Thank you all once again for a great discussion! We covered the Preface and Chapters 1 and 2
Short summary:
In the Preface and Chapters 1 and 2, Chang revives a millennia-old Taoist system where sex integrates sensuality, health, spirituality, and cosmic balance—prioritizing female pleasure, male ejaculation control, mutual essence nourishment, guilt-free naturalness, and ecstatic freedom. Aligned with modern science, it counters repression and frustration, promising longevity, peace, joy, and healing on an individual and societal level.
If we look at the depravity in f.i. The Epstein files that our world’s elites engage in, but throughout history really, meaning that we are ruled by psychopaths who cannot understand these concepts let alone practice them, and given that we are STS beings in an STS world, this offers one path, in combination with The Work, to get out so to say. Also, what the C’s said in the session of 6th december 2025, that love gives all, love is the driver, sex without love and a deep psychic connection drains energy to 4D STS. We explored the concepts of love and deep psychic connection, using casswiki on love. We also discussed the importance of communication between love partners, explored the forum thread on polar beings, including what Mouravieff had to say about it, and concluded that in relationships where one partner is not involved in The Work, open and honest communication, mutual respect and giving the other support to achieving whatever his/her highest potential or innate direction may be, may be one way of still doing The Work in a constructive way, learning different things about self and the beloved. We regularly were reminded of related themes in the romance novels.
Further, we discussed that men, but also women, have been brainwashed by equating ejaculation with orgasm, manhood and healthy sex. If one doesn’t ejaculate, one is failing somehow, and should be ashamed, especially vis a vis a partner. That love is more than just ejaculating into a vagina is something that is not taught in our Western culture.
We discussed that the knowledge of the importance of touch and loving, also for adults, has only in the last three decades been more fully researched in the West. All humans, so also the male, need touch and love, Chang says that the problem is that the overwhelming majority of men never had the opportunity to learn adequately how to cope with the situation.
Chang says that in the past, Western manners and Western preconceptions have hindered a proper understanding of the Tao of Loving, the concepts seemed too strange to be comprehended. We think religion, catholicism/protestantism may have played a big role here. Lastly we discussed, as per John Carter's article, that modern heterosexual relationships are diagnosed as crippled by a new psychological pathology: the simp-rapist complex. This is a contradictory double-bind imposed on men by post-sexual revolution norms, where women demand both protective, providing "nice guys" (simps) and dominant, aggressive alphas—but society ruthlessly punishes any display of the latter traits as "rape culture." So all in all, discovering the knowledge of the Tao of Love and Sex would for many come in very timely indeed.
For next week's workshop, we will cover Chapters 3 and 4. Have a good week
Short summary:
In the Preface and Chapters 1 and 2, Chang revives a millennia-old Taoist system where sex integrates sensuality, health, spirituality, and cosmic balance—prioritizing female pleasure, male ejaculation control, mutual essence nourishment, guilt-free naturalness, and ecstatic freedom. Aligned with modern science, it counters repression and frustration, promising longevity, peace, joy, and healing on an individual and societal level.
If we look at the depravity in f.i. The Epstein files that our world’s elites engage in, but throughout history really, meaning that we are ruled by psychopaths who cannot understand these concepts let alone practice them, and given that we are STS beings in an STS world, this offers one path, in combination with The Work, to get out so to say. Also, what the C’s said in the session of 6th december 2025, that love gives all, love is the driver, sex without love and a deep psychic connection drains energy to 4D STS. We explored the concepts of love and deep psychic connection, using casswiki on love. We also discussed the importance of communication between love partners, explored the forum thread on polar beings, including what Mouravieff had to say about it, and concluded that in relationships where one partner is not involved in The Work, open and honest communication, mutual respect and giving the other support to achieving whatever his/her highest potential or innate direction may be, may be one way of still doing The Work in a constructive way, learning different things about self and the beloved. We regularly were reminded of related themes in the romance novels.
Further, we discussed that men, but also women, have been brainwashed by equating ejaculation with orgasm, manhood and healthy sex. If one doesn’t ejaculate, one is failing somehow, and should be ashamed, especially vis a vis a partner. That love is more than just ejaculating into a vagina is something that is not taught in our Western culture.
We discussed that the knowledge of the importance of touch and loving, also for adults, has only in the last three decades been more fully researched in the West. All humans, so also the male, need touch and love, Chang says that the problem is that the overwhelming majority of men never had the opportunity to learn adequately how to cope with the situation.
Chang says that in the past, Western manners and Western preconceptions have hindered a proper understanding of the Tao of Loving, the concepts seemed too strange to be comprehended. We think religion, catholicism/protestantism may have played a big role here. Lastly we discussed, as per John Carter's article, that modern heterosexual relationships are diagnosed as crippled by a new psychological pathology: the simp-rapist complex. This is a contradictory double-bind imposed on men by post-sexual revolution norms, where women demand both protective, providing "nice guys" (simps) and dominant, aggressive alphas—but society ruthlessly punishes any display of the latter traits as "rape culture." So all in all, discovering the knowledge of the Tao of Love and Sex would for many come in very timely indeed.
For next week's workshop, we will cover Chapters 3 and 4. Have a good week
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