Kat said:
Is it possible for someone to be doing the work and still be a psychopath?
I decided to come back to this question from a different angle.
Yes, it is not only possible, but even quite likely for a psychopath to get involved with others "doing the work," but certainly not to do it him or herself, but rather as a "hunting ground."
Kat said:
If so how would that work? Could they be fooling themselves into believing that they are sincere in their efforts, or even possibly be sincere in their efforts and still be a psychopath?
That is possible, I think. Such a person might say they are sincere, but their idea of sincerity might be quite different. They would be thinking (possibly) that sincerity is defined as "how many people can I get to believe I am sincere," rather than actually BEing sincere.
Kat said:
Would they know they are a psychopath? and could they be fooling themselves as well as others?
That also is an interesting question. I think that some psychopaths do not know that is what they are. Their inner world is simply bereft of any capacity to evaluate themselves in any way. They may give lip service to questioning themselves, but it does not really happen inside. They do it as a form of mimicry, because they know that certain phrases like "I examined my conscience," or "I could be wrong" are often used by people, and they USE them, but they are empty.
Kat said:
Could it be possible for them to resonate with the material if they are fooling themselves?
In that case, they aren't really "resonating," it is just a game to them. At some place inside them, they are thinking that they are smarter then everyone, they want to belong to a certain group because they have targeted it as the one that represents a certain "pose" they wish to adopt for predatorial purposes, and their real intention is to get inside, get to the top, and be considered an "authority" because it will enable them to better prey on others.
Kat said:
Could they be working on their programming and still seem to be making progress?
They could be pretending, using words and phrases, and perhaps even - to some extent - mimicking behavior, but it is all an act, a ruse, a pose, for the purpose of furthering an agenda to "put one over" on others. And, of course, the more challenging the project, the more enjoyment they might get out of success.
Kat said:
Could I be a psychopath and not know it? If so how would I determine if I am one?
As I mentioned before, if you were, you would probably not ever sincerely question yourself. You might ask the question as a ruse to throw people off, but inside, there would be no question.
Kat said:
I have read a lot of the material on the cass site about psychopaths and Martha Stout's The Sociopath next door, but how objective can one be about ones self, if they are a psychopath trying to hide that fact from themselves?
Interesting question: does a psychopath try to hide it from the self that they are a psychopath? Like I said, it is possible - and probably even likely in many cases - that the psychopath doesn't know that they are a psychopath because knowing that requires a certain ability to be "outside the self looking AT the personality." The psychopath simply does not have that capacity. I think that maybe, some very SMART psychopaths might have the knowledge that they are a psychopath by reading about them and finding the description "attractive" and "fits" and adopts it theoretically. Others may have received a diagnosis (smaller group here). But in general, I think that if a psychopath comes across the REAL idea of what it is to be one, they find it "fits" and inside, they exult in it even if it is not true self-awareness.
Kat said:
My understanding of it. is that programming can appear to be psychopathic behavior. If I am correct in this, then how do I determine which it is? After long self analysis I have come to the conclusion that I am not a psychopath but a human in struggle, trying to rid myself of some pretty ugly programming. But how can I be sure?
Well, certainly, if you were a psychopath, you could be asking these questions just to throw people off the scent. The real key is: do you, inside in the deepest places of the heart, always feel that you are fully capable - and even enjoy - putting one over on others?
Kat said:
After talking to Dr's and doing a lot of reading on cass and the forum, my siblings and I have come to the conclusion that our mother was a psychopath. Not border line disorder, but a true blue psychopath and she was damn good at it. I am not saying that she beat us or sexually abused us, no she just tried to destroy our personalities, our sense of self worth and our confidence in our selves.
A true, female psychopath? Interesting. A rare creature. That would mean, I think, that she would have had to get the gene from both her father and mother. Her father would have had to be a psychopath and her mother could have been normal, but a carrier of the "tainted" X chromosome. (Here, I am not an expert, I am just utilizing the information that is available from experts and going another step with it.) The result could be that both her X chromosomes would be tainted and all her children would receive at least one copy of a psychopathy gene, without exception. If your mother married a non-psychopath, then all her daughters would get only one copy of the tainted gene, but any sons would be psychopaths because sons do not get an X chromosome from the father.
Kat said:
She was such a good one, that it took almost 20 years after her death, for any one to start catching on, that something was not right about the way we were raised and the being that had raised us.
That is certainly the most interesting kind. And the most damaging.
Kat said:
She kept all of us very loyal to her. We each had our role and served our purpose in her ugly dance. We each had a piece of a story from her but no one had or has the complete story. She had to be good to keep us all cataloged and in our roles. She didn't start slipping until she became ill. We still didn't catch on then. My oldest brothers death some how triggered an awakening in us. Some of us had started catching on at this point but had been unable to broach the subject with our siblings, we were barely able to broach it with ourselves. After my brothers death things finally started coming out in the open and notes started being compared and we started realizing the scope of what had happened to us.
Secrecy is where the psychopath thrives. That is why all the "rules" of society about not "telling tales" have been so thoroughly inculcated in people.
Kat said:
I am sure that we all carry some psychopathic behavioral traits, how could we not. What I am trying to figure out is which are traits from association and which are real psychopathy.
Not to mention the gene. Like I said, if you got one clean X chromosome from your father, you can be free of psychopathy, but you may still have issues and tendencies. It's like having a wolf and a dog inside constantly battling. And you will also carry the gene and have a 50 percent chance of passing it on to all of your children, sons and daughters alike.
Kat said:
How many generations will this affect? Is it a gene that will be passed down? If so how long till it waters down and no longer affects us.
Genes don't "water down," they just follow rules of recombination.
Kat said:
I am pretty sure that a deceased brother was, 2 nephews and a niece are probably psychopaths. There is one other family member that I am wondering about. Yet I do not want to come to any conclusions until I have investigated it more.
Well, you might want to learn a bit about semi-dominant genes that are carried on the X chromosome and do some mapping. But, as you might suspect, if your mother was that good, it may be difficult to get answers about individuals who are really "good".
If you have nephews and nieces that you suspect, that means that their mother(s) is at LEAST a carrier. And, as noted above, that is true of you, as well. That is based on the idea that your mother was a full psychopath, and thus carried the taint on both X chromosomes. A lot would depend on your father in this case; if he was not a psychopath, then you and your sister(s) would get an untainted X chromosome from him. Women can be carriers and NOT be psychopathic at all because the normal copy of the gene dominates (the dog wins over the wolf). They may also get an X chromosome that is not just clean, but carries maybe something like "anti-psychopathy," say which gives them an added boost in battling the characteristics in themselves. But they are still a carrier.
So, like I said, if your father was normal, and your mother was "full blown", you and all sisters will be carriers and not "full blown," but any brother will be a psychopath. And of women who are carriers, it's about 50-50 that the psychopathy will manifest, but it may seem just like an extreme form of narcissism.
You might want to read this for clues: http://www.cassiopaea.org/forum/index.php?topic=2886
Hope this helps.