Disturbing Phone Call

Drea, I am not sure after reading Meager1's post, that I would take the advice of "some people who knew the person", regarding this guy's mental state. There's a world of scariness in the description "a bit 'off' " He may be stable now, but what will happen then next time he goes on another drunk? Believe me, Meager1 speaks from hard experience.

Please don't brush off this first incident. Gather the information suggested by Meager1, and tell his superior. If you're worried about his reaction to you doing this, compare that to the harm he could do the child, your bf, and you, if you hadn't.

with concern,

Herondancer
 
Ok, chances are that your right and everything will be ok.

But do keep "the mask of sanity" in mind and that sometimes a persons friends really don`t know them at all.

The only other thing, is that it might not hurt for the bf to speak with the child`s mother and get her perspective on the situation, just to ensure that the child is really safe there.
 
herondancer said:
Drea, I am not sure after reading Meager1's post, that I would take the advice of "some people who knew the person", regarding this guy's mental state. There's a world of scariness in the description "a bit 'off' " He may be stable now, but what will happen then next time he goes on another drunk? Believe me, Meager1 speaks from hard experience.

Please don't brush off this first incident. Gather the information suggested by Meager1, and tell his superior. If you're worried about his reaction to you doing this, compare that to the harm he could do the child, your bf, and you, if you hadn't.

with concern,

Herondancer
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I agree with herondancer. There are many instances where people consistently brushed off someone's erratic behavior only to find themselves sorry for it later. There is no way you can truly know what this person's mental state is like. If he has ever killed someone (in war), he will be messed up in some way. If he's "normal", he is scarred by it. If he's psychopathic, he probably enjoyed it to some extent. Either way, you're dealing with someone who's "not right".

Take the precautions you need in order to protect yourself and your loved ones. The first clue you and your boyfriend were given were your initial responses to the situation. The next was the information your boyfriend had about this person. Don't allow the be nice program to talk you into shoving this under the rug. I see no problem with contacting the military as was suggested. You can ask if you can report it anonymously. What I'm saying is not intended to scare you but rather empower you so that you have added protection. If you do nothing in this situation, you're really leaving it up to general law via attack in an attempt to control your decisions. In short, you're giving your power away to this person by allowing them to rome free and act in mechanical ways.

This is where the true value of networking and knowledge comes in coupled with awareness and discernment. To prevent other forces (whether 4D or 3D) from being able to work through yourself and others via mechanical programs. Hope that made sense. :)
 
It would be good if you realistically assessed the chance or need for further contact between your bf and the ex, the ex and this guy, the child etc...

If this interaction is unavoidable in the future, then I would not expect this incident to just die, rather it is likely to surface again given the proper conditions (drunkness, depression, lows...) or to slowly build up. It seems this guys resentment has found or chosen a target.

Hope you be well and this will pass.

R
 
Hi Drea,

You haven't posted on this thread for a while. How are things going with this situation, if you want/are able to give an update?
 
Hi, the situation hasn't changed at all. We received the one call and that was it. Thank you all for showing concern. If we hear from him again we won't hesitate to take action.
 
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