Chetofloj
Jedi
About two cents comment.Why does it have to be in our nature? Why not serve others because it is the right thing to do opposed to other options? Can we serve others and not really want to but do it for them because of necessity?
My example, I’m serving a baby right now, I don’t get paid, I don’t get time out, I don’t get to sleep or relax when I need to, I’m exhausted most days and to be honest my life just kinda sux…. I didn’t plan this baby… and the last thing I would have wanted for myself at 43 was another child, I was pretty clear about it too… the universe had other ideas- full well knowing I would step up to serve against my desires.
And I have, but not because I wanted to but because who else is going to ?? I had no choice other than to be of service because there were no other viable options.
None that I could live with myself about anyhow.. it’s not in my nature to be a parent to small children, I find it difficult and extremely taxing, but I’m given this hard task multiple times over and each time I toe the line and try to do better- just not for me, I’d rather not do it at all.
According to the situations that arise in our daily lives, there are also choices and by attending to the needs of others we would not be SAD.
For each situation we also evaluate.
If someone asks us for money for food, is it the same if they ask us for money for drugs? Well, processed food is good for us, so to speak, and neither are drugs... So whatever the need of another person is and our behavior (there is an evaluation). However, in a 4D realm, a better-informed evaluation of the helping intervention is carried out. .