Just catching up here buz/p about your recent loss of Bently; very sorry, and now you have your new friend in Andie, and how you came to her after the discussion on waiting or not.
Our dogs have always been a number of years apart generally, and each time one has passed on, the grief for the one remaining is always intense, let alone for us. When it comes to waiting or not, it tended to be the latter for the reasons discussed for the reaming dog. I've always found it interesting, how like your description of coming by Andie, how they find us or we find them - this coming together. It sounds like Andie and you both were meant to find each other, so congratulations. :)
Our dogs have always been a number of years apart generally, and each time one has passed on, the grief for the one remaining is always intense, let alone for us. When it comes to waiting or not, it tended to be the latter for the reasons discussed for the reaming dog. I've always found it interesting, how like your description of coming by Andie, how they find us or we find them - this coming together. It sounds like Andie and you both were meant to find each other, so congratulations. :)