Just had another thought on this.
Because no one is an island and our own reality is not the only reality in process, the reason STO thinking when we contribute ideas to our desired reality works, is because DCM has to accomodate a collective reality. Everyone else desires matter also, if we want to lock a particular outcome in for ourselves that could preclude certain machinations that would enable someone else’s desired outcome. It simply doesn’t work on a grand scale with billions of participants. We all have to participate and give to life rather than take from it. Then the universes can work much more efficiently to sustain a collection of consciousness.Everything is just ‘in a state’ and anticipation anchors something down which kills the process, i.e it is no longer in a state of process thus ceases to exist.
I’m not quite sure I’m explaining this or if I fully comprehend what I’m saying. It’s similar to @Chu’s description of a tree of life. But it seems to me we have to contribute our ideas to our desired reality, if we expect something to happen it’s like we grasp for it and end up choking it to death.