The Good Son: Child Psychopathy in Action

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I came across this movie called "The Good Son" through the book "The Empathy Trap: Understanding Antisocial Personalities" discussed here. The book is a great read for anyone interested how exactly psychopaths (and soziopaths for that matter) operate.

I have coloured the spoiler alarm parts in blue, the rest is safe and interesting to read, even if you have not watched it yet. (Spoiler Alarm means, those parts of the movie are meantioned there, that would give away important stuff before you watch it...).

Here is what Dr Jane McGregor and Tim McGregor had to say about that movie in the book:

Sociopathy in children is very much a hidden problem in society, but a few films have been made that draw attention to sociopathic children and allow us to glimpse the nature of the problem. The issue is the focus of the contentious US thriller The Good Son (1993).

The film was universally slated. Critics thought the sociopathic child, Henry, was too unrealistic, with one critic contending that ‘This is a very evil little boy . . . what rings false is that the Macaulay Culkin character isn’t really a little boy at all . . . His speech is much too sophisticated and ironic for that, and so is his reasoning and his cleverness . . . he seems more like a distasteful device by the filmmakers, who apparently think there is a market for glib one-liners by child sadists.’5 Nevertheless, for those who live in close proximity to a sociopathic child, the film, with the exception of its implausible ending, is not so far-fetched; in fact the main character’s glibness, artificiality and indifference are an accurate depiction of real-life child sociopathy. For example, here’s a passage of dialogue from the film.

A young boy called Mark Evans stays with his aunt and uncle and befriends his cousin Henry, who is the same age. But Henry begins showing increasing signs of sociopathic behaviour. Henry has thrown a plastic doll over a highway overpass into oncoming traffic, causing a massive pile-up:

MARK: Do you know what you did?

HENRY: Hey, come on. We did it together.

MARK: You could’ve killed people . . .

HENRY: . . . with your help . . .

MARK:Hey, I didn’t know you were gonna do that!

HENRY: I feel sorry for you, Mark. You just don’t know how to have fun.

MARK: What?

HENRY: It’s because you’re scared all the time. I know. I used to be scared too. But that was before I found out.

MARK: Found out what?

HENRY: That once you realize you can do anything . . . you’re free. You could fly. Nobody can touch you . . . nobody. Mark . . . don’t be afraid to fly.

MARK: You’re sick . . .

We watched the movie and we all can't understand why the movie was so slated, as well. (My guess is, because it portrays child psychopathy (and psychopathy in general) pretty accurately). It is a very good portray and very well played story of a psychopathic child and how he uses and manipulates others. A exact portay of a psychopathic child and his effects on the normal people around him and especially on the "empath" in this story as well.

Having said that, the movie isn't easy to watch, since the actions of the child literally make your stomach turn, not because of any graphic scenes, but because of the highly cruel and cold way that child operates and the terrifying results.

Highly educational movie about Psychopathy in general and especially how it manifest in children. I especially like how accurately they managed to show how ice cold and absolutely vicious psychopaths manipulate everyone around them, while presenting a mask of normality.

I think it is the best movie I have seen so far, about how psychopaths work and manipulate.

It is a real eye opener for people who have, or had, experience with psychopathy, and more specifically, with child psychopathy.
It is also available in german and it is called "Das zweite Gesicht".

It should be said though, that this psychopath, portrayed by the child, is not the smartest one and that more sophisticated psychopaths will not behave exactly in that manner outwardly, like this child does (for example if they have a very high intellect and were raised by smart and empathic people). Although the really good ones use the same types of cruel interpersonal manipulations, like this child does, they are smart enough to not do and exhibit it in the manner like this child does. So many psychopaths (and child psychopaths for that matter) are doing it in a more subtil way, but the mechanisms described in the movie are still the same.

From time to time during the movie (a lot of opportunities there!) one can stop and discuss the signs the psychopathic child exhibits and the interpersonal dynamics in the family (and those around them) and how, what each person says and does contributes to the story and in which way. Quite interesting.

In how many families is something similar happening and the psychopath (actually no matter who it is in the family) gets away with it, in contrast to the ending of that movie? Not every family is so lucky and most of them instead suffer for years under that inhumane pressure.
 
Thanks Pashalis for get back to my mind and to the network this excelent and didactic movie. In spanish was called "The evil angel" (El angel malvado). I saw it many years ago when I was yet so far of Laura, Cs, The Work, and all that knowledge. But despite this, the movie hit strongly in me because it gave me a glimpse of a reality really hard to see: it is not that just there is evil people in our world, but there is evil children... that was my thinking then; In my catholic formation the idea that everybody are essentially "good" but the "devil" can make them "bad" was almost a dogma. So, to watch that movie was a revelation for me.

The evil on a child it is something difficult to digest, especially when you have children and see every day what beatiful and inocent come to the world and you enjoy seeing how they grow and develop their individuality. So I agree with you, this a "you must see" movie for everyone that likes to see a very real picture of psicophatic child.
 
"The Good Son" is an excellent movie about child psychopathy. "The Bad Seed" is another one that brings home the idea. We have a thread on it here.

I haven't seen "We Need To Talk About Kevin", but it sounds worth watching.
 
I watched the movie quite some time ago and it was a real eye opener. All the characteristics of a psychopath are accurately depicted in the movie. What really stood out in my mind was the anguish experienced by the psychopaths mother as she tried to figure out what was wrong with her son. Imagine the negative impact a grown up Henry would have as a CEO of a large organization, or as a successful politician!
 
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