I was shopping in the local town once, and a complete stranger came up and said “hello” to me as though he knew me. “Hey up, how are yer going on?”
After noticing the confused look on my face as I struggled to recognise who he was, he realised his mistake and said he could have sworn I was a bloke who does dee-jaying a couple of times a week in a pub in a local village, “you look just like him, I can’t believe it!” etc.
Well, I went on my way feeling happy, but confused at the same time. Happy in the thought that at least there was someone else knocking about out there who looked as ugly as me, but confused because how the heck could someone who looked like me be so outgoing and talkative as to be a DJ in a pub?
It was a bit of a shock. If this bloke looked so like me how come he wasn’t as introverted and shy as I was? Wasn’t he bullied like I was at school because of his looks? How could he be so confident, when I always kept myself to myself, kept a low profile, tried to be invisible, hardly ever spoke. If he looked so like me why didn’t he act like me?
Well this was before I found the work. Internal considering, ego etc, and especially the childhood early imprinting experiences and distorted thinking which can affect the personality.
Imprinting such as trying to become invisible to avoid attention from school bullies, (which never seemed to work.) Then when you mechanically try to avoid attention when an adult, due to that childhood imprinting, you’re liable to attract more attention to yourself.
If there’s someone out there who looks like me and only lives a few miles away, could there be hundreds more all over the world, and hundreds of people who look like you as well?
Having said that, just look at all those celebrity lookalike websites out there like the one below. OK, they try to dress like their respective celebrities, but the facial similarities are there in a lot of them.
http://www.splitting-images.com/celebrity_list.html