Hmm...
I don't know what is worse. Once I had a chat with a religious man. He said a lot, I listen him. And he said that we all had to repent and to believe in Jesus(to accept him), because he shed his blood for our sins and the only way one can be saved is to believe in Jesus Christ, repent and follow what New Testament said. I asked him so what about the other people who believe in some other religion (Islam, Buddhism, ect) He replied that if they want to be saved they also had to do the same. Then I asked so what about different tribes, aborigines who had never seen the Bible, he said so that they couldn't be saved. It was unbelievable
. However, he seems to be a good man.
On the other hand one of my relatives when he was in army, everybody were drug addicted and they forced other to do the same. He couldn't even write a letter home. But that somehow he did it and his mother moved him to another unit. And such stories there are a lot...
But I don't want to have brainwashing and have a lecture all the time I smoke, neither want to go to army. But there some other choices, for example continue studying.