A thought came to me a bit ago, that maybe to STO beings and those seeking STO, the honest asking of a question has a beacon-like effect.
I was surfing videos on youtube about a topic that interests me, when I noticed a couple of comments on a video showing a theoretical mathematical trick involving turning a sphere inside out. Some people were saying it was stupid/useless/Was false/didn't make sense, some were some were expressing their amazement at it (some of whom understood and some didn't), and a few were asking what appeared to be genuine questions about the video. I then moved on to a second video, which was actually the full, long version of the first video. I noticed that in the full video there seemed to be fewer pathological-type comments, possibly because the video was longer, and it contained the full explanation that the other video lacked. In any case, There was one comment asking a question that really stood out to me; they expressed their appreciation of the video, as well as their confusion at it, and asked in a clearly-phrased manner why the subject matter of the video mattered. So, I attempted to answer the question.
But what struck me was the way this person's comment stood out compared to the others, as if in sharp relief. I reason that this is in combination because of my desire to be of service, to try to give when asked, and my desire to conserve my energy for where it will be useful. Both of these intentions lead me to work and try to pay attention to the real nature of communications I encounter, and this seemingly results in the gradual development of a sort of "radar" for "askings". The needs and desires of others become visible, and the different "flavors" of asking are like different colored "beams" that can be detected by those who build their sensitivity? So, it would follow that the further one progresses toward STO, the stronger this ability becomes?
So, to explore this analogy, as a person's "esoteric sight" improves, the "beacons" around them begin to become clearer and brighter. At first, because a person's 'vision' is quite dim and distorted, so they will probably only see the closest, brightest (ie. most obvious) "beacons", and only those of the "colors" that that person has learned to recognize. Getting really abstract, and relating the "color" analogy to frequency, maybe a person's ability to see the different "colors" rises along with the "color" of one's own "sight frequency" (related to FRV?)
For a bit of personal context, I used to have a very strong "white knight" bent when it came to bashing, ignorant, and insulting comments (what I now recognize to be largely caused by people's pathological factors). I've gradually realized that I simply can't be "internet fairness police", and that a lot of my impulse to make corrective, "informative" comments like that was self importance combined with an unrealistic view of the situations I was seeing, so I've cut back on a lot of commenting, and I'm still working to eliminate that program.
And as a final, humorous note, each time I read the first sentence of this post, my brain keeps reflexively reading it as "...the honest asking of a question has a bacon-like effect." Hmm, I wonder if this is also true?
Work on HowToBe continues...
I was surfing videos on youtube about a topic that interests me, when I noticed a couple of comments on a video showing a theoretical mathematical trick involving turning a sphere inside out. Some people were saying it was stupid/useless/Was false/didn't make sense, some were some were expressing their amazement at it (some of whom understood and some didn't), and a few were asking what appeared to be genuine questions about the video. I then moved on to a second video, which was actually the full, long version of the first video. I noticed that in the full video there seemed to be fewer pathological-type comments, possibly because the video was longer, and it contained the full explanation that the other video lacked. In any case, There was one comment asking a question that really stood out to me; they expressed their appreciation of the video, as well as their confusion at it, and asked in a clearly-phrased manner why the subject matter of the video mattered. So, I attempted to answer the question.
But what struck me was the way this person's comment stood out compared to the others, as if in sharp relief. I reason that this is in combination because of my desire to be of service, to try to give when asked, and my desire to conserve my energy for where it will be useful. Both of these intentions lead me to work and try to pay attention to the real nature of communications I encounter, and this seemingly results in the gradual development of a sort of "radar" for "askings". The needs and desires of others become visible, and the different "flavors" of asking are like different colored "beams" that can be detected by those who build their sensitivity? So, it would follow that the further one progresses toward STO, the stronger this ability becomes?
So, to explore this analogy, as a person's "esoteric sight" improves, the "beacons" around them begin to become clearer and brighter. At first, because a person's 'vision' is quite dim and distorted, so they will probably only see the closest, brightest (ie. most obvious) "beacons", and only those of the "colors" that that person has learned to recognize. Getting really abstract, and relating the "color" analogy to frequency, maybe a person's ability to see the different "colors" rises along with the "color" of one's own "sight frequency" (related to FRV?)
For a bit of personal context, I used to have a very strong "white knight" bent when it came to bashing, ignorant, and insulting comments (what I now recognize to be largely caused by people's pathological factors). I've gradually realized that I simply can't be "internet fairness police", and that a lot of my impulse to make corrective, "informative" comments like that was self importance combined with an unrealistic view of the situations I was seeing, so I've cut back on a lot of commenting, and I'm still working to eliminate that program.
And as a final, humorous note, each time I read the first sentence of this post, my brain keeps reflexively reading it as "...the honest asking of a question has a bacon-like effect." Hmm, I wonder if this is also true?
Work on HowToBe continues...
... even more interesting...
;)
