How’s your sleep lately?

I fall asleep very easily. I also take every other day 1g of magnesium byglicinate and have been taking boron glycinate during the day which increases mineral absorption. I wake up energized in the morning and remember often my dreams. Even though lately it has been dreams about me fighting or hiding. I keep my phone away or in airplane mode for the minimum emf exposure. Glycine have been working well as well for getting good night rest and falling asleep.
 
I have been having sleeping problems for many years. Seems to have a lot to do with the “older woman thing” in my case. I used to sleep like a log right into my forties. Once I even slept through an earthquake (not a severe one but the house shook quite a bit from what my family told me).

Falling asleep is easy for me but then I wake up in the middle of the night and often can’t go back to sleep for several hours. One factor of the sleeplessness are, apparently, my high cortisol levels.

At any rate, a while ago I bought the supplement “ashwagandha” (in powder form) and have been taking it either right before going to sleep or sometimes when I wake up at night. Often in combination with melatonin and magnesium glycinate (the latter two I have been taking before).

It doesn’t always work, but noticeably often I don’t lie awake nearly as long as before.
 
At any rate, a while ago I bought the supplement “ashwagandha” (in powder form) and have been taking it either right before going to sleep or sometimes when I wake up at night. Often in combination with melatonin and magnesium glycinate (the latter two I have been taking before).

It doesn’t always work, but noticeably often I don’t lie awake nearly as long as before
I've got the same issues, wake up multiple times during the night, but have trouble going back to sleep sometimes after the 3AM wakeup. Ashwagandha revs me up, even if I take it in the morning, I have trouble sleeping. And it's in almost all the "stress and cortisol" supplements. :rolleyes:
 
At any rate, a while ago I bought the supplement “ashwagandha” (in powder form) and have been taking it either right before going to sleep or sometimes when I wake up at night. Often in combination with melatonin and magnesium glycinate (the latter two I have been taking before).

I am glad Ashwagandha helped you, it was one of the plants that I consider an ally. At first I had a tincture of it, but recently I learned that it extracts its properties better in fats/oils so I bought the powder and I mix a teaspoon with butter and take it in my hot chocolate with some kind of nut milk and honey. Seems to work well. I take it in the morning for reducing the anxiety of the day (older woman problems here too!) and it works really well, but I also sleep much better at night.

I have been having sleep problems since my early 40s and last year it was a huge deal if I got 5hrs of sleep each night. That's when I started investigating the herbs a bit more. Another one that helped me was Skullcap. Scutellaria lateriflora in particular is for waking up at night and not being able to fall asleep again. And though I haven't tried this one yet, I heard a couple of testimonies mentioning that Hawthorn as a tea with honey before going to sleep is a specific for "waking up at 3 am". Hawthorn berries, leaves and flowers, all share the same properties, so whichever you find. If you have access to Hawthorn bushes/trees, you can make the tea with fresh berries, leaves, flowers.

've got the same issues, wake up multiple times during the night, but have trouble going back to sleep sometimes after the 3AM wakeup. Ashwagandha revs me up, even if I take it in the morning, I have trouble sleeping. And it's in almost all the "stress and cortisol" supplements. :rolleyes:

I don't know if you ever tried it but Tulsi/Holy Basil is very well tolerated by most people and it has cortisol-reducing properties, among other things, including calming effects on the heart and the nervous system to help promote good sleep. You might have to try it as a tea 2-3 x day for a week to really feel its effects if what you are experiencing is chronic. Also, see info on Hawthorn above. Hawthorn leaves and flowers will be a great pairing with Tulsi, taste-wise and properties-wise if you want to give it a go.
 
I have been having sleeping problems for many years. Seems to have a lot to do with the “older woman thing” in my case. I used to sleep like a log right into my forties. [...]

Falling asleep is easy for me but then I wake up in the middle of the night and often can’t go back to sleep for several hours. One factor of the sleeplessness are, apparently, my high cortisol levels.

Thank you all for the tips, everyone. The above describes me to a T, except that it only started a few months ago. Maybe it's the beginning of perimenopause, and/or related to high cortisol (which I have too). Every 2 days, sometimes every day for several days in a row, or not at all for a few days, I wake up in the middle of the night, and stay awake for an hour or two. I'm going to try some of your suggestions. :-) I can still fall asleep in an instant with a book on my lap, but I sure miss sleeping like a log!
 
I don't know if you ever tried it but Tulsi/Holy Basil is very well tolerated by most people and it has cortisol-reducing properties, among other things, including calming effects on the heart and the nervous system to help promote good sleep. You might have to try it as a tea 2-3 x day for a week to really feel its effects if what you are experiencing is chronic

You could also try Lemon Balm tea. In my experience it has a calming effect if you drink 2 -3 cups throughout the day.
 
You could also try Lemon Balm tea. In my experience it has a calming effect if you drink 2 -3 cups throughout the day
I don't know if you ever tried it but Tulsi/Holy Basil is very well tolerated by most people and it has cortisol-reducing properties, among other things, including calming effects on the heart and the nervous system to help promote good sleep. You might have to try it as a tea 2-3 x day
I'm not a tea drinker, plus I would be up all night going to the babathroo with more than one cup. :-D I see they are all available in capsule form which I think would be better suited, for me anyway.
 
It always takes me about 30 min to fall asleep and I always wake up a couple of times or more during the night. It seems to coincide with having to change position at the end of a sleep cycle. Sometimes, I wake up at 3-4 am every night and it takes me at least 30-60 min to fall back asleep.

If I sleep alone in my bed, I will normally be able to fall back asleep quite fast. I used to have problems falling back asleep if my partner slept with me, so now he is banned from my bed lol

I tried taking melatonin once... 5mg and it kept me awake all night in my bed. Total insomnia like I never had in my life. I kept my eyes closed but I was seeing some weird fractals under my lids; very annoying. I'm never taking that again and I returned the bottle to the store.

I often crash mid-afternoon from fatigue and I have to take a 2h nap.
Since last Saturday I've felt quite awful, but it seems to be a mix of food cheating and hormones cycle.
CBD oil doesn't help me sleep either. I only take it before bed if I have sore muscles after an intense workout.
I sleep better if I do a 30 min (or more) QiGong or Yoga routine at least once a day.
Drinking herbal tea before bed does help, but often I end up having to go to the bathroom at 3am, which is counterproductive.
 
I've gone through bouts of strange sleeplessness... Lately I've been waking up at 1:13 AM on the dot, a few nights in a row, completely refreshed! after about maybe 90 mins, which is about one sleep cycle.

One thing I've learned personally is that, if something's bothering me emotionally or mentally, I will not fall asleep, I have to work things out before I do, it's like my mind won't allow me to ignore something, and I am the type of person that can find a way to stay busy all my waking hours, so my mind goes.. welp, you've been ignoring me for a whole day, now it's my turn to ignore your wishes to simply go to sleep, lol. So, that's another aspect of sleep that I wanted to share, if there's anything bothering you, then it may be worth dedicating some of your waking hours to it so that it won't come rushing as you finally sit in silence.

Another practice I've learned, which is rather difficult, but it does cut the feedback loop of sleeplessness, is to not get angry or frustrated at sleeplessness, that just prevents one from going to sleep even more, so there's that.

And a decent amount of physical activity through the day, not too close to bedtime, is very helpful in my opinion.

That isn't to discount anything environmental or global about sleeplessness, there's so much going on in the world and in the cosmos around us, that it would not be surprising if some of it seeps into our quiet moments. I was recently reading Peter Levine and one of the ideas he talks about, this limbic resonance, much like animals who will react to a threat they may not be aware of, but just noticing that another animal in their group identified it (like when one dog barks, all the dogs bark in solidarity), I wonder if even if we're not experiencing some of the tension and misery directly, our human connection to the rest of the humans in the world, might be creating that sort of resonant reaction to said misery and chaos, just speculating here of course.
 
I also have been watching the series of lectures with Huberman and Matt Walker as I have been having issues the past few months with either being unable to fall asleep or waking up and staring at the ceiling for hours (not recommended). There are several in the series, but the most recent one i watched discussed caffeine, lighting, not staying in bed, etc. I became more stringent in implementing these and have noticed some improvement. Here's the 2nd in the series:


Some Timestamps
00:05:30 Basics of Sleep Hygiene, Regularity, Dark & Light
00:12:05 Light, Day & Night; Cortisol, Insomnia
00:18:45 Temperature; “Walk It Out”; Alcohol & Caffeine
00:26:05 Sleep Association, Bed vs. Sofa
00:29:43 Tool: Falling Asleep; Meditation, Breathing
00:36:37 Alcohol & Sleep Disruption
00:49:25 Caffeine - None after noon, if possible!
01:02:04 Cannabis: THC vs. CBD, REM Sleep, Withdrawal - THC suppresses REM sleep - CBD can be helpful, but only if you take enough. Hard to know how much you are getting.
01:12:03 Sleep Hygiene Basics
01:20:23 Tool: Sleep Deprivation & Exercise
01:24:11 Insomnia Intervention & Bedtime Rescheduling, Sleep Confidence
01:32:58 Wind-Down Routine; Mental Walk; Clocks & Phones
01:50:07 Temperature Manipulation, Warm Bath Effect & Sleep, Sauna
02:04:36 Acoustic Stimulation, White Noise, Pink Noise
02:34:12 Acetylcholine, Serotonin, Peptides; Balance
 
I have been having sleeping problems for many years. Seems to have a lot to do with the “older woman thing” in my case. I used to sleep like a log right into my forties. Once I even slept through an earthquake (not a severe one but the house shook quite a bit from what my family told me).

Falling asleep is easy for me but then I wake up in the middle of the night and often can’t go back to sleep for several hours. One factor of the sleeplessness are, apparently, my high cortisol levels.

At any rate, a while ago I bought the supplement “ashwagandha” (in powder form) and have been taking it either right before going to sleep or sometimes when I wake up at night. Often in combination with melatonin and magnesium glycinate (the latter two I have been taking before).

It doesn’t always work, but noticeably often I don’t lie awake nearly as long as before.

I've been taking ashwagandha + Mg glycinate every night before bed, and I hardly ever wake up in the middle of the night now. Good stuff!
 
I also have been watching the series of lectures with Huberman and Matt Walker as I have been having issues the past few months with either being unable to fall asleep or waking up and staring at the ceiling for hours (not recommended). There are several in the series, but the most recent one i watched discussed caffeine, lighting, not staying in bed, etc. I became more stringent in implementing these and have noticed some improvement. Here's the 2nd in the series:


Some Timestamps
00:05:30 Basics of Sleep Hygiene, Regularity, Dark & Light
00:12:05 Light, Day & Night; Cortisol, Insomnia
00:18:45 Temperature; “Walk It Out”; Alcohol & Caffeine
00:26:05 Sleep Association, Bed vs. Sofa
00:29:43 Tool: Falling Asleep; Meditation, Breathing
00:36:37 Alcohol & Sleep Disruption
00:49:25 Caffeine - None after noon, if possible!
01:02:04 Cannabis: THC vs. CBD, REM Sleep, Withdrawal - THC suppresses REM sleep - CBD can be helpful, but only if you take enough. Hard to know how much you are getting.
01:12:03 Sleep Hygiene Basics
01:20:23 Tool: Sleep Deprivation & Exercise
01:24:11 Insomnia Intervention & Bedtime Rescheduling, Sleep Confidence
01:32:58 Wind-Down Routine; Mental Walk; Clocks & Phones
01:50:07 Temperature Manipulation, Warm Bath Effect & Sleep, Sauna
02:04:36 Acoustic Stimulation, White Noise, Pink Noise
02:34:12 Acetylcholine, Serotonin, Peptides; Balance

Andrew Huberman was recently interviewed on the Shawn Ryan show and has a new book coming out in April, 2025 titled "Protocols: An Operating Manuel for the Human Body"

The video is a long one at almost four hours.

 
An excellent article full of high-density information on the topic of sleep:


Iterintellectus said:

RETHINKING SLEEP​

Sleep is not mere passive rest. It is active biological optimization.

Each night represents a critical period where cellular repair, hormonal regulation, and neural regeneration either flourish or falter. While many view sleep as simply downtime, high performers recognize it as perhaps their most powerful tool for physiological and cognitive enhancement.

This is not another generic guide about lavender and warm milk. This is a precision protocol for human optimization through strategic sleep, grounded in cutting-edge research, distilled for implementation, and engineered for both biological sexes.
The best performance-enhancing drug on earth is sleep.
It’s free, legal, and 99% of people use it wrong

WHY SLEEP IS NON-NEGOTIABLE​

The scientific evidence is unequivocal: sleep is the foundation upon which all other performance is built.

Cognitive Function
A single night of poor sleep reduces working memory by 20-30% and creative problem-solving by up to 40% (1). After just four nights of 6-hour sleep, cognitive performance deteriorates to levels comparable to legal intoxication. Yet remarkably, subjective perception of this impairment remains minimal, creating a dangerous performance blind spot.

Hormonal Regulation
Sleep orchestrates your endocrine system with remarkable precision. Growth hormone, the primary driver of tissue repair and cellular regeneration, surges during deep sleep, with up to 70% of daily release occurring during your first sleep cycles (2). For men, testosterone production peaks during REM sleep in the early morning hours. Restrict sleep to 5 hours for one week, and testosterone levels decrease by 10-15%, equivalent to aging a decade overnight (3).

Metabolic Function
Just one week of insufficient sleep reduces insulin sensitivity by 25-30%, shifting your body toward fat storage rather than utilization (4). Three nights of inadequate sleep increases the hunger hormone (ghrelin) by ~15% while decreasing the satiety hormone (leptin) by ~16%, creating conditions that promote overeating and fat accumulation.

Immune Efficiency
Your immune system relies on sleep to function optimally. One night of 4-hour sleep reduces natural killer (NK) cell activity by up to 70%, cells responsible for eliminating viruses and precancerous cells (5). Even a modest sleep restriction (6 hours nightly) doubles your risk of respiratory infection. Sleep is a cornerstone of immune resilience.

Longevity Implications
The epidemiological evidence is clear, chronic sleep deprivation correlates with a 12% increased all-cause mortality risk (6). Each hour below 7 hours increases cardiovascular disease risk by ~7%. This is not about comfort, it is about health span and lifespan.
Sleep is not a luxury. It is the biological foundation of performance, recovery, and resilience.

THE ARCHITECTURE OF SLEEP​

Sleep unfolds in precisely organized cycles, each with distinct physiological functions. Understanding this architecture is essential for optimization.

Sleep Stages Explained​

  • N1 (Light Sleep Transition): 5% of the night, the transition between wakefulness and sleep
  • N2 (Intermediate Sleep): 45-50% of the night, featuring sleep spindles that consolidate skills and procedural memory
  • N3/SWS (Deep Slow-Wave Sleep): 15-20% of the night, characterized by delta waves and profound physical restoration
  • REM (Rapid Eye Movement): 20-25% of the night, where dreams occur and emotional processing takes place
First Half Physiology: The first 3-4 hours contain proportionally more deep slow-wave sleep, when:
  • Growth hormone increases by 300% compared to waking levels
  • Tissue repair accelerates to 2-3× the daytime rate
  • The immune system performs surveillance and removes damaged cells
  • Brain consolidates declarative memory (facts, events, knowledge)
Second Half Physiology: The final 3-4 hours contain more REM sleep, during which:
  • Emotional memories are processed and integrated
  • Creative problem-solving capability improves by up to 33%
  • Testosterone production peaks in men
  • Brain connectivity patterns are optimized
The Glymphatic System
During deep sleep, your brain's waste-clearance system activates, becoming up to 60% more efficient than during wakefulness (7). Cerebrospinal fluid flows through brain tissue, removing metabolic waste, including beta-amyloid proteins associated with cognitive decline. This represents active neurological maintenance.

Emotional Processing
During REM sleep, the brain processes emotional experiences in a neurochemical environment different from wakefulness (8). This allows for the integration of experiences without their full emotional intensity, essentially separating the information from the emotional charge. This explains why inadequate REM sleep often leads to emotional reactivity and stress vulnerability.
You don't just sleep. You restore, recalibrate, and regenerate.

THE SEX SPLIT: MEN VS. WOMEN​

Sleep optimization is not gender-neutral. Men and women face different sleep challenges and opportunities due to hormonal, anatomical, and neurological differences.

For Men​

The Testosterone-REM Connection
For men, REM sleep, particularly in the morning hours, facilitates testosterone production. During these final sleep cycles, luteinizing hormone (LH) pulses signal the testes to increase testosterone output. This creates a critical "testosterone window" in the early morning hours (typically 4-7 AM for someone sleeping 10 PM-6 AM).

Shortening sleep by waking too early directly reduces this hormonal opportunity. Research demonstrates that restricting sleep to 5 hours for just one week decreases testosterone by 10-15%, equivalent to ageing 10-15 years hormonally (3).

Sleep Apnea: The Hormonal Disruptor
Men are twice as likely to develop obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) as women, due to anatomical differences and fat distribution patterns. OSA fragments sleep architecture, preventing the consolidated REM phases necessary for testosterone production. Men with untreated moderate to severe sleep apnea show testosterone levels 10-15% lower than age-matched controls (9).

Dual-Phase Recovery Model
Male physiological recovery depends on a two-phase sleep window:
  • First half: Growth hormone for tissue repair and muscle protein synthesis
  • Second half: Testosterone surge for strength and metabolic health
Men who compromise either window through sleep habits inadvertently impair their recovery and hormonal balance.

For Women​

Cycle-Influenced Sleep Architecture
Women experience significant sleep architecture variations throughout their menstrual cycle:
  • Follicular Phase: Rising estrogen improves sleep quality, increasing both REM and SWS. Sleep efficiency peaks during this phase, with fewer awakenings and deeper sleep quality.
  • Luteal Phase: Progesterone has sedative effects but increases core body temperature by 0.3-0.5°C, fragmenting sleep architecture (10). The luteal phase sees a 20-30% increase in nighttime awakenings compared to the follicular phase.
  • Premenstrual Days: The rapid hormonal fluctuations before menstruation can deteriorate sleep quality significantly. Sleep onset latency increases, REM sleep decreases, and core temperature elevation disrupts deep sleep.
Pregnancy and Sleep Architecture
During pregnancy, progesterone levels rise dramatically, initially increasing sleep duration but eventually causing sleep fragmentation. By the third trimester, approximately 75% of women experience significant insomnia and sleep architecture disruption, with reductions in both REM and SWS.

Menopausal Sleep Challenges
The menopausal transition brings significant sleep challenges as estrogen and progesterone decline. Hot flashes directly disrupt sleep continuity, while declining hormones reduce SWS by up to 25%. Approximately 40-60% of menopausal women develop chronic insomnia during this transition.
Sleep optimization must adapt to your hormonal reality. One protocol doesn't fit all.

BIOLOGICAL PRINCIPLES OF SLEEP​

Your sleep operates under four fundamental biological principles that must be respected for optimization:

1. The Circadian System​

Your suprachiasmatic nucleus (SCN) in the hypothalamus functions as the master clock, synchronizing all biological processes to a roughly 24-hour rhythm. This system controls the timing of:
  • Melatonin: The darkness hormone that rises 1-2 hours before your natural bedtime, peaking in the middle of the night
  • Cortisol: The awakening hormone that increases 30-45 minutes after waking (the Cortisol Awakening Response)
  • Core Body Temperature: Drops by ~1°C to initiate sleep, reaches a minimum around 3-4 AM, then rises toward morning
Irregular sleep timing creates a state of "circadian misalignment," essentially internal desynchronization that compromises all aspects of performance.

2. Zeitgeber Hierarchy​

Your circadian system requires daily synchronizing cues (zeitgebers) to maintain proper timing. These follow a strict hierarchy of influence:
  • Light: By far the most powerful zeitgeber, with morning light advancing your clock (making you sleepy earlier) and evening light delaying it (making you sleepy later)
  • Physical Activity: Exercise timing shifts your circadian phase, with morning exercise advancing your clock and evening exercise delaying it
  • Feeding Timing: When you eat affects clock genes in peripheral tissues, with late-night eating creating metabolic circadian misalignment
  • Social Interaction: Human contact and schedules provide weaker but meaningful timing cues

3. Sleep Pressure Mechanics​

Sleep drive builds during wakefulness through the accumulation of adenosine, a neuromodulator that creates the sensation of sleepiness. Caffeine works by blocking adenosine receptors, creating the temporary impression of reduced sleep pressure while the actual adenosine continues to accumulate.

This system operates independently from your circadian rhythm. Optimal sleep happens when high adenosine pressure coincides with the circadian phase appropriate for sleep, typically 14-16 hours after your morning wake time.

4. Sleep Debt Accumulation​

Sleep loss accumulates as "sleep debt" that cannot be fully resolved with a single recovery night. Research shows that after two weeks of sleeping 6 hours nightly, cognitive performance degrades to the same level as after 24 hours of total sleep deprivation (1). However, subjects reported feeling only "slightly tired," revealing a significant self-perception gap.

Each additional night of insufficient sleep compounds this debt, requiring multiple nights of adequate sleep for full recovery. This is why consistent sleep habits outperform occasional "catch-up" sleep for all performance metrics.
These principles reflect biological realities. They can be optimized but not circumvented.

SLEEP ARCHITECTURE OPTIMIZATION​

Engineering optimal sleep architecture requires precision timing and behavioral consistency:

Total Architecture Requirements​

Research has shown that most adults need between 7.5 and 9 hours of total sleep opportunity (time in bed) to achieve adequate architecture. This generally yields:
  • 90-110 minutes of REM sleep (4-5 complete cycles)
  • 70-90 minutes of deep slow-wave sleep
  • 90-95% sleep efficiency (percentage of time in bed actually asleep)

Cycle Protection Protocol​

Since each 90-minute sleep cycle serves distinct functions, both the beginning and end of your sleep period must be protected:
  • First 90-180 Minutes: Contains the highest percentage of SWS and greatest GH release. Going to bed too late or fragmenting early sleep significantly impairs physical recovery.
  • Final 90-180 Minutes: Contains the highest percentage of REM and (in men) peak testosterone production. Waking too early or having fragmented late sleep impairs cognitive and hormonal functions.

Timing Precision​

Your sleep timing should align with your chronotype (genetic tendency toward morningness or eveningness) while maintaining consistency:
  • Early Chronotype (Larks): Optimal window approximately 9:30 PM - 5:30 AM
  • Intermediate Type: Optimal window approximately 10:30 PM - 6:30 AM
  • Late Chronotype (Owls): Optimal window approximately 11:30 PM - 7:30 AM

Regularity Principle​

Research shows that sleep timing consistency predicts health outcomes more strongly than total duration (11). Varying your sleep/wake times by more than 60-90 minutes between workdays and free days creates "social jet lag"—equivalent to crossing multiple time zones weekly.

The protocol requires:
  • Fixed wake time seven days per week (±30 minutes maximum variation)
  • Consistent bedtime that ensures adequate sleep opportunity
  • Minimized weekend timing shifts (no more than 60 minutes)

Temperature Optimization​

Core body temperature must drop by ~1°C to initiate and maintain optimal sleep architecture. Research shows bedroom temperatures of 65-67°F (18-19°C) create the ideal thermal environment for this drop.

For women in the luteal phase, when body temperature rises by 0.3-0.5°C naturally, a room temperature at the lower end of this range becomes even more important.
Sleep architecture is not something you passively experience but something you actively engineer through precise timing, environmental control, and behavioral consistency.

CYCLE-SYNCED SLEEP (FOR WOMEN)​

Women can align sleep strategies with their hormonal fluctuations for optimal results:

Follicular Phase (Days 1-14)​

Rising estrogen creates favorable conditions for deep sleep and recovery.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Capitalize on improved sleep architecture for high-intensity training
  • Leverage enhanced cognitive performance from better SWS and REM
  • Standard temperature settings work well (65-68°F/18-20°C)
  • Core supplements perform optimally during this phase

Ovulation Phase (Days 13-15)​

The estrogen peak often creates a period of lighter sleep and increased energy.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Maintain strict sleep timing despite feeling less sleepy
  • Avoid extending active hours despite energy surge
  • Consider extending the wind-down routine by 15-30 minutes
  • Minimize evening light exposure to counter the tendency toward delayed sleep

Luteal Phase (Days 15-28)​

Rising progesterone increases body temperature and often fragments sleep architecture.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Lower bedroom temperature by 2-3°F to counteract the 0.3-0.5°C rise in core temperature
  • Consider cooling mattress pad or lighter bedding
  • Add 300-400mg magnesium glycinate to the core supplement protocol
  • Increase morning light exposure to strengthen circadian signaling
  • Add 200-300mg theanine to counteract potential anxiety-driven sleep disruption

Premenstrual Days (Days 25-28)​

Rapid hormone fluctuations often create the most challenging sleep of the month.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Implement a "protective sleep protocol":
    • Earlier bedtime (30-60 minutes) to accommodate longer sleep latency
    • Strict electronics cutoff (2+ hours before bed)
    • Extended wind-down routine
    • Enhanced temperature management (63-65°F/17-18°C)
    • Full supplement protocol
  • Consider journaling to reduce rumination
  • Schedule critical performance tasks outside this window when possible

Perimenopause Considerations​

As women approach menopause, sleep architecture begins to change significantly:
  • Hot flashes may fragment sleep (use cooling technologies)
  • Declining estrogen reduces serotonin (consider 100mg 5-HTP with 400mg magnesium)
  • Anxiety may increase (add 200-300mg theanine, 500mg ashwagandha)
  • Consider discussing low-dose bioidentical hormone therapy with the healthcare provider
By synchronizing sleep strategies with the menstrual cycle, women can mitigate hormonal disruptions and maintain consistent sleep architecture throughout the month.

TESTOSTERONE OPTIMIZATION PROTOCOL (FOR MEN)​

Men can protect testosterone production by safeguarding the sleep architecture that supports it:

The Testosterone-Sleep Connection​

In healthy men, 60-80% of daily testosterone production occurs during sleep, with the highest output during REM-dominant cycles in the early morning hours (typically 4-7 AM for a 10 PM - 6 AM sleeper).

REM Sleep and Testosterone: Research confirms that luteinizing hormone (LH) during REM cycles signals the testes to increase testosterone production. Factors that reduce REM quantity or quality directly impact testosterone output (3).

Architecture Protection Protocol​

  1. Preserve Morning REM:
    The final 2-3 sleep cycles contain the highest percentage of REM and correspond with peak testosterone production. Waking too early (or having fragmented late sleep) directly reduces this hormonal window.

  2. Minimize REM Suppressants:
    • Alcohol: Reduces REM sleep by 30-60% even at moderate doses
    • THC: Decreases REM percentage by 15-20% in regular users
    • Most Sleep Medications: Benzodiazepines and Z-drugs reduce both quality and quantity of REM
  3. Address Sleep Apnea Proactively:
    Men with untreated OSA show 10-15% lower testosterone levels than age-matched controls (9). Effective interventions:
    • Side-sleeping reduces apnea events by up to 50% in most men
    • Weight loss of 10% can improve AHI scores by 20-30%
    • Avoiding alcohol within 3 hours of bedtime significantly reduces apnea severity
    • Formal testing and treatment if symptoms persist
  4. Sleep Extension for Testosterone Optimization:
    Research shows that increasing sleep duration from 5.5 to 8 hours increases morning testosterone by 10-15%. For men with chronically restricted sleep, a structured sleep extension protocol:
    • Add 15-30 minutes of sleep opportunity each week
    • Maintain consistent wake time (adjust bedtime earlier)
    • Expect full T restoration after 3-4 weeks of optimal sleep
  5. Morning Light for Circadian Reinforcement:
    30-60 minutes of bright morning light (ideally outdoor sunlight) within 30-60 minutes of waking reinforces circadian rhythm and may support LH pulsatility.
For men, sleep represents a critical period for hormonal regulation and recovery.

SUPPLEMENTS: TIERED PROTOCOL​

Supplements can enhance sleep architecture when built upon the foundation of proper behavior and environment. Implementation requires a tiered approach:

Tier 1 (Core Protocol)​

These have the strongest evidence and should form the foundation of supplementation:

Magnesium Glycinate: 300-400mg, 30-60 minutes before bed
  • Mechanism: NMDA receptor modulation and muscle relaxation
  • Evidence: Multiple randomized controlled trials show improvements in sleep onset and maintenance
  • Specific Benefits: Reduces sleep latency by 15-20%, improves sleep efficiency by 10-15% (12)
  • Notes: Particularly effective in women during luteal phase; well-tolerated with minimal side effects
Glycine: 3 grams, 30-60 minutes before bed
  • Mechanism: Peripheral vasodilation and modest thermoregulation
  • Evidence: Several controlled trials show improvements in subjective sleep quality (13)
  • Specific Benefits: Accelerates the drop in core body temperature; reduces next-day fatigue
  • Notes: Sweet taste can be mixed with water or taken in capsule form
L-Theanine: 200mg, 30-60 minutes before bed
  • Mechanism: Increases alpha brain waves and GABA, reduces glutamate
  • Evidence: Well-documented anxiolytic effects that support sleep onset
  • Specific Benefits: Reduces sleep latency by 14-20%, particularly effective for anxiety-driven insomnia
  • Notes: Pairs well with magnesium; no tolerance or dependence issues
Melatonin (Situational Use Only): 0.3-1mg, 30-60 minutes before desired sleep time
  • Mechanism: Direct activation of melatonin receptors in SCN
  • Evidence: Strong support for circadian phase-shifting and jet lag; modest effects on primary insomnia (14)
  • Specific Benefits: Reduces sleep latency by 7-8 minutes; shifts circadian phase when used consistently
  • Notes: Not for daily long-term use; lowest effective dose recommended (most commercial products are overdosed)

Tier 2 (Situational Protocol)​

These have moderate evidence and should be added based on specific needs:

Apigenin: 50mg, 30-60 minutes before bed
  • Mechanism: Modest GABA-agonist effects
  • Evidence: Limited human trials but promising mechanism and safety profile
  • Specific Benefits: May enhance deep sleep percentage and reduce anxiety
  • Notes: Found naturally in chamomile; minimal side effect profile
Chamomile Extract: 300-600mg standardized extract, 60 minutes before bed
  • Mechanism: Contains apigenin and other flavonoids with mild sedative effects
  • Evidence: Several small trials show modest improvements in sleep quality
  • Specific Benefits: Gentle anxiolytic effect; cultural sleep association enhances relaxation response
  • Notes: Well-tolerated; can be used as tea but extract provides more consistent dosing
Ashwagandha: 300-600mg of extract (standardized to 5% withanolides), early evening
  • Mechanism: Adaptogenic effects, cortisol reduction
  • Evidence: Several RCTs show significant stress reduction and sleep improvements
  • Specific Benefits: Most effective for stress-induced sleep disruption
  • Notes: Works best when taken consistently over 2-4 weeks; not for acute effects

Implementation Protocol:​

  1. Begin with behavioral and environmental optimization FIRST
  2. Add only one supplement at a time, maintaining for 5-7 days before assessment
  3. Start with Tier 1 before advancing to higher tiers
  4. Document effects using consistent metrics (sleep onset, awakenings, morning energy)
  5. Cycle supplements periodically to prevent tolerance
Remember: supplements cannot overcome behavioral and environmental factors. They are enhancers, not foundations.

SLEEP DISRUPTORS (AND HOW TO ADDRESS THEM)​

These are the primary factors that compromise sleep architecture. Address them systematically:

Blue Light After Sunset​

Exposure to blue-wavelength light (460-480nm) from screens, LEDs, and fluorescent lighting suppresses melatonin by 50-80% and delays your circadian phase by up to 3 hours.

Reduction Strategy:
  • Implement sunset-to-sunrise blue light blocking (software, glasses, bulb selection)
  • Set electronics to automatically shift to warm light at sunset
  • Use amber glasses for all evening screen use (minimum 60% blue light reduction)
  • Switch to warm, dim lighting in evening spaces (max 2700K color temperature)
  • All screens off 90+ minutes before bed (highly recommended)

Caffeine Management​

With a half-life of 5-7 hours (longer in women on hormonal contraceptives), caffeine blocks adenosine receptors while adenosine itself continues to accumulate, creating sleep pressure you can't perceive until the caffeine metabolizes.

Optimization Strategy:
  • No caffeine within 8-10 hours of bedtime (noon cutoff for 10 pm sleep)
  • Be aware of hidden sources (chocolate, tea, pre-workouts, medications)
  • Taper gradually (100mg reduction weekly) if currently above 400mg daily
  • Switch to low-caffeine tea (white or green) as an intermediate step

Alcohol Considerations​

Despite subjective feelings of relaxation, alcohol significantly affects sleep architecture:
  • Reduces REM sleep by 30-60%
  • Fragments second-half sleep, increasing awakenings by 300%
  • Worsens sleep apnea severity by 50-100%
  • Creates rebound alertness when blood alcohol drops to zero
Management Strategy:
  • No alcohol within 3 hours of bedtime
  • Maximum 1 standard drink for women, 2 for men if sleep quality is prioritized
  • Complete abstinence before high-performance days
  • If you drink, maintain hydration before, during, and after consumption

Late-Night Eating​

Consuming calories near bedtime increases metabolic activity that disrupts the natural drop in core body temperature necessary for sleep initiation.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Finish last meal 2-3 hours before bed
  • If post-dinner snacking is necessary, limit to 150 calories of predominantly protein
  • Avoid high-glycemic carbohydrates within 2 hours of bed (blood sugar fluctuations can cause awakenings)
  • Prioritize earlier meals (larger breakfast/lunch, smaller dinner)

Consistent Sleep Timing​

Varying sleep/wake times by more than 60-90 minutes between days creates "social jet lag" equivalent to crossing multiple time zones weekly.

Optimization Strategy:
  • Set consistent wake time (±30 minutes) for all seven days
  • Adjust bedtime based on required sleep duration (typically 7.5-9 hours earlier)
  • Use morning light exposure within 30-60 minutes of waking to anchor the circadian rhythm
  • No weekend sleep-ins exceeding 60 minutes past normal wake time

Digital Stimulation​

Beyond blue light, the content itself matters. Social media, news, work emails, and entertainment trigger dopamine pathways and create a mental state incompatible with sleep.

Management Strategy:
  • Create a technology buffer zone (all screens off 90+ minutes before bed)
  • Keep electronics out of the bedroom (recommended)
  • Replace evening screen use with reading, conversation, or relaxation practices
  • Implement digital minimalism after 8 pm (airplane mode, notifications off)
Each of these factors independently affects sleep architecture. Their combined effect creates a significant compromise of sleep quality that supplements alone cannot overcome.

ADDRESSING COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS​

The sleep optimization field contains several persistent misconceptions that undermine progress. Here are evidence-based corrections:

Misconception: "I Function Well on 5 Hours of Sleep"​

Evidence: Laboratory measurements show that after two weeks of 6-hour sleep, cognitive performance degrades to the same level as being awake for 24 hours straight (1). Yet subjects reported only feeling "slightly tired," revealing a significant self-perception gap.

While rare genetic mutations allow ~1% of the population to function on less sleep, the overwhelming probability is that you're experiencing significant cognitive, hormonal, and immunological deficits without realizing it.

Misconception: "Sleep Is a Luxury I Can't Afford"​

Evidence: Elite military units, top athletes, and high-performing executives prioritize sleep as a performance advantage. The correlation between sleep quality and performance is not theoretical, it is causal and well-documented.

The biological processes of testosterone production, growth hormone release, cognitive function, and immune system operation follow non-negotiable patterns tied to sleep architecture.

Misconception: "Blue Light Blocking Alone Fixes Sleep Issues"​

Evidence: While blue light-blocking glasses reduce melatonin suppression by 50-70%, they don't address:
  • Sleep timing inconsistency
  • Caffeine or alcohol effects
  • Mental stimulation from content
  • Ambient temperature issues
  • Sleep disorders like apnea
Blue blockers are one component of a comprehensive approach, not a complete solution.

Misconception: "Weekend Recovery Sleep Reverses Sleep Debt"​


Evidence: While recovery sleep helps, it cannot fully reverse the effects of chronic restriction. A pivotal study found that subjects allowed to "catch up" on weekends still experienced:
  • Reduced insulin sensitivity
  • Disrupted circadian gene expression
  • Similar weight gain to the sustained sleep deprivation group (15)
Consistent sleep is superior to the restriction/recovery cycle in all measured health outcomes.

Misconception: "I Can Train Myself to Need Less Sleep"​

Evidence: No credible research supports the notion that sleep needs can be meaningfully reduced through training. What occurs is adaptation to chronic sleep deprivation, essentially normalization of a suboptimal state. Performance measures still show significant impairment even when subjective sleepiness decreases.

The evidence suggests that genetic factors largely determine your sleep needs, and working against this biological reality creates chronic deficits in performance, recovery, and health.
Addressing these misconceptions is essential. Inaccurate beliefs about sleep create a foundation upon which no amount of optimization can build lasting improvements.

THE SLEEP OPTIMIZATION HIERARCHY​

Sleep optimization follows a structured hierarchy. Each layer builds upon the previous foundation:

FOUNDATION: CONSISTENCY​

  • Fixed wake time (±30 min) seven days per week
  • Consistent bedtime based on sleep need (7.5-9 hours earlier)
  • Regularity takes precedence over occasional perfect nights

LEVEL 2: CIRCADIAN ALIGNMENT​

  • Morning light exposure within 30-60 minutes of waking
  • Evening light reduction starting 2-3 hours before bed
  • Temperature management (65-67°F/18-19°C for most)
  • Consistent meal timing that ends 2-3 hours before bed
  • Strategically timed exercise (morning/afternoon ideal)

LEVEL 3: BEHAVIORAL PROTOCOL​

  • Electronics reduction 90+ minutes before bed
  • Structured wind-down routine (30+ minutes)
  • Caffeine management (none after 12-2pm)
  • Alcohol moderation (ideally none within 3 hours of bed)
  • Sleep environment optimization (dark, quiet, cool)
  • Stimulus control (bed is for sleep and rest only)

LEVEL 4: SUPPLEMENTATION​

  • Tier 1: Magnesium, Glycine, L-theanine
  • Tier 2: Apigenin, Chamomile, Ashwagandha (situational)
  • Tier 3: Advanced compounds for specific needs

LEVEL 5: ADVANCED OPTIMIZATION​

  • Temperature-regulating bedding
  • Advanced light management (automation, spectrum control)
  • Sleep tracking and data analysis
  • Chronotype-specific adjustments
  • Sex-specific protocols
Begin with the foundation of consistency, then systematically build upward. The fundamentals must be established before advancing to more specialized approaches.

SLEEP AS A PERFORMANCE MULTIPLIER​

Sleep is not passive downtime but your body's most powerful period of biological optimization.

While many view sleep as recovery time, it represents active physiological enhancement. Each night presents an opportunity for cellular repair, hormonal regulation, and neural optimization. There is no neutral outcome—either these processes function optimally or suboptimally.

The research consistently demonstrates:
  • Sleep quality predicts cognitive performance more strongly than IQ (16)
  • Optimal sleep architecture increases testosterone by 10-15% compared to restricted sleep (3)
  • Athletes who optimize sleep improve reaction time by 9% and accuracy by 9% (2)
  • Immune function can vary by up to 70% between optimal and poor sleep (5)
  • Decision-making under pressure shows 40% improvement with optimized sleep (1)
This represents a significant competitive advantage for those who prioritize sleep.

Sleep is not something you do. It is something you optimize—with the same precision you would apply to any other aspect of performance. The protocol outlined in this guide is not about "better rest" but about leveraging the full potential of your biology.
Those who master sleep master performance. Not because they feel more rested, but because they are physiologically optimized in ways that willpower alone cannot achieve.
Sleep optimally. Perform exceptionally.

Full Protocol:​

Sleep Protocol: Sex-Specific Optimization System
See the article for a complete list of references.
 
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I must do cardio for 45 mins every day - mid afternoon. 300 mcg melatonin. At times I take: taurine, pregnenolone, ( cannot have any type of cacao or chocolate after 1 pm), phone/lap top OFF, no metal on bed, no electric plugged in near bed, total silence and darkness, magnesium glycinate - (citrate in morning for energy).

There was a product called Balance from raw revelations that was wonderful. but with ALL of the other supps I do I could not afford on a regular basis. Doesn't take long to fall asleep - I try to stick with 930/10pm to 5 - 6 am schedule.
 
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