Thanks Guys.
First off, he was born with it. When he came out his mothers womb, he had a lump on the top of his head and coming from that was a rats tail type of hair-do. At first no one thought anything of it, until a doctor saw him at 6 months. He was shocked that no one at the delivery saw it and though to check it out because as he said, hair coming out like that is sometimes a sign of cancer. So he was tested etc and it was found that from the lump he had what are like grey veins that all ended up in the area where the corpus callosum is supposed to be, but in his case doesn't exist. According to our doctor, this lump and the veins were in such a position that if they had been a millimeter one way or the the other he would be suffering terribly...he reckons we are extremely lucky.
Anyway, it did become apparent when he got to around 2-3 years of age that his learning abilities were not 'normal' as it were
We have 6 children, 4 of which my wife has given birth to. My wife's oldest son has what is similar although he doesn't have AgCC he also does not have the same learning capabilities of 'normal' children.
As for this Anti-D shot, yes she was given it while pregnant. Our 5th child had a different blood group and apparently this has something to do with it. I will have to check back with my wife, but I think she told me she was given two of these Anti-D shots while pregnant.
On the one hand, we do not have him on any sort of diet. I am only at the start of trying to eliminate gluten and dairy. Can you imagine a household with 6 children, and a vegetarian mother, and then a father trying to get his kids off gluten/dairy and sugar, and his wife off Soy???? I have to show the evidence to them when they are ready, and they are not ready yet, but in due time.
On the other hand, our son, David, has brought us joy we had never experienced before with any of the other children. This is not to say we love any of the other children less as we do not, but David has done something to us all. It is very hard to explain. It's as if his being has made us all the more appreciative of all the other children. I find it difficult to put in words to some people without coming across as if I think parents don't appreciate their kids enough, it is definitely not that and is just a personal thing for us but David has had a profound effect on us.
He has had a lot of help by the 'system' and you can imagine someone like me keeping my eye sternly on these people, but to their credit, they have been good. I have had on more than one occasion one of these therapy workers tell me that David was the highlight of their year. One therapist was crying on her last visit with him.
He has benefited immensely from the fact that he has 5 siblings. Here is where he learns the most. He can work a DS and computer like anyone, his memory is amazing, but I think his best lessons in life will come from travel. It is our goal to travel around in a motor home or something similar. We want to do with this with the two younger kids.
This may come as a surprise, but we do not see his condition as a disability, in fact it feels like a blessing. My major concern is of course, the lack of knolwedge about it, and I get extremely worried when I see politicians trying to pass laws such as they were trying to do here in South Australia not long ago where they wanted to make swine flu and other flu vaccines mandatory, and if you didn;t take them you'll be quarantined for 3 months. I just shudder and get very angry at how easily a body could pass such a stupid law in the first place, but even more so, no one really knows the effects vaccinations have on normal people let alone someone with AgCC, and this is where my fears lie. When a state, such as these here in Australia can make your child ward of state at the click of two fingers, I get very worried, it has happened here when parents don't want their kids to go through kemo for cancer etc.