How My Aunt Marge Ended Up in the Deep Freeze . . .

Hildegarda said:
Laura said:
at one moment loose themselves and kill someone or kill themselves like having a illness like cancer. In both situations is a anger so strong and coming from so deep that really is scary.

I think that a very big part of it is repression of anger.

a book has been recommended on the forum, "When Body Says No", by Gabor Mate. It explores in depth the relation of repressing emotions such as anger, and physical illness.
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Thank you Hildegarda for this. I will try to read this book for various reasons: I think the subject is of extreme importance, my mother also was very repressed concerning the anger (she was always very scary of her anger, my anger and my father's but opposed to her my father and me were able to express (even badly) our anger) as my cousin and many members of my family due to education and education in a country where there was a dictatorship. I think this is important too. So what I see also is that the repression in a family is a mirror of the repression outside also. USA is also a very repressive society.
I am right away to look if I can find the book!
 
*************Spoiler Alert************ - in case you are still planning on seeing this

Just saw "Killing in a small town" - great depiction of what Levine talks of in his Unspoken Voice. Levine uses himself as an example of how circumstances proceeded such that he was able to pass through trauma (his accident) in a healthy way. Compare this to the 4-year old Candy's experience of being restrained, blood all over, having he mouth clamped shut, and being Shhhh'd in such an uncaring way as she passes through the ER. Then when Peg attacks her (as an adult) with the axe and attempts to Shhhh her expression - Boom - dissociation and the inability to really accept what she did. Good example of what Levine wrote about.

Peg's behavior leading up to the scene seemed pretty bizarre.
 
Barbara Hershey transforming furious celtic warrior ( A killing in a small town), Christina Ricci (The family Adams), Geena Davis (Thelma and Louise), Lynda Blair (The exorcist), Mia Farrow (Rosemary's baby). These actresses have in common: All are born under the astrological sign of Aquarius, and all of them have been characterized monsters or psychopaths beings. Looks like a program of movie bussines for aquarians women/actresses.

ABOUT "KILLING IN A SMALL TOWN":
Barbara Hershey is excellent and several scenes: Remarkable weeping/leaking Objective scene (minute 4.oo), Erotic moment followed by the tragic phonecall, Repression scene. Very good teleplay by Cynthia Cidre. Gyllenhall excellent actor's director.

The objective scene of "crying" reminded me the final of the short story "Miss Grill" of Katherine Mansfield (disciple of Gurdjieff) a pathetic case of total identification. Here the beginning and the final of this story.

MISS BRILL (1920)
By Katherine Mansfield

Although it was so brilliantly fine - the blue sky powdered with gold and great spots of light like white wine splashed over the Jardins Publiques - Miss Brill was glad that she had decided on her fur. The air was motionless, but when you opened your mouth there was just a faint chill, like a chill from a glass of iced water before you sip, and now and again a leaf came drifting - from nowhere, from the sky. Miss Brill put up her hand and touched her fur. Dear little thing! It was nice to feel it again. She had taken it out of its box that afternoon, shaken out the moth-powder, given it a good brush, and rubbed the life back into the dim little eyes. "What has been happening to me?" said the sad little eyes. Oh, how sweet it was to see them snap at her again from the red eiderdown! ... But the nose, which was of some black composition, wasn't at all firm. It must have had a knock, somehow. Never mind - a little dab of black sealing-wax when the time came - when it was absolutely necessary ... Little rogue! Yes, she really felt like that about it. Little rogue biting its tail just by her left ear. She could have taken it off and laid it on her lap and stroked it. She felt a tingling in her hands and arms, but that came from walking, she supposed. And when she breathed, something light and sad - no, not sad, exactly - something gentle seemed to move in her bosom.
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On her way home she usually bought a slice of honey-cake at the baker's. It was her Sunday treat. Sometimes there was an almond in her slice, sometimes not. It made a great difference. If there was an almond it was like carrying home a tiny present - a surprise - something that might very well not have been there. She hurried on the almond Sundays and struck the match for the kettle in quite a dashing way.

But to-day she passed the baker's by, climbed the stairs, went into the little dark room - her room like a cupboard - and sat down on the red eiderdown. She sat there for a long time. The box that the fur came out of was on the bed. She unclasped the necklet quickly; quickly, without looking, laid it inside. But when she put the lid on she thought she heard something crying.
 
Hildegarda said:
Laura said:
at one moment loose themselves and kill someone or kill themselves like having a illness like cancer. In both situations is a anger so strong and coming from so deep that really is scary.

I think that a very big part of it is repression of anger.

a book has been recommended on the forum, "When Body Says No", by Gabor Mate. It explores in depth the relation of repressing emotions such as anger, and physical illness.

Thanks Hildegarda for reminding me of this book. Just put it in my cart, will order soon.
I also have some repressed anger issues which I didn't know about until I started doing EE on a regular basis, after a few weeks, I was angry all the time at everything and everyone for no reason, needless to say I'm very much looking forward to reading this book.

Just watched A Killing in a small town a week ago.
I failed to not speculate while watching the movie, especially since it was pretty obvious who the killer was from the phone call on.
In this failure, all the bigger impact of the truth had on me as it unfolded.

Very well worth the watch

And it's just despicable and unbelievable that they used to think children don't feel pain the same way because they're not developed enough...
Weren't those doctors who came up with this illusory theory children once? Didn't they ever get hurt??
 
I just watched "A Killing in a small town". I was not expecting anything so I had no clue how Candy was involved in the death of the woman in the movie. Although Candy looked very innocent at the beginning, I felt very strange watching how Candy was acting in the police investigation and hypnosis session. It wasn't until I saw the ax, everything came to clear understanding. When Candy was struggling fighting back with ax, I wanted scream as she was. What if I was in the situation? Will I fight back and stub the lady? probably... It is so horrific to imagine that it happened in the similar way in real life. I am glad that as least she was giving a fair judgment by the court at the end.
 
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