Flow
Padawan Learner
gottathink said:Awesomely put Voyeur. Self doing... It applys to all of the work. Now to answer your enquiry FlowYes that is it, sometimes people need some help, they can't find their way by themselves to pain free movement, but essentially we must do it ourselves. There should be no need to be fixed by others. Just like all the work if your clear something undesirable it must be replaced with the desirable. EG if we release the tension and trauma from the body we must then learn the new way of being that is strong and balanced so that we don't just collapse back into the previous state. Also the simple act of learning a new way to move will clear out the undesirable patterns.Hi gottathink, that's interesting. If I understand you correctly, you are saying that body therapies are the way for trauma releasing and by learning to do strength bodywork right, we won't have to go to therapies?
Can you tell me something more about it or maybe give us some researches, or explain more experiences you had in your practice? I'm really interested in that.
Does that make sense? In bodywork naturopathic healthcare and allopathic medical care there is often a culture of reliance promoted. Chiropractic is a good example. I have seen so many clients attend and then the frequency increases until the point they cannot manage 2 pain free days before having to return. This is actual real clients experiences and common. To me that is just wrong, a person should be able to get some help and then need less and less of it as they learn how to care for themselves.
Yes, it makes sense to me. I was thinking today about all this while I was doing some housework today. Those patterns are so automatic and it's so hard to change them. It's not just that you have to be aware, also I notice the problem is that some of them seems so comfortable, even though not very functional and healthy for the body. I'm glad you started this topic, I've noticed I pay much more attention in everyday activities lately. So, thank you.
This is going to be little offtopic, I'm going through some hard times. What you say about experiences in your professional life, reminds me on situation I'm going through these days. I've been on antidepressants three years and stopped using them few days ago. I could stop using them even earlier, but there was exactly what you're talking about- it's like I'm used to it, I feel much better with them, there is reliance. Also, there is that huge fear of being overwhelmed with unpleasant emotions and states again and so on. So, I can understand this, this is just so big step. It's like, we're able to find help, but when the time comes when you have to stand on your feet, it's like we block and we can't do that.
What helped me in my struggle with this was that, from the beginning of taking ADs, I've had that sense that it is temporary, it is just buying time, it can't solve problems for me. And the most of all, that feeling that it's not real. No matter how good I feel, it looks like it's ok, but it's not.
To me that is just wrong, a person should be able to get some help and then need less and less of it as they learn how to care for themselves.
So, how do you deal with that in your work? Does it frustrate you, do you have some strategies to manage that kind of situations?