Yupo said:On a more serious note, he has this very good video about being in a relationship with a narcissist.
Very interesting. It seems like when he speaks about "patheticness", at least in some cases he speaks about "covert narcissism" that differs from "overt narcissism" in being "poor me"/"I am insignificant" approach. Here are two articles that talk about it.
https://www.sott.net/article/313145-Test-Are-you-a-narcissist-and-if-so-what-kind
https://www.sott.net/article/310174-The-7-signs-that-you-may-be-dealing-with-a-covert-narcissist