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Alma.Innovadora

Dagobah Resident
Hello there,

As some may know, my stepfather died in April this year. My mother carries a big feeling of guilt. Although she doesn’t say it, I'm sure is part of her emotional problem. Now it seems there is something else ... spirits, beings attached, etc. I need your help regarding these issues, thanks.

There have been circumstances where people who deal with spirits, read auras, use magic balls, etc. have commented that she has a spirit attached. My mother tries to ignore these things, but there have been several times when they repeat it to her, something begins to take effect. She has heard noises in the house - my stepfather used to put the keys on the table at home from work - she and an aunt have heard the sound. I have not experienced anything until now. Just some dreams that are connected to nostalgic moments, nothing more.

My mother asked me if it is true that deceased people can adhere to their relatives or friends. I told her that emotional weakness along her anticipation and assumptions due to their beliefs about what happens to a deceased loved one, adding people who do not help, saying that my stepfather is suffering between and another plane - "your husband is suffering, he has not find the light, you must help him " - creates a strong emotional level pressure and it causes the physical and mental exhaustion, headaches, etc..

Among comments, she realized that the early days of the death of my stepfather, she felt nothing. Why now if she feels these things? also she told me that she sometimes feels a cold that invades her, now I need to sleep in the same bed with her to make her feel secure. She tells me she has been little by little overcoming the fear of walking to home at night.

A friend of hers, went to cleanse her aura, while cleaning the lady in charge tells her that her aura is opaque, and she said she was saddened by the death of the husband of a friend (my mother) but without giving many details. I doubt that she really did not say anything else or at least that she was aware of everything she said, because they told her "you have no spirit attached, but a friend of yours have a loved one attached to her, and at night makes the love with her while she sleeps," I say this because my mother has had some dreams of my stepfather, but in the dream she was not present. She asks me if this is possible due the friendship with that woman. I don’t know.

Possibly due to her weakness, some "parasites" are being added to her or maybe her mental predisposition, due her feeling of guilt for something that was not her fault? She seems to be "sensitive" to certain places, once attended the old house of a hero from Venezuela and had a severe headache. On one occasion she saw a ghost of a child as clearly as if he was alive. In the house we live on, was inhabited by a woman who had an altar. Don’t know what she did specifically. Even I have had a “weird” experience as a child here. Still investigating.
 
As some may know, my stepfather died in April this year. My mother carries a big feeling of guilt. Although she doesn’t say it, I'm sure is part of her emotional problem. Now it seems there is something else ... spirits, beings attached, etc. I need your help regarding these issues, thanks.

My condolences Alma. did you talked with your mother about what can be her emotional problem? If she fell guilty, why? as a way to do therapy with her?

There have been circumstances where people who deal with spirits, read auras, use magic balls, etc. have commented that she has a spirit attached. My mother tries to ignore these things, but there have been several times when they repeat it to her, something begins to take effect. She has heard noises in the house - my stepfather used to put the keys on the table at home from work - she and an aunt have heard the sound. I have not experienced anything until now. Just some dreams that are connected to nostalgic moments, nothing more.

It is not wise to trust in what that kind of people tell to your mother or you. Are they suggesting her to do a "trabajo"?

My mother asked me if it is true that deceased people can adhere to their relatives or friends. I told her that emotional weakness along her anticipation and assumptions due to their beliefs about what happens to a deceased loved one, adding people who do not help, saying that my stepfather is suffering between and another plane - "your husband is suffering, he has not find the light, you must help him " - creates a strong emotional level pressure and it causes the physical and mental exhaustion, headaches, etc..

They don't help your mother telling that things, they only get her anguish, anxious.

Among comments, she realized that the early days of the death of my stepfather, she felt nothing. Why now if she feels these things? also she told me that she sometimes feels a cold that invades her, now I need to sleep in the same bed with her to make her feel secure. She tells me she has been little by little overcoming the fear of walking to home at night.

A friend of hers, went to cleanse her aura, while cleaning the lady in charge tells her that her aura is opaque, and she said she was saddened by the death of the husband of a friend (my mother) but without giving many details. I doubt that she really did not say anything else or at least that she was aware of everything she said, because they told her "you have no spirit attached, but a friend of yours have a loved one attached to her, and at night makes the love with her while she sleeps," I say this because my mother has had some dreams of my stepfather, but in the dream she was not present. She asks me if this is possible due the friendship with that woman. I don’t know.

Possibly due to her weakness, some "parasites" are being added to her or maybe her mental predisposition, due her feeling of guilt for something that was not her fault? She seems to be "sensitive" to certain places, once attended the old house of a hero from Venezuela and had a severe headache. On one occasion she saw a ghost of a child as clearly as if he was alive. In the house we live on, was inhabited by a woman who had an altar. Don’t know what she did specifically. Even I have had a “weird” experience as a child here. Still investigating.

Why not teaching EE to your mother? It could help her with the anxiety and her symptoms and if the attachment is real surely the program can help. Avoid any ritual (I now how people is open to it in this country) and try to explain to her mother.
 
Galaxia2002 said:
My condolences Alma. did you talked with your mother about what can be her emotional problem? If she fell guilty, why? as a way to do therapy with her?

Thanks, I'm struggling with the "resentment" program. The impatience and nuisance towards her is very strong.


It is not wise to trust in what that kind of people tell to your mother or you. Are they suggesting her to do a "trabajo"?

I do not trust them, I've never done rituals and I have already informed my mother about them. But the emotional shortcuts manipulative people, is where I gain more knowledge about these issues. A lady wants to do a photo of the aura to my mother. thought I'd do it and publish the photo here, but I have to go with it and not have the time. She always asks me, when characters like the insite to perform rituals.


They don't help your mother telling that things, they only get her anguish, anxious.

yep and make money from the emotions...


Why not teaching EE to your mother? It could help her with the anxiety and her symptoms and if the attachment is real surely the program can help. Avoid any ritual (I now how people is open to it in this country) and try to explain to her mother.

I was thinking about that, I'm also researching some things that she can assimilate information, information that makes her think for herself, about how emotions affect the mind in connection with situations like this. There are severe trauma and stress, the E.E will be very useful


This situation reminds me of the experiences and studies of Tom Lethbridge and Y. Rochard, a recording has been here, and something makes the sound of the keys are activated. I think it is she who somehow, active these experiences.

Now I remember, my mother and I had the particularity of being able to know who came home by the sound of the keys, the keys of each of us had a different sound, how to hold them, beat them to open doors to put on the table, and so on. therefore somewhat connected to the subconscious, a mental fixation and some more.... humans are mostly water... she never comes off the cell phone, we are surrounded by wifi everywhere... some kind of emotion, for example, the early days of his death, I wanted to hear him come home again, just wait to hear the keys. My mother thinks the same, but more often... maybe on higher frequency?
 
Hi Alma,
You may find some general info about death and dying in this thread which could be helpful.

People do need to go through a natural period of mourning and grieving after the death of someone close - but in today's society, there is a big rush to get through it and pressure to get over with it as quickly as possible. This dynamic often leads to emotional problems and guilt. A part of the subconscious may not have come to terms properly with the event of death and maybe hanging on to the expectation of a return - which could cause anomalies like you describe. There could be other possibilities too but this could be one of the things worth looking at before considering spirit release type actions.

fwiw
 
Thanks obyvatel, I seek help for the translation and not misinterpret the article. I must do EE and the detox diet with my mother. A few minutes ago I formulated the idea of ​​what I had to tell her, what you told me was the piece that I needed to connect with other ideas. Snap!.

But one thing I'm starting to notice my mother tells me it's hereditary. The loss of memory. I want to understand the internal connection object through the emotions and organic, before falling into the possible interference of an entity, because... 3 days ago she told me she heard the sound of the keys, and very easily a few minutes ago she said she had not said that, and did not remember anything, have said something, that she had never heard such things. Honestly, my hair stood on end. Stress, food and other things have caused the effects. Well, I will take the initiative to teach EE, and do the diet with her, the rest depends only on her.
 
Alma.Innovadora said:
Well, I will take the initiative to teach EE, and do the diet with her, the rest depends only on her.

Alma.Innovadora, it is very important to remember that this is your mother's life, not your own. You can't push things like diet or EE onto people, no matter how much you think they need it. This is really not serving anyone well - in fact, it often makes things worse. It all depends on her, so it might be worth thinking about that.
 
anart said:
Alma.Innovadora said:
Well, I will take the initiative to teach EE, and do the diet with her, the rest depends only on her.

Alma.Innovadora, it is very important to remember that this is your mother's life, not your own. You can't push things like diet or EE onto people, no matter how much you think they need it. This is really not serving anyone well - in fact, it often makes things worse. It all depends on her, so it might be worth thinking about that.

oh! is true! Suddenly made ​​me feel depressed that you tell me anart but yeah it's his life, curiously I forgot at this right moment. I have a lot to think and reread some things, thank you very much.
 
Do not be depressed. Everyone has his or hers own path on this 3D world, and everyone chooses which way to go. So if it is her choice, why be sad? She want's it, and if you do not wish to violate her free will, you should let her go on her way. Just do not let her pull you in. I have a similar problem, but I know I cannot do anything but watch. I can counsel, but if my mother doesn't listen to me - as she does not, I can't do nothing. So be it.
 
:) I did not feel depressed / suffering, was more like a "oh! sad but true", the feeling was more as compassion on seeing a person go through their own lessons. See how everything is connected, from what you eat to what you see, hear and so on. Excuse the confusion.
 
Yes, everything is connected. That's life. But a lot of people do not understand it - they are blind, deaf, and mostly mute. But their paths must be like that, it seems. And there is no need to apologize, you didn't say anything wrong. You have emotions like a normal human being does. They sometimes overwhelm us, and that is okay. No need to apologize for that.
 
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