Wierd dream

[EGVG]

Hi!! Last night I had a very weird dream involving the death of a girl friend of mine. She and I are very distance right know because the friend that we shared a bond with moved to Brazil. So basically we don`t see each other anymore. In my dream she dies, I don't know of what cause, but since I don't see her frequently anymore, I heard the news of her passing through an X friend.
In the dream, I could talk to my death friend trough my cellphone and when we talked, I was very sad because I wasn't hanging out with her, and felt guilty. Not of her death, but she seamed sad and resented torts me. I remember asking her if she was judging me, and she answered that , yes she was. i also asked her where she was, and where she was living, she told me that that she lived in one of the numerous closets in my house. She didn't say witch one in particular. And finally I remember asking her in what dimension she was, and she didn't knew.

When I woke up, I didn't remember much or wasn't very aware of what I just have dreamed, because I got waken up by my cellphone, my boss was calling me into work... But then at lunch time, I got some food and relaxed for a moment ans I stared to remember my dream, I felt a lot during my lunch time, was kind of overwhelming, luckily I was alone. Well of course I have lots of ideas of what this dream means to me, but it made think of someting else.

My friend in this dream, is a very disturbed person, she is always depressed and carries a negative aura. I love her to death, but sometimes she can be overwhelming with her personal problems, I good listener and I like to help people with their personal stuff I mean if they trust me enough to tell me their issues I might just trust them enough with my opinion on the matter. Well getting to the point, she seem what we understand here as a soul less human been, it feel weird making that statement but I cant get that idea outta my head. OH MY GLUTEN!!! :/ don't know what to think anymore, I don't normally jump to this kind of conclusions this fast or in this sporadic way, I mean i normally wouldn't post such a personal thought, but I thought that if I have such a good friend like her that was so close to me emotionally tight trough friendship, then maybe other have been realising this as well, any anecdotal experiences about how to deal with this kind of realisations

Thanks a lot,

EDU

 

[Ollie]

Hi EGVG

Dream action is about the dynamics of your own life (hopes, fears, questions, conflicts, way out of difficulties, possibilities, etc.) The dream action may use images from experiences of the previous day or so before, as well as others. The dream symbols may be both literal and symbolic interpretations – be curious and naïve in your interpretation.

Here are some questions to ask your-self, they may help, or not.

When you re-experience the experiences in the dream, do they remind you of anything in life?

The setting, what does it feel like there? Does it remind you of anything in current life, any situation in life?

Who is ‘girl friend of mine’ (tell me on the basis that I don’t know her), what is ‘girl friend of mine’ like? What kind of personality? What does ‘girl friend of mine’ mean to you? What kind of person might you consider ‘girl friend of mine’ to be like?

What is ‘girl friend of mine’ like in your dream? What is ‘girl friend of mine’ doing in your dream?

What is your working, etc., relationship with ‘girl friend of mine’ like?

Is there some part of you that is like ‘girl friend of mine’?

Ask similar questions about ‘an X friend’.

Positive characters are about strengths and achievements.
Negative characters represent conflicts in life (personification of attitudes, beliefs, habits, etc)

What does the ‘cellphone’ mean to you? How does it ‘work’? What is it used for? (ask on the basis that I know nothing about it)

What is the ‘cellphone’ like in your dream? How do you feel about it?

Does ‘cellphone’ in your dream remind you of anything, any part of you, or anyone in your life? How?

Ask similar questions about ‘one of the numerous closets in my house’.

What does ‘dimension ’mean to you?


Death usually implies part of self is losing influence in life/died, unconscious within.

The action, events in the dream, what do they remind you of in your waking life?

Think about the dream as you go through the day, and test insights and ideas gained.

This may help, or not.

 

[EGVG]

well, yeah I have thought of all that you say. But I really was aware of all that, my point was my conclusion, on my friend been a soul lees human, or less souled.

EDU

 

[truth seeker]

In my dream she dies, I don't know of what cause, but since I don't see her frequently anymore, I heard the news of her passing through an X friend.
In the dream, I could talk to my death friend trough my cellphone and when we talked, I was very sad because I wasn't hanging out with her, and felt guilty. Not of her death, but she seamed sad and resented torts me. I remember asking her if she was judging me, and she answered that , yes she was. i also asked her where she was, and where she was living, she told me that that she lived in one of the numerous closets in my house. She didn't say witch one in particular. And finally I remember asking her in what dimension she was, and she didn't knew.

I think that death usually represents change. Also houses in dreams can represent the self. Perhaps although the nature of your relationship with her has changed, she is still a part of you? Not sure what closets in particular represent, but they are usually dark places. Maybe you're just processing your feelings about how your relationship ended? You may feel some guilt and her some anger.

Also, sometimes the people in our dreams are really just representative of various aspects of ourselves. Maybe you are judging yourself in terms of your relationship with her?

Has she been on your mind a lot lately?

 

[EGVG]

In my dream she dies, I don't know of what cause, but since I don't see her frequently anymore, I heard the news of her passing through an X friend.
In the dream, I could talk to my death friend trough my cellphone and when we talked, I was very sad because I wasn't hanging out with her, and felt guilty. Not of her death, but she seamed sad and resented torts me. I remember asking her if she was judging me, and she answered that , yes she was. i also asked her where she was, and where she was living, she told me that that she lived in one of the numerous closets in my house. She didn't say witch one in particular. And finally I remember asking her in what dimension she was, and she didn't knew.

I think that death usually represents change. Also houses in dreams can represent the self. Perhaps although the nature of your relationship with her has changed, she is still a part of you? Not sure what closets in particular represent, but they are usually dark places. Maybe you're just processing your feelings about how your relationship ended? You may feel some guilt and her some anger.

Also, sometimes the people in our dreams are really just representative of various aspects of ourselves. Maybe you are judging yourself in terms of your relationship with her?

Has she been on your mind a lot lately?

What you say resonates in me. I do fell guilt for not seen her, and not even calling her, I do judge myself a lot, Its my main issue.
And yes she has been in my mind lately, but just because she reminds me of my best friend how moved to Brazil. I guess I also fell jealousy because they where close friends, and I introduced them, I felt from time to time that she was taking away from me my best friend. I don't usually pay attention to this kind of negative thoughts, but they come back in my dreams to hut me down. Normally I see my insecurities materialise in my dreams, or unfold in a weird story, like this. Thanks

EDU