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Conclusion
Narcissistic Personality Disorder prevents the mind from performing any level of self scrutiny. This makes crying, apologising, forgiving, saying I love you, having empathy, sensing danger, thanking, mentoring, caring, grieving, comforting, decision making, parenting improvising and countless other essential human skills impossible. These things are not possible without looking into our heart.
If your Narcissistic partner apologises to you, beware it is fake and it is done to manipulate you. If she/he shows any of the above skills, rest assured it is fake. These things may look normal when performed and they may do things based on a good knowledge of what may be expected. But they will do nothing based on how they feel.
It is very rare that they will fake these things without an audience because they just don't ever feel the need. From my many years in contact with this problem I have learnt to understand why they do the weirdest things. My understanding did not make me happy. But it shows me where to put the boundaries. It shows me that my heart is good. It has lifted a lot of guilt and confusion.
Conclusion
Narcissistic Personality Disorder prevents the mind from performing any level of self scrutiny. This makes crying, apologising, forgiving, saying I love you, having empathy, sensing danger, thanking, mentoring, caring, grieving, comforting, decision making, parenting improvising and countless other essential human skills impossible. These things are not possible without looking into our heart.
If your Narcissistic partner apologises to you, beware it is fake and it is done to manipulate you. If she/he shows any of the above skills, rest assured it is fake. These things may look normal when performed and they may do things based on a good knowledge of what may be expected. But they will do nothing based on how they feel.
It is very rare that they will fake these things without an audience because they just don't ever feel the need. From my many years in contact with this problem I have learnt to understand why they do the weirdest things. My understanding did not make me happy. But it shows me where to put the boundaries. It shows me that my heart is good. It has lifted a lot of guilt and confusion.
