guides and visions

[arohanui]

during a vision recently i met a "friend " who told me i was very close to learning a major lesson for this life time.. i asked her if she were a spirit guide and she smiled and said.. ok..
i took this to mean she could be if that fit into my realm of understanding she did say she was friend so i allowed that to be enough.
she told me i was very close to understanding that i was "beautiful" and that this was a huge lesson for my life.
she herself was stunning in physical beauty and she also said she was a mirror of me!! this was so hard to grasp.. her beauty also shone from her being, she wore only a simple robe but had green and yellow paint over her face in stripes.she said this was meant to show me that the beauty i needed to connect with and realise was from my 3rd and 4th chakra.. since that moment.. just being shown that has quickened my lesson.
i have been able to totally embrace it.. she did guide me. as i may have taken goodness knows how much longer to figure this one out.. bless and thanks to the beautiful one... te he he he...one... me... xxx
a guide for sure and now a best friend..

 

[thevenusian]

Hi arohanui,

Your post was moved onto this board since it doesn't have anything to do with the board it was originally posted in (Psychopaths at Home, at work, and in the Garden).

Also, have you read the The Wave? It really isn't a good idea to accept an experience like this without question.

 

[arohanui]

thank you venusian, i am having a bit of trouble navigating the forum roads.. and i have just started the wave .. my intuition has been my only indicater thus far. so i do try to accept with discression. i know i make mistakes. i will not accept without question from now on. although i am not sure how not to... i do put protection around self at all times of opening to spirit and dimentional experience, do you think this is not enough to filter negitivity...?

 

[obyvatel]

i do put protection around self at all times of opening to spirit and dimentional experience, do you think this is not enough to filter negitivity...?

Unfortunately, a lot of commonly accepted protective rituals are powerless against hyperdimensional negativity. What type of protection are you referring to here?

Here in the forum, knowledge is said to provide the maximum protection - and such knowledge refers both to the external negative forces and the internal hooks that exist within us by which we get manipulated by the external negative forces. For example, our sense of vanity and self-importance are a couple of hooks through which we can be easily manipulated by other humans or by hyperdimensional forces.

Reading the Wave will clarify this a lot better. After the Wave, do take a look at the New Age COINTELPRO board here for many varied case studies which will help to cement the understanding of the material in the Wave.

 

[arohanui]

ok so i think i understand..and thank you for the heads up!!!! so by appeasing to my need to become a better person and no longer see myself as lesser than ..( i have been working on being worthy and not feeling ugly and insignificant here on this planet) to consider myself as beautiful as any other human physical or soulful .. the "guide" may have been using my need to be accepted as a way of manipulating me..correct??
so my protection is always through intent.. "prayer" ..."affirmation" to use a word..intention.. to proclaim that only the highest form of loving light will be accepted by me ...i do not go looking for interaction but.... i have always had.. visitors.. never felt endanger though... and have always had those knowings and precognitions of events in day and night dreams.. visions.. i am reading the wave..and the secret history of the world.. but is there a passage i need to understand immediately to be safer?? can one carry a shield into dimentional incounters or what??

 

[Alada]

so by appeasing to my need to become a better person and no longer see myself as lesser than ..( i have been working on being worthy and not feeling ugly and insignificant here on this planet) to consider myself as beautiful as any other human physical or soulful .. the "guide" may have been using my need to be accepted as a way of manipulating me..correct??

Well as has been mentioned, around here the idea 'Knowledge Protects' is used quite often. If you have knowledge of how narcissistic families operate for example, how we can be emotionally and psychologically wounded as children, there is some protection there against the very ideas that we are 'lesser than', not 'worthy', 'ugly' or 'insignificant'. We don't need spirit guides, dreams, visions, mantras, rituals and the like for this protection, we need only see clearly what IS, and then learn to recognise it in ourselves thus neutralising it.

We believe the lies that have been inculcated into us by our parents and peers, people who may have had those same lies and wounds inflicted upon them as children, and so it goes. If we can expose the lies, we can begin to heal and finally see the beauty, and perfection (for all our 'imperfections) that is in each one of us.

It is interesting that in your vision, you seem very taken by the thought that this guide was very beautiful/perfect. Perhaps consider what would be your reaction had this same advice been given by someone that you consider 'ugly'. Would the advice then to recognise your own beauty have had the same value to you?

I'd recommend dispensing with the notion of guides of forces outside yourself that are going to fix or protect you and instead recommend reading the books related to narcissism on the reading list (Narcissism "Big Five"), particularly The Narcissistic Family. - Knowledge Protects.

 

[Nienna]

Arohanui, reading the Nacissism Big 5 books will definitely help you with understanding how you have been programmed to think of yourself as unworthy, etc. Also, finding the Diet and Health board and look at what our diet does to us. Grains, dairy, coffe, sugar, etc. are very harmful to us in mind, body and emotions.

Also, continue reading the Wave series. It will really help with understanding just why believing in spirit guides and such could be very detrimental to your health.

For instance, there is a story of a woman being interviewed by a TV station, I think, who was telling them how she is visited by a hyperdimensional entity that is sort of ugly, who can time travel (and takes this lady with her) and can appear to others as anything it chooses. Such as the Mother Mary (or a beautiful spirit guide if needed) to a group of worshiping believers. They will do anything to "hook" people so that they can feed on their energy. By accepting what they tell you as true, you are giving your life force, or energy, to them. And this is not a good thing for you, but they are quite happy with the arrangement. You are also giving them permission to use you in any way they see fit.

Instead of looking for "help" from outside of yourself by those who you would see as "saviors", it is better to actually do the Work yourself, on yourself. Once you start reading the Narcissism books - and applying them to yourself - I think you will see quite a few pieces of the puzzle coming together. And it is always very rewarding when you find these things out yourself.

It's a tricky business "out there" so, yes, knowledge really does protect.

 

[arohanui]

yes that make so much sence.. books on the way to me soon as i can afford get them..in the mean time i will be more aware when i am approached..that penny just dropped big time.. that is so much my family history.. all focus of worth was put onto the look etc and appearance and acceptance from others was ..if we as children met the adults standards.. in so many ways.. weight issues physical achievements .. all sorts. not to the liking of their ways at all..things i challenged my parents on frequently, and yes that makes sense also about the "guide being beautiful" to me, dulled me to any fear of being take for a ride,, an ugly.. (to my programmed sensitivies) vision would instantly have made me uncomfortable.. and yes the self is the way forward.. thank you.. briliant!! ;D much appriciated.