Help for my second child

[osmose78]

Hello everybody

We have a little "problem" with my second son who is 4.5 years old. His behaviour is really "strange".

He is perfectly intelligent but is unable to be quiet and mind rested. He is very altruistic but the second after shows nervous reactions even violent. His teacher has reported us to have had some "sexual" gestures at school with a puppet and a girl. As we never have seen him doing this at home we can't ensure if this is a "symptom". He is not on ketogen diet but prefers meat and salt dishes to sugar. Nevertheless he eats gluten. He has never had violent or traumatic experience.

So I solicit your help to either have contacts of hypnotisers in parian region or other solution through diet or something esle. The idea of hypnotiser is to a chance to speak him quietly and give him an opportunity to express a potential mental affliction.

If you need more détails or explanations, don't hesitate to ask me. I thanks in advance for your help.

Osmose

 

[Martina]

hello! I'm not competent to give you any advice but I have a son of that age and since we changed his diet
couple months ago(no gluten and sugar) he is in the better mood and he developed mentally a lot
(learned by itself how to read and write and count...)
sorry, all I can tell you is that diet helps, maybe someone else will give you proper advice.

 

[Shared Joy]

Hi Osmose,
it might be a good idea to consult a chinese medicine practitioner in your local area...I have some experience with kids also, and what you described seems to be an excess of hot energies, usually from " liver stagnation" which flares upward and harrasses the heart, therefore the kid is agitated, talkative.
Since when is he like this?

May I suggest an easy way you can try to calm him down without doing any harm?: in the evening apply a light massage to each of his foot, at the skinn (web) between the toes, proximal to the margin of the web at the junction of the red and white skin, using a counter clockwise movement. Do it for every web between the toes. Do not press it forcefully, just lightly, and tell us what happened after a few days. He will enjoy it, I'm sure.

In the meantime, try to locate a practitioner....for small children there is only massage no acupuncture. It should be investigated before any herb or other treatment is recommended.

Hope it helps

Joy

 

[mcb]

Eliminating gluten and dairy would be a good start, although that isn't always easy. If you want to take a natural, non-damaging approach to this then you are going to need to educate yourself first. You can find a lot of information here, but the bulk of the information that I have seen is contained in books, podcasts, and conferences.

I have heard a few things about the kind of problem you describe, but I listen to so many different things that I can't trace it back to specific sources, and the sources only offer possibilities anyway -- and the possibilities can make your head spin. It can relate to poisoning by modern foods, water, dental work, household chemicals, EMF, or other forms of pollution. In this case you seem to be looking for neurotoxic effects, I would guess. It could also involve epigenetics, though I don't know how much you can do about that. There are usually ways to compensate, though, and children are more adaptable.

Also look at what he seems to be saying through his behavior. There might be a message staring you in the face.

Maybe others here have had more direct experiences with this. If you come across other information in your searching and wonder if it is legitimate or not, we may be able to help with that too.

Edit: added "dental work."

 

[anart]

hello! I'm not competent to give you any advice but I have a son of that age and since we changed his diet
couple months ago(no gluten and sugar) he is in the better mood and he developed mentally a lot
(learned by itself how to read and write and count...)
sorry, all I can tell you is that diet helps, maybe someone else will give you proper advice.

Removing gluten, sugar and dairy can only help. Food colors and additives have also been directly linked to behavioral issues with kids. In short, if his diet is very clean (no gluten, sugar, dairy or grains) then you can find out if there is some other issue involved, but my bet is that things clear up pretty quickly with a clean diet. If you can only remove gluten and anything with food colorings, that's a great start because both are very problematic. Sugar would be the next suggestion because it wreaks havoc on the body and little kids seem to be especially susceptible. Just some suggestions.

 

[Marcus-Aurelius]

Hello Osmose,
Are you following a ketogenic diet yourself? If yes, is there any reason not to put your son in the same diet? The ketogenic diet benefits are so important it will be sad not to pemit to get them too!

 

[osmose78]

Thanks to all for your answers.

At this point I have forgoten to precise that he is subject to nocturnal terrors. As a result he is awakening in the night crying and speaking in uncomprehensive way. He is on his own subject and it is very difficult to get his conscious back.

I follow a ketogenic diet myself and spread the knowledge and benefits to my family hoping to bring a change in my close family. But my wife is very hard to convince. But I thought to this option very soon in my investigation.

Joey, counter clockwise movement is for right, left or both?

Anyway, I thanks you all a lot for your advertises.

PS : I please you to sorry me for my improvable English. I hope improve him here thanks to all of you :)

 

[mcb]

...At this point I have forgoten to precise that he is subject to nocturnal terrors. As a result he is awakening in the night crying and speaking in uncomprehensive way. He is on his own subject and it is very difficult to get his conscious back.

Add sleep disturbance as another possible factor, then. There may be several factors acting together. I have seen this problem in more than one adult. In one case it appeared to be a symptom of PTSD (childhood abuse + being in a war). In another case, I never found any cause for it other than possibly from childhood trauma (it had occurred).

I follow a ketogenic diet myself and spread the knowledge and benefits to my family hoping to bring a change in my close family. But my wife is very hard to convince. But I thought to this option very soon in my investigation.

That is good, but it is your son that is eating the gluten/grains and you will not know until he stops -- for an extended period of time -- if it is a factor.

Joey, counter clockwise movement is for right, left or both?

Counter clockwise is to the left -- opposite of a clock.

 

[Olesya]

Hello everybody

We have a little "problem" with my second son who is 4.5 years old. His behaviour is really "strange".

He is perfectly intelligent but is unable to be quiet and mind rested. He is very altruistic but the second after shows nervous reactions even violent. His teacher has reported us to have had some "sexual" gestures at school with a puppet and a girl. As we never have seen him doing this at home we can't ensure if this is a "symptom". He is not on ketogen diet but prefers meat and salt dishes to sugar. Nevertheless he eats gluten. He has never had violent or traumatic experience.

So I solicit your help to either have contacts of hypnotisers in parian region or other solution through diet or something esle. The idea of hypnotiser is to a chance to speak him quietly and give him an opportunity to express a potential mental affliction.

If you need more détails or explanations, don't hesitate to ask me. I thanks in advance for your help.

Osmose

Hi osmose78 and welcome to the Forum. :) I'll share my experience with similar events. My daughter, who is 7,5 years old now, had horrible night terrors when she was about the same age as your son. She would start screaming at night and thrashing in bed. She wouldn't recognize my voice. Any attempts to wake her up and calm her down didn't work. It was awful. It went like this for a couple of weeks. At that time she was still eating casein (from goat milk products), very little sugar (mostly honey) and very little gluten. What helped I think (but I'm not sure) is that I asked her to draw what she was seening in her dreams, as a game, sort of like "I draw my dream, you draw yours." The key thing was to do it calmly, without showing your preoccupation or nervousness :) She eagerly agreed. She started drawing pictures of monsters who abduct people and stick them with needles (btw, in her drawings the needle was in the place of a penis). She was telling me stories of what had happened, how people were rounded up by these monsters and there was no place to escape. I suggested that in her dream she can built a castle where she and other people can hide.

Well, I don't really now why it started and why it had stopped as abruptly as it started, but it prompted me to read a lot of research on human abductions, Karla Turner's series of books and lectures, for example, where similar experiences were described.

Now, she eats meat, fish, vegetables, fat, a little buckwheat and bananas, nuts and berries. What I noticed that she doesn't get sick as much as before, she is much calmer, although she still doesn't like to go to sleep by herself (she wants me to be in the same room with her until she's completely asleep), but it's getting better. She still has some bad dreams from time to time, but now the monsters look like SpongeBob SquarePants :) ( it's the american cartoon character). She wakes up, and goes to sleep. Nothing like before.

Oh, I almost forgot. She now goes to Korean karate lessons (she likes it lot, it gives her a lot of confidence), and when she's really upset or nervous about something I do light massages before she goes to sleep.

I hope that this helps. :)

 

[osmose78]

To give more details on his nocturnal terrors, they started between 1,5 and 2 or 2 and 2,5 years old. He has never reminded having experienced terrors at his asleep. In summer 2011 (2,5 years old), consequently to a nocturnal terror, he claimed to have seen “green guys with a red navel”. Last summer, while we were spending relaxing holidays in Belgium, as my wife was drying him after a bathroom, he said : “You know Mum, the green guys don’t have a sex.”.

They tend to be very less frequent. The last one was around his 4th birthday in October. These are replaced by terrifying nightmares where he sees insects. But he suffers from these nightmares because he is himself upset by these ones. He fears to go sleeping and needs we clean the bedroom of any toy on the ground, otherwise subjects to nightmares. He needs a glass or bottle of water to calm down. We suspect it to be a sort of lucky-charm or ritual to distress himself.

Megan, we are sure that he never has been abused. My wife is not ready to switch my son on ketogenic diet. So I don’t want to be in confrontation with her.

But through his behavior we are almost sure he is traumatized. Too much stressed. We don’t clearly know which “weight” to give to the “green guys” in the amount of symptoms. Big imagination? Real situation encountered?

Thank you a lot for your support and help. Each answers are help.

 

[Chu]

He is perfectly intelligent but is unable to be quiet and mind rested. He is very altruistic but the second after shows nervous reactions even violent. His teacher has reported us to have had some "sexual" gestures at school with a puppet and a girl. As we never have seen him doing this at home we can't ensure if this is a "symptom". He is not on ketogen diet but prefers meat and salt dishes to sugar. Nevertheless he eats gluten. He has never had violent or traumatic experience.

Would your wife be ok with removing gluten (and dairy if he still has some) from his diet, if you have him do a genetic test and it shows positive? I think that would be a very good start.

Based on what you said in your last post, I was reminded of the case of a little boy, whose parents contacted us about 2 years ago. The situation was quite similar, with nightmares and signs of depression, and "beings". We suggested that the parents develop a plan, together with their little boy. It consisted on having a stuffed animal or a stone (they chose the stone), that they would all "charge" in the evening, and that the child would have with him all nght, under his pillow. The point was to ask for protection, no nightmares, etc. For that, we recorded the Prayer of the Soul at a faster pace, so that the little boy could follow it. And he did that with his parents every night, before falling asleep. A month later, we heard back from the family, and since that day, as far as we know the little boy has been much happier, the nightmares stopped, and he has been symtom-free. In the beginning he was so happy about the results that he would carry the stone with him to school as well.

If you think that something like this could help your son, I'd be happy to send you the recording. It's in French. And you can do that as a game, something that he can engage in, he can add images to his "prayer", or whatever you can see may help. You could also modify the prayer for whatever suits him best, with affirmations that might help, and do a recording with your and your wife's voice, maybe? Whatever works.

My 2 cents.

 

[Olesya]

My best wishes to you, osmose78, your son and your wife.

Thank you, Ailén, for the great suggestion about charging some object and asking for protection. I have already started to teach my daughter how to do round breathing. I will continue to do that and I'll try to do Prayer of the Soul with her.

 

[osmose78]

Thanks to you Ailèn and Olesya. :)

For you, what is the root cause of his behavior?

Ailèn, I would be happy to get the recording. At this point, we just want to relieve him so we are open to try any suggestion. Moreover, this solution is very respectful of the thinking mode of the child. I think my wife will appreciate this option. About gluten she is clearly far less receptive. I don’t know how to suggest the idea. I will try to propose with a test period of 2 weeks.

Olesya, best wishes to you too and for your daughter. If your case is an abduction, I figure out a bit of the difficulties you felt.

Thanks again to all.

 

[Chu]

For you, what is the root cause of his behavior?

Personally, I have no idea. There are so many possible causes that it's hard to even speculate. Past lives, some hyperdimensional phenomenon, his subconscious trying to say something, general trauma, being super sensitive,... who knows? All I can tell you is that I DO think there is a solution, if you create some sort of psychic barrier. Many of the so-called abductees stop having any experiences as they "raise their frequencies", so to say, that is, they gain knowledge, change their diets, and become more aware in general. In other words, "knowledge protects". With a child, I can only imagine that it can be devastating for the parents. But at the same time, children can learn quickly, and sometimes something as simple as this exercise I'm suggesting can protect them (if it's something external), or help them heal (from any possible trauma, subconscious/past life issue). I don't know, so just FWIW.

Ailèn, I would be happy to get the recording. At this point, we just want to relieve him so we are open to try any suggestion. Moreover, this solution is very respectful of the thinking mode of the child. I think my wife will appreciate this option.

Well, that's good! And as I said, I think the important thing is to make it fun, make your son feel safe, and help him charge his own "protective object". The prayer should help him get to sleep and feel safe too. But feel free to modify the words as needed. A little bit of belly breathing and pipe breathing can only help, IMO.

About gluten she is clearly far less receptive. I don’t know how to suggest the idea. I will try to propose with a test period of 2 weeks.

That might work. But that's why I mentioned the genetic test. Nobody can deny that there is a problem or a sensitivity after a test has been done. If he IS sensitive to gluten, maybe it would be easier to apply the necessary changes...

And I just sent you an email about the recording, by the way, and a reference to a therapist we know, who works with children and as far as I know, is very good. She was the one who put us in touch with this family, and we sort of worked together.

Thank you, Ailén, for the great suggestion about charging some object and asking for protection. I have already started to teach my daughter how to do round breathing. I will continue to do that and I'll try to do Prayer of the Soul with her.

Let us know how it goes. It was Laura's idea at the time, and it really worked like a charm. This little boy was getting to a point where he was very depressed, and as I said, within a month or so he was a happy child. :)

 

[Maat]

FWIW and it's not a direct testimonial but the child of one of my colleague had some enuresia problems since her divorce and one day she took him to an osteopath. In one seance it was over. The niece of another colleague had sleep troubles since birth and nightmares. They took her to an osteopath too (not the same one) and it was over in 2 seances.

In both cases it was quite miraculous and don't ask us what did the trick but there it was.

So maybe it could be a simple thing to try.