Welcome back Ben. Older and wiser.
Hey Ben, welcome back to the fold!I will let them reveal themselves if they wish.
Perhaps this time it can actually truly begin
it seems right now that work on the self is my obvious course of action
back, Ben! It does seem like the recent developments are nudging us to make or renew our efforts.
I'm now married to a wonderful woman who is very supportive generally, but does not seek the truth.
I've got this wrong so many times, so much information just bursting to get out. It's really not considerate of their needs and I almost always regret going too far (even if I stay calm the whole time). The plan now is to use this tension and energy to help me and not try to influence their thinking too much.One big realisation is that some things we may say to people around us are just so far outside their perception of events or view of the workings of the world, that they cannot understand it at all and just shut it out, possibly compromising anything else you offer them in future. No one can learn these things that fast, and even though it can be deeply frustrating, they have to learn at their own pace if they choose to at all.