus' father, I believe he is also an entertainer. Just as Miley's sister looks up to her, Miley also looks up to her dad and has imitated what her father has modeled for her. To her, it's normal behavior.

Yup, Miley's father is the formerly popular country singer Billy Ray Cyrus.
 
Deedlet said:
These young kids get brain-washed to wear these things because they are forced to grow up faster than they should be. Which in turn affects their psyche. Girls such as Noah Cyrus (from the link above) don't have healthy role models to look up to. She looks up to her teen sister who is ponerized as well. It's only natural that she would want to be and look like her elder, popular sister Miley.

It goes beyond that, I think. This particular child is being exploited by grown-ups around her. How can a 9 y.o. "start her own design label" -- she isn't of legal age yet for crissake. She can't register a business or oversee production and distribution; she can't even write a business plan or draw designer sketches for the things she is planning to make and sell. She is a child poster face being put on some adult's ambition to target a certain consumer segment and who know what besides.

Very much reminds me of JonBenet Ramsey. The girl didn't go to pageants and become a beauty queen on her own. It's one thing to like to wear heals, adore Hannah Montana, and put mom's lipstick when going to school, for example. If a child were to do it, yes, that speaks of some brainwashing that happened in the family or via media influences. But if the kid is strutting catwalks in a full Las Vegas show girl getup, that's a bigger problem, that's child being someone's doll to dress up and play with. That really must teach the kid that her body is not her own.
 
I think Hildegarda sees through the issue, in my view. What she said also explains the issues of the sexual use and abuse of children throughout history. It seems to be about thinking of children as objects, to be imprinted with fantasy and used for entertainment and money-making in whatever way is possible. Use of children seems to be overt in every conceivable aspect where it can be socially accepted, and covert where it is not.

It is absolutely amazing how many different ways 'adults' express the belief that they 'own' their children. I believe that the 'State' will always support that implicit assumption, although it may not always look like it on the surface, simply because the concept of owning people as resources is inherent in the political arena.

Just my thoughts on the subject. :)
 
Sometimes I think predators procreate by abusing children. Darkness is normalized at such a young age, it seems like some souls don't even get a fighting chance. :(
 
Bud said:
It is absolutely amazing how many different ways 'adults' express the belief that they 'own' their children.

Unfortunately this seems to happen before the child is even born, It seems many have a "job" before they enter the world (born because their parents need someone to love them or need someone to take care of them when they are old).
 
Hildegarda said:
It goes beyond that, I think. This particular child is being exploited by grown-ups around her. How can a 9 y.o. "start her own design label" -- she isn't of legal age yet for crissake. She can't register a business or oversee production and distribution; she can't even write a business plan or draw designer sketches for the things she is planning to make and sell. She is a child poster face being put on some adult's ambition to target a certain consumer segment and who know what besides.

This reminds me of the Olson twins, Mary-Kate and Ashley, toddler/child actresses on Full House. According to wikipedia:

The girls were born in 1986...
They were hired at the age of six months and filming began when they were nine months old.
During the eight year run, Mary-Kate and Ashley made several direct-to-video movies, in addition to Full House, such as To Grandmother's House We Go (1992).
Shortly after the end of Full House, they began heavily merchandising their image. They established a company called Dualstar in 1993 and their brand has been sold in more than 3,000 stores in the United States and over 5,300 stores worldwide.[3] Because of this, they have been on the Forbes' "The Celebrity 100 list" since 2002, and in 2007, Forbes ranked them, collectively, as the eleventh-richest women in entertainment, with an estimated net worth of $100 million.
Their parents divorced in 1995.

Born in '86, began filming at 9 mos, established a company in '93. They were a whopping 8 years old when "they" established a company! And now, they are probably among the richest women in the nation if not the world. But, if you look at them, they do NOT look healthy although that could have something to do with their highly promoted "fashion forward" scruffy, homeless "look". Mary-Kate has struggled with anorexia nervosa.

The sexualization of our children has been obvious to me for a very long time. I remember how pathetic it was to see infants not even old enough to crawl wearing name brand athletic shoes. After all, it's all about prestige and pushing them to be little adults instead of children. Sadly, recent generations have had their childhoods stolen by our ponerized society. And, I do agree the sexualization is a very strong factor along with the resultant marketing bonanza. Lot's of money to be made turning children into little sexualized adults! Should I even mention Barbie dolls?!! Even Julia Roberts made a comment not too long ago, regarding the current fashions of very young girls and preteens - she was shocked at what today's kids are wearing! (Yeah, she woke up and realized she's no longer a young starlet and was out of the loop re current generation).

And what's the deal with all those stripper poles? Gawd! They seem to be EVERYWHERE in MSM! And ordinary people are installing them in their houses! Just more of the runaway promotion of lust and degradation of women! Oh, and the commercials for Toddlers and Tiaras make me want to spew!
 
All of the above agreed.

I am chronically creeped out by the way young girls look these days. yeesh. :cool2:
 
http://www.dispatch.com/live/content/life/stories/2010/02/18/peo18_ART_02-18-10_D6_0QGKCK6.html said:
She Suri has style

Suri Holmes continues to rewrite the book on toddler fashion. The 3-year-old daughter of actors Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes was spotted in Boston last fall wearing high heels, and recently, lipstick. Now she's toting an $850 "Sofia" handbag, Us Weekly said. A photographer in Jamaica spotted Suri's Sofia, a miniature version of the same bag her mama was carrying -- an $1,850 Sofia purse.

Total sickbag!
 
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