shellycheval
The Living Force
Ouch my head and heart--for the moment I am in this system and making the best of it until I can do something different. I am currently refinancing to lower my monthly house payment and get some immediate financial relief as my wages have been frozen since 08 and will likely stay that way for the foreseeable future while, as everyone has noticed, the costs of food, utilities etc. have gone way up. The paper work and appraisal are complete and I will likely be going to closing within the next 2-3 weeks. Whenever I deal with banks about loans, debts, contracts, etc., I get a sick feeling in my gut that I am being "used" or "trapped;" now I have a better idea why!
So far I have never missed a mortgage payment or defaulted on any debt and am working to keep it that way, but in the last two years I have used all my savings to make repairs to my home and small farm, fix my car, pay vet and other medical bills, and help my family, and I still ran up thirteen thousand dollars in home equity line of credit debt. Refinancing will give me a buffer between monthly income and outflow and will hopefully allow me to avoid going into more debt--so I am going through with it even though I do not like it. I am dealing with a smaller regional bank that does not sell their mortgages for whatever that is worth--it feels like a better way to do business.
I am very grateful that I have a job still and a large chunk of equity in my home, as well as own the farmland outright, but who knows what anything will be "worth" in the future. Thanks for the insight into the mortgage system even if I cannot do much else to change my situation at this time--knowledge is always welcome.
shellycheval
So far I have never missed a mortgage payment or defaulted on any debt and am working to keep it that way, but in the last two years I have used all my savings to make repairs to my home and small farm, fix my car, pay vet and other medical bills, and help my family, and I still ran up thirteen thousand dollars in home equity line of credit debt. Refinancing will give me a buffer between monthly income and outflow and will hopefully allow me to avoid going into more debt--so I am going through with it even though I do not like it. I am dealing with a smaller regional bank that does not sell their mortgages for whatever that is worth--it feels like a better way to do business.
I am very grateful that I have a job still and a large chunk of equity in my home, as well as own the farmland outright, but who knows what anything will be "worth" in the future. Thanks for the insight into the mortgage system even if I cannot do much else to change my situation at this time--knowledge is always welcome.
shellycheval